Love Is What Matters

A Voice from Heaven is your story about the healing process you went through after the death of your son and the psychic experience that allowed you to speak with him once more. How hard was it to put this story out in the world for people to read?

I am emotionally raw and vulnerable in the book due not only to grieving over the loss of our son but also the exposure of my innermost feelings and emotions. I told the story exactly as it happened and didn’t edit all my fears and raw emotions. I felt that doing so would not be true to the astonishing experience I had lived through the transcendental conversations with my departed son in the afterlife. He called me out on changes that I should make in my life. The book puts very intimate conversations and personal details into the public eye and that could probably make anyone uncomfortable. However, I knew I needed to tell our story and that story obviously involved me. The entire experience helped me heal from my grief – not entirely because I loved him too much to ever get over loving or missing him in this lifetime. But it helped me to move on a bit, to detach a little from the grief so that I could progress through the grieving process. I wanted to release the book to potentially help others that may be in grief over the loss of close loved ones.

Can you describe what the process was like and how you felt when Alec first began communicating with you?

It was honestly quite astonishing to me. While I had connected with him on three occasions during medium sessions, I had never connected with him directly by myself, nor did I have any idea I could. To that date, I had never had any psychic experiences that I remembered. The medium in my last session explained to me how I should approach the co-writing of the book. She suggested that I sit down, with purpose and intention, in the wee hours of the morning when the veil between realms is thinnest, to begin a transcendental writing session. Before initiating writing, I was to ask for guidance and help from my spirit guides and those of my son. She also told me to begin with my own thoughts and questions and just see what happened. I was astonished and grateful for every day that it worked.

Initially, I was totally overwhelmed with love and gratitude that my son was communicating with me. It almost made me hyperventilate, and at one point my heart was racing. But he convinced me to breathe and calm down, telling me I could do it and eventually I did. I’m so glad that I was able to share this experience with him. I learned so much from him about the afterlife, spirit guides and myself.

You share several insights Alec shared with you about the other side. Can you share a personally surprising revelation from Alec about the afterlife?

There were so many surprises! The first and foremost relief was that my son was not lost somewhere in the ethereal realm, but was surrounded by love, teaching and thriving in the afterlife. I was not aware that there was a school in the afterlife, nor that the afterlife involved an eternity of learning. More than anything I suppose was the inter-connectedness of spirits to all things and the infinite number of dimensions that spirits can be in simultaneously, including the past, present and future. It truly is mind-boggling, a quantum leap if you will, and it is enormously difficult for us humans to fathom.

How have these revelations influenced your perspective on life?

It’s truly amazing how much the information communicated from our son to me has changed my beliefs and perspectives. I had this naive view of Heaven as a place you go to, far up in the sky in space, where you lived happily ever after, if you’ve been good in your life. And a hell of fire and brimstone awaited you if you led a sinful life. I now am certain that God is pure love and could not act out of anything but love. Now that I understand that better, it is difficult to imagine God judging someone or sending them to a terrible place for torture. I believe that hell was made up by people in the church to discourage people from sin. I believe that love will surround us when we enter the afterlife, and we will be allowed to accept or decline that love. I know now that we’ve all led many physical lives and that our purpose in these lives is to learn different lessons to become a more loving soul. Everything in our physical life and in the afterlife comes down to love.

My life is changing in many ways. I’m exploring more ways that I can help others, with particular focus on those in grief and those in the throes of addiction. I have become more aware of my gifts and how I need to use them. I understand now that love must be the integral core of my life, not my career or material things or wealth. And my life is so much richer and fuller for learning it all from my son.

The astonishing account of how a mother connected with her deceased son, and the mind-blowing revelations he shared about life after death.
When Cindy Girman got the news that her 22-year old son had died from an overdose, the shock and grief consumed her like she herself was on the precipice of death. Weeks turned into months of agonizing questions over where exactly her beloved Alec’s soul had gone, and worry that he was lost and alone.
Near the first anniversary of his death, Cindy, who had never had any prior psychic experience, was awestruck when she began receiving direct communications from the other side. Written in his voice, she shares the intimate details of Alec’s experience and the insights he passed on during the eight weeks they spent co-writing this book.
You’ll learn the answer to questions like:
What does life look like on the other side?
Can we explore other universes and dimensions?
What role do spirits play?
How do we spend our time on the other side?
And most importantly,What is the purpose for humans living a physical life on earth?

If you’ve ever wondered what happens when we die, are curious about the spiritual realm, or are still grappling with the profound grief over the loss of a loved one, the revelations from Alec were meant to reach you.

A bridge between two realms, the intimate transcendental messages from a son in spirit to his mother on earth finally connect the dots that have remained a mystery throughout time —And bring profound understanding and comfort to the part of us that knows there must be something more.