Danissa Wilson’s Kissing Toads is the kind of book that sneaks up on you. It starts out like your typical coming-of-age tale of a young woman, Annie, wading through the chaotic waters of romance in the ’80s and ’90s, hoping to find her Prince Charming. But as you turn the pages, you realize this is more than just a love story. It’s a messy, hilarious, and sometimes gut-wrenching journey of self-discovery, resilience, and the realization that sometimes, the fairy tale we’ve been chasing isn’t the one we actually need.

One thing I absolutely loved about Wilson’s writing is her ability to balance humor with heartbreak. Annie’s experiences range from laugh-out-loud ridiculous to moments that truly sting. These are the moments that make Kissing Toads feel so raw and real. Wilson doesn’t just give us a woman searching for love; she gives us a woman navigating a world that constantly tells her what love should look like, only for her to realize that maybe she’s had it all wrong.

Annie’s mother is relentless in her belief that her daughter’s ultimate goal in life should be to “fetch herself a man.” That pressure is both maddening and relatable. The contrast between Annie’s youthful determination to fulfill that expectation and her later, painful questioning of whether she wasted her best years chasing a dream someone else planted in her head is beautifully done. One of the most poignant moments comes when she wonders if she failed in getting her “MRS” degree while earning her BA. That single line encapsulates so much about the way young women are conditioned to prioritize romance over self-fulfillment.

And then, there’s the love story at the heart of it all, just not the one Annie expects. The book’s final act brings both a twist and a moment of clarity. After years of chasing after one “toad” after another, Annie doesn’t find a prince, but someone even more unexpected. That’s what makes Kissing Toads so satisfying it’s not about Annie magically finding love, but about her finally seeing herself clearly enough to recognize it.

I’d recommend Kissing Toads to anyone who’s ever been on the wrong side of a bad relationship, struggled under the weight of expectations, or just enjoys a damn good story with characters who feel like old friends. It’s funny, it’s sharp, and it’s got a heart big enough to make you laugh and cry in the same chapter. Danissa Wilson has crafted a book that doesn’t just explore what it means to find love but it questions everything we’ve been told about it.

Pages: 180 | ASIN : B0DGVT1XVC