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Helen Winslow Black Author Interivew

Songs My Mother Taught Me follows three generations of a family navigating life’s challenges and transformations, offering readers an intimate glimpse into their lives. What was the inspiration for the set-up of your story?

This book has the same protagonist as my first novel, “Seven Blackbirds,” which can now be considered somewhat of a prequel; with “Songs,” I wanted to carry our heroine beyond the young adult finding-her-voice-and-coming-into-her-own stage, and into the afterward of established marriage and family life. I’ve accumulated so many heartbreaking stories of challenge and tragedy that hit families absolutely out of the blue in middle life, and I wanted to grapple with that painful, perennial question, “Why?” I wanted to create a story where heartbreak is resolved, and resolved even if you don’t figure out the “why.” 

What things do you find interesting about the human condition that make for great fiction?

In childhood, adversity shapes you, but in later life, you shapeit—you are in charge of how you receive, perceive, and respond to it. And that, in turn, is shaped by your childhood. So it goes full-circle, which is sometimes a negative thing and sometimes a positive one; and, if it’s negative, some people can break that pattern, and some can’t.

What were some themes that were important for you to explore in this book?

The different but equal ways women navigate life balance in the 21st century. The importance of extended family support despite our very American desire to be independent and geographically mobile. How we deal with grief when our loss leaves questions that can never be answered. That healing takes courage but pays dividends. That the wisdom of our elders and the songs of the earth are always there and it behooves us to listen.

What is the next book that you are working on, and when will it be available?

My next book is about the teenage daughter in “Songs My Mother Taught Me,” who builds a career as an opera singer. It begins in late childhood so it overlaps somewhat in time with the previous book, because I thought that would be fun, like turning a kaleidoscope and seeing things from a different perspective. I write very slowly, and we’re just in the larval stage here, so eager readers will have to content themselves with the audiobook of “Songs,” which should come out in the Fall, and with my non-fiction humor collection “Eat Pray Drive,” actual pub date tbd but I surmise by the end of the year. You can take a peek at the fun cover on my website.

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Young lawyer Kim MacLean is determined to believe in second chances, so when a sea of butterflies descends, flowing around her as she leaves Tulsa and an abusive marriage behind, she takes it as a sign that her new path is off to a good start. And not only for herself, but for her young son, happily kicking his heels in the back seat. She and her new husband, John, ultimately settle in Seattle, buying a century-old farmhouse behind her sister Karen’s modern subdivision. The two women raise their growing families and support each other in their respective careers. When tragedy strikes Kim’s life a second time, upending all she thought to be true, she draws on the wisdom of the women in her family-her mother, her sister, and even her own young teenage daughter-as she struggles to make peace with the universe of lost answers and choose the right path forward. 

Songs My Mother Taught Me

Helen Winslow Black’s Songs My Mother Taught Me weaves a poignant tapestry of survival, love, and grief, skillfully exploring the intricate threads of family and community. Spanning three generations, the novel examines the complexity of familial relationships, from the protagonist’s fraught dynamic with her mother to the shadow of an abusive ex-husband. Amid these challenges, she forges new bonds and discovers a sense of belonging within her community.

Black’s prose is both poetic and evocative, flowing with an emotional resonance that immerses the reader. The narrative has an almost voyeuristic quality, offering an intimate glimpse into the lives of one family. From the humor of daily interactions to the tenderness of personal growth, the story captures the essence of human experience. This authenticity makes it relatable, whether depicting the triumphs and struggles of marriage, the sacrifices of stay-at-home mothers, or the harrowing reality of abusive relationships. The novel also embodies a distinctly American ethos, reflecting the pursuit of the American Dream and the lingering scars of the 9/11 tragedy.

One of the most striking elements of Black’s work is her exploration of loss and the pervasive tide of grief. The story delves into the myriad ways family members process the death of a loved one, particularly through the eyes of children at various stages of maturity. Their unique responses are both heartbreaking and insightful, offering a raw depiction of how tragedy shapes individuals. The unanswered questions and lingering mystery surrounding the loss deepen the story’s emotional impact and build tension as the plot unfolds.

The novel delivers a rich portrait of three generations navigating life’s challenges and transformations. With its universal themes and authentic portrayal of the human spirit, Songs My Mother Taught Me strikes a balance between humor and heartbreak. It invites readers to laugh, cry, and reflect as they follow this family’s journey through changing seasons and landscapes. For those seeking a deeply moving and thought-provoking read, Black’s novel is an absolute must.

Pages : 344 | ASIN : B0DL3J8QLF

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