Take My Patty follows a young girl as she adapts to the changes happening with her grandmother and learns about the early stages of Alzheimer’s and dementia. Was the story influenced by personal experiences with a loved one experiencing memory loss?

Yes, the story was inspired by my special bond with my grandmother, Marie Werner. My grandma was my special person, and she lived with Alzheimer’s for about ten years. Though the book is fictional, I pulled from real memories of the funny words and phrases she used, and our special routines together. The heart of the story comes from the way she always made me feel loved, even when her memory continued to fade.

What do Emma’s observations reveal about the ways children notice and respond to changes in someone they love?

Emma’s observations show that children are very perceptive. Children want to be involved and are caring with their loved ones. They can empathize and meet people where they are, on their level. That said, change can be scary. The story takes Emma and Grandma on a journey, both inward and outward, where Grandma ultimately needs more help and has to move. Emma doesn’t love that idea, which is relatable. In time, she learns that the move is okay. Her grandma is in a better place, and she’s still able to visit her and continue making memories.

What do you hope young readers recognize about the importance of maintaining loving connections with older family members?

I hope young readers will recognize that life is constantly changing and our relationships are precious. Older family members can give so much comfort, as can young people. As much as Grandma comforts Emma, Emma’s companionship is comforting to her as well. I also want young readers to embrace making new memories. Alzheimer’s is a diagnosis, and people can live a long time with it. New memories can be made, and loving relationships can remain, even if they look different.

How can parents and caregivers use Emma’s experiences to encourage children to express their own questions or concerns?

This book is a gentle way for parents and caregivers to open up the conversation around aging grandparents and memory loss. This topic shouldn’t be swept under the rug. I think it’s important to talk through questions and concerns kids have, I and hope this book can be used to bridge the subject. Some of the things Emma does, like keeping their routines when grandma moves, are really important for those with Dementia. Having a safe environment is important too. Even though moving Grandma is hard, this book shows that it’s a safe option. The book can be used as a way for kids to open up about their own observations with their loved ones and tackle some of the unknowns.

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