Larry Skorupski’s It Is Not Easy Being Men is part manifesto, part heart-to-heart, and a wake-up call. It takes a long, unflinching look at what it means to be a man in a world where the old definitions no longer serve and the new ones are still being written. The book is structured in three parts—unpacking the weight of outdated masculine expectations, exploring the evolving landscape of manhood today, and offering a way forward with clarity, compassion, and brotherhood. Through personal stories, cultural observations, and workbook-style reflections, Skorupski invites men to let go of shame, speak their truth, and step into a more honest and emotionally rich version of masculinity.

The writing is raw, conversational, and sometimes messy—but that’s what makes it powerful. It’s like talking to a wise friend who’s not afraid to admit he’s made mistakes. Skorupski’s tone walks a tightrope between tenderness and grit. He doesn’t preach. Instead, he stands next to you, saying, “Yeah, me too.” That sense of camaraderie is rare in self-help books, especially those aimed at men. At times, the repetition of themes and earnestness of tone can feel heavy, but it’s always rooted in truth.

What moved me most was how Skorupski reclaims strength, not as stoicism or dominance, but as the courage to feel. He digs into the loneliness many men carry, the quiet weight of provision, the confusion around modern relationships, and the hidden grief passed down from generation to generation. His stories—Tom struggling to say “I love you,” and Marcus finding brotherhood after divorce, resonated with me. They’re not dramatic. They’re familiar. Too familiar. I didn’t expect to see pieces of my own story mirrored in theirs. That’s the emotional core of the book: it’s not about “fixing” men. It’s about giving them space to be fully human.

This book won’t be for everyone. It’s vulnerable. It’s emotional. It doesn’t offer quick fixes or macho motivational speeches. But for men who are tired of pretending they have it all together, who are silently struggling, who crave deeper connection but don’t know where to begin—this book is a lifeline. It’s also a worthwhile read for partners, sons, daughters, and friends who want to better understand the unspoken battles men face. It Is Not Easy Being Men is imperfect, but it’s honest, and in a world of performance, that’s a gift. I walked away feeling less alone, and that’s enough.

Pages: 188 | ASIN: B0F79C3WJD