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Champions Needed: Unlocking the Potential of Family Advocacy in Assisted Living and Memory Care

Champions Needed is a book about stepping up when it matters most. It’s a guide for family members who find themselves in the role of advocate for loved ones in assisted living and memory care. The authors, Artell Smith and Carol J. Purdy Miller, bring personal experience and professional insight to a subject that is often overwhelming and emotional. They explain what an advocate—or “champion”—should do, from understanding legal rights to navigating daily challenges within long-term care communities. More than just a practical guide, this book is a heartfelt call to action, emphasizing that advocacy can directly impact a loved one’s quality of life.

The authors don’t sugarcoat the realities of long-term care. Right from the foreword, written by a long-term care resident, the book makes it clear that aging and assisted living can be isolating, frustrating, and sometimes even neglectful. The authors acknowledge that care facilities are often overburdened, and without an engaged family advocate, things can slip through the cracks. Chapter 1 sets the tone, stating plainly that senior loved ones deserve the best, and that “poor advocacy for a loved one in a long-term care community has immediate and sometimes life-threatening consequences.” That’s a sobering statement, but it’s true. This book makes sure you understand the stakes.

The most valuable sections focus on specific advocacy skills; communication, persistence, problem-solving, and emotional intelligence. The authors highlight how advocates should approach conversations with staff, using real examples of how different communication styles can either escalate conflicts or resolve issues smoothly. One of my favorite parts was the dialogue example in which a champion calmly negotiates to get food for a resident who missed lunch. Instead of demanding a meal, the advocate works with the caregiver, finding a collaborative solution. That’s the kind of practical advice that’s immediately useful.

At times, the book can feel a bit overwhelming, not because of the writing style (which is clear and approachable), but because of the sheer amount of responsibility it places on family members. The authors recognize this, though, and offer encouragement throughout. The chapter on “The Continuing Journey” reinforces that advocacy is not about perfection but persistence. The book also includes checklists, self-evaluation tools, and guidance on choosing a care facility, making it as much a practical workbook as a thought-provoking read.

Champions Needed is a must-read for anyone with a loved one in long-term care. It’s particularly useful for those who are new to the role of advocate, providing both emotional support and practical guidance. If you want to ensure your loved one gets the care and dignity they deserve, this book will equip you with the knowledge and confidence to step up.

Pages: 148 | ASIN : B0D5JYQ59Z

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