Flew Too High: A Gay Drug Smuggler’s Transcendent Odyssey invites readers into your life and visits the turbulence of your youth, transporting them to the late 1970s, a time of self-discovery, rebellion, and excess. Why was this an important book for you to write?

Initially, I wanted to share my story as an exciting true crime spree. I thought “No one will believe this happened…”.

The more I dug into it, I uncovered years of fear and resentment, as well as the difficult journey I shared with my immigrant father. 

What were some ideas that were important for you to share in this book?

Even though decades have passed, the world feels the same in so many ways. How difficult it must be for someone who feels or looks different to be accepted by their peers and society.

Believe in yourself and your abilities in times of crisis. Everyone faces challenges, and just when you think there’s no answer, no way out of an impossible situation, moments of grace and perhaps providence can sweep in and save you. I’m not religious, but I do believe in Spirit. My story is proof of something greater watching over me. I believe it watches over you, too.

What was the most challenging part of writing your memoir, and what was the most rewarding?

Getting honest about my past actions, how I hurt so many people as a result of my drug addiction and reckless behavior. It was the most thorough inventory I have ever conducted.

On the flipside, I was able to reweave and reevaluate my relationship with my father, who I resented for so many years. I was finally able to see how much he did for me in spite of my blinders.

What do you hope is one thing readers take away from your story?

We all make poor decisions at some point in our lives. Forgive yourself and others and let go of the past. Everyday is a new beginning.

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