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A Different Lens follows a young skunk who struggles with his morning routine and schoolwork leading to feelings of frustration and isolation. What was the inspiration for your story?
As an educator and a mother, I have the privilege of connecting with many children. A few years ago, an extraordinary boy with ADHD was going through a particularly challenging period. One day he told me, “Don’t you understand? It doesn’t feel good at all to have a hard time!” It was at this moment my understanding of what Dr. Ross Greene has said, “Kids do well when they can,” moved from my head to my heart. I witnessed how empathy and support changed this child’s life. I also became keenly aware that so many people with invisible disabilities are negatively impacted because their challenges are misunderstood. I wrote this book so that readers of all ages could have the opportunity to see the world through the eyes of someone with an invisible disability. Given this experience, I hope they will see this population through “a different lens,” and be inspired to show patience, empathy, and support.
The art in this book brings the emotions of Simon to life so even younger children can understand what he is experiencing. What was the art collaboration process like with illustrator Zoe Bendoff?
Partnering with Zoe was a fantastic experience! It was a close collaboration. We live in the same town, so we met throughout the process. I shared hopes for each page, requesting simple images that focused on the emotions of the characters. Zoe blended in her ideas and added her signature style creating beautiful illustrations that truly capture the feelings of each character. She also embedded many personally meaningful “hidden nuggets.” For example, the handwriting in Simon’s journal and the word “Different” in the title are my son’s handwriting. She is extremely talented and was truly a joy to partner with.
What were some ideas that were important for you to share in this book?
As Dr. Stuart Shanker said, “When you see a child differently, you’ll see a different child.” What may appear to be off-task, attention-seeking, or defiant behavior is often the symptom of an invisible disability and outside the child’s control. Everyone wants to do well. When we assume positive intent and aim to support all children in a way that is individualized to their needs, they can be the best version of themselves. When this happens, those children and everyone around them benefit.
Is this the first book in the series? If so, when is the next book coming out, and what can your fans expect in the next story?
Book number two is in process and will be published in the spring of 2025. It is about a day in the life of one of Simon’s classmates- Robyn. Check back in the spring to find out more!
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“A Different Lens” is:
A must-have for every elementary school’s Diverse Book Club list
A book for educators and administrators of 1st-5th grade classrooms supporting social-emotional learning
A resource for parents to teach children about empathy, neurodiversity, and invisible disabilities, such as ADHD.
A tool for enhancing adults’ understanding of the diverse abilities of children within their families, schools, and community
Simon struggles to complete simple tasks at home and school, leading everyone in his world to feel upset and annoyed. Inevitably, Simon’s frustration reaches a boiling point and he makes a huge mistake in front of everyone! How will Simon ever recover? Why can’t he just do better? In the end, readers will realize that Simon, like everyone, is doing the best he can, and with a little support, the world can become a better place for all.
A Different Lens
A Different Lens by Sheila Eve Arad, beautifully illustrated by Zoe Bendoff, follows the journey of a young skunk named Simon as he navigates the daily challenges of school and life. The story begins with Simon’s struggle to keep up with the morning routine and manage his schoolwork, leading to feelings of frustration and isolation. However, with the support of his mother, teacher, and classmates, Simon learns to utilize tools and strategies that help him succeed, ultimately transforming his experience and outlook.
The writing is engaging and empathetic. The author does a remarkable job of portraying Simon’s internal world and the external pressures he faces. For instance, the vivid description of Simon’s chaotic morning routine instantly pulls readers into his daily struggle. The narrative captures Simon’s small victories and significant challenges, making his journey relatable and heartwarming.
One of the aspects I liked most about this picture book is its portrayal of supportive relationships. Simon’s transformation is beautifully depicted through the encouragement and understanding he receives from those around him. His mother’s proactive approach—suggesting a checklist and timer to help with his morning routine—illustrates the power of practical support. Similarly, Ms. Harris’s offer of a quieter space for Simon to work shows how minor adjustments can make a significant difference for children with different needs.
The illustrations by Zoe Bendoff complement the narrative perfectly, ensuring that emotions are plainly seen in the characters. The scenes where Simon feels isolated and misunderstood are poignantly illustrated, making his feelings palpable. On the other hand, the joyous moments, like playing outside with his classmates, are filled with vibrant colors and energy, reflecting Simon’s happiness and sense of belonging. The art brings Simon’s journey to life, making the book an immersive experience for readers.
A Different Lens is a heartfelt and insightful children’s book that I think is ideal for children, parents, and educators alike. It offers a compassionate look at the struggles and triumphs of children with invisible disabilities, promoting empathy and understanding. Sheila Eve Arad’s storytelling and Zoe Bendoff’s illustrations create a powerful narrative that encourages support and inclusion.
Pages: 30 | ASIN : B0D2N1DRPR
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