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Love in Action Starts With Ourselves
Destination Marriage is a faith-centered guide to traditional marriage that celebrates the unique strengths of men and women and offers a heartfelt roadmap to lifelong commitment, unity, and purpose. Was there a specific moment or realization that sparked this book?
As a combat-wounded veteran of the Vietnam War who was quite near death back in 1968. I am sure I have had a good beginning and following lifetime events to appreciate many sacred things in my life, such as Love, Health, and life in general.
You emphasize love as a daily choice. What does “love as action” look like in everyday life?
Love in action starts with ourselves and spreads outward. We need to do the best we can for ourselves concerning health and financial matters. When we can reach a good level, we need to attract am opposite sex partner that can unite with us in marriage to move forward in our lives.
What does true partnership look like in marriage?
A true partnership in marriage puts everyone on the same page where we have the liberty to activate ourselves as individuals within the partnership to bring as many qualities as possible to all concerned within the family.
What gives you hope for the future of marriage?
I have a great hope to see marriages become a personal goal to secure the most successful way of life. Only when we can feel the senses of love that continually grows as men and women unite in marriage can we feel truly alive. It is not so much for what we can do for ourselves that matters, it’s what we can do for the ones we love to share in our successes no matter how small or large they may be.
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DESTINATION MARRIAGE
Destination Marriage by Russell Ward presents itself as a kind of “Marriage 101” guide that walks through three big stages. First, it praises women and pokes fun at men; then it flips the script and celebrates men; and finally, it argues that one man and one woman together in marriage create something bigger than either alone. The author mixes short history lessons, profiles of famous figures, lists of character traits, jokes, and moral advice. They frame marriage as a sacred union, rooted in faith in God and supported by practical tools like prenuptial agreements, all aimed at building a lifetime partnership rather than a temporary fling. Destination Marriage test
As a reader I felt pulled in two directions at once. On one hand, the book has real energy. The author clearly care about marriage and they really want couples to work. I could feel that in the constant encouragement to grow in compassion, respect, faith, and mutual responsibility. The third section, where they stress that men and women are “meant to be forever equally put together” and that both are “unbeatable” in their own way, carries a sincere desire for balance and peace between the sexes. Destination Marriage test I also liked the simple, almost old fashioned belief that love is an action and not just a feeling, and that long term commitment grows through daily choices rather than big dramatic moments. The closing pages about faith, forgiveness, and remembering that a marriage is lived twice, once in the moment and again in memory, landed for me on an emotional level. Destination Marriage test
A serious thought about equality or faith sits right next to a broad joke about men or women. The gender roles feel fixed and traditional. Women are framed as perfect nurturers and housekeepers whose unpaid work is priced out in dollar terms, while men are framed as inventors, warriors, and breadwinners, backed by a long list of male-made inventions.
I see Destination Marriage as a passionate and quirky love letter to traditional marriage. I would recommend it to readers who already share a conservative, faith-centered view of one-man-one-woman marriage and who enjoy a mix of jokes, bold opinions, and moral pep talks. If you go in with an open mind you can find some heartfelt reminders about commitment, forgiveness, and the everyday work of building a life with another person.
Pages: 189 | ASIN : B0G64FQSH3
