Joy Comes: A Story of Fatherhood follows a boy who, despite growing up in the absence of his father, battles life’s adversities and triumphs as an exceptional father himself. What inspired the idea behind this inspiring children’s book?

I opened up about my personal journey of growing up without a father during a speech that I delivered at Blue Cross Blue Shield of North Carolina on February 22, 2023. I shared the pain, anger, and confusion that I experienced during those challenging times. However, what I wanted to emphasize the most was the beautiful transformation that emerged from those difficult moments.

The audience was deeply touched by my openness. It was in that profound moment that I realized my story couldn’t end there. It was then that I made the decision to turn my speech into a book titled Joy Comes: A Story of Fatherhood. Through this book, I aspire to offer a glimmer of hope to single parents and their children, using the character of Lamar as a shining example of resilience and strength.

Initially, I had planned to surprise everyone with the book’s release on Father’s Day. However, out of respect for all the incredible dads out there, I decided to wait and release it on July 15, 2023, which happens to be National Give Something Away Day. I believe that by sharing my personal story, I can give others the gift of healing.

Lamar’s support system is described as a beacon of inspiration. Can you tell us more about how you developed these characters and their influence on Lamar?

Uncle Levon holds a special place in my heart, much like my Uncle Tony. In the absence of my father, he has been a central father figure in my life, my very first superhero. Recently, he shared a poignant story with me, reminding me that I am not his first nephew, but his second. His first nephew was my late cousin Kendrick, who tragically passed away from Leukemia at the tender age of 3. At the time, I was just 1 year old, and Uncle Tony was a mere 19 years old. Kendrick’s passing had a profound impact on Uncle Tony, my mom Wanda, and my granny Beulah. Together, they made a vow to protect me and ensure I wouldn’t suffer a similar fate. Their love for me became a healing force in their lives, while also serving as a shield to safeguard my own.

My name is a reflection of Kendrick’s, a tribute that carries immense meaning. To my granny, I wasn’t just her grandson; she saw me as her own son. As a result, she kept me close by her side. Granny and I shared an unbreakable bond in that regard. She was not only my grandmother but also my best friend, teaching me invaluable life lessons on parenthood, friendship, leadership, prayer, and life. Uncle Tony, on the other hand, always came to my rescue, no matter the circumstances, even if it meant sacrificing his own well-being. He taught me what it means to be a man. My mom instilled in me the values of hard work and the importance of perseverance, showing me how to navigate life’s obstacles with unwavering determination.

I learned invaluable lessons about resilience, compassion, and strength through the love and guidance of Granny, Uncle Tony, my mom, and so many others. They each played a part in shaping me into the person that I am today. On that note, I’m forever grateful for their presence in my life.

Many readers can relate to the challenges Lamar faced. What advice would you give to young readers who are experiencing similar circumstances and looking for guidance and solace?

I would assure them that God has a purpose for their suffering. He is using it to bring about something greater, both for His kingdom and for their own lives. I would encourage them to place their trust not only in God but also in the process of refinement they are currently undergoing. In times of doubt or uncertainty, I would direct them to find solace and strength in Psalms 23 and 121. These Psalms are filled with promises that remind us of God’s unwavering presence, guidance, and protection over us.

While I’ve said all of that, I realize that prayer may not always be enough, and that’s perfectly okay. On that note, I would encourage them to consider talking to someone they trust about the possibility of seeking counseling. Opening up to a professional can provide additional tools and perspectives to help navigate their journey towards healing and restoration.

But most of all, I would remind them that they are not alone and that there is hope for a brighter future beyond their current pain.

What is the next book that you are working on and when will it be available?

I’m excited about the future of Lamar’s series and the meaningful stories that will unfold. Each book will continue to explore different themes and offer readers valuable insights and perspectives.

I’m currently working on developing a Christmas Story featuring Lamar. I envision this story to be filled with humor and a valuable lesson that resonates with readers. My plan is to release it in time for this holiday season.

Looking ahead, the next story in the series will focus on mental health. It’s an important topic that deserves attention, and I’m passionate about addressing it through Lamar’s narrative. I anticipate releasing this book in either May or June of 2025, allowing ample time to delve into the complexities of mental health with care and sensitivity.

Please stay tuned for more updates and announcements as I continue to bring Lamar to life.

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