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It Really Is Possible To End Arguing
An End to Arguing: 101 Valuable Lessons for All Relationships shares with readers the skills they need to build healthy relationships and avoid destructive conflicts. Why was this an important book for you to write?
My husband Charlie and I came from families where painful arguments were commonplace. Our parents argued with each other and there were hostilities with extended family members. We KNEW there was a BETTER WAY and committed ourselves to discovering ways of handling differences that enhanced our marriage, family life, therapy clients, and other relationships with people who are important to us. We got some really good help and I feel a sense of responsibility to pass it on to others.
What were some ideas that were important for you to share in this book?
It really is possible to end arguing. We just need to be sensitive to where the line is between having a passionate, intense discussion, and going over the line to attempt to coerce the other person to seeing things our way. I was also determined to inspire my readers to practice mindfulness, to take breaks when they are triggered, to pause and reflect, and to enhance all of their relationships by being patient, generous, empathetic and compassionate.
What is one piece of advice you wish someone had given you when you were younger?
There is so much to learn about effective communication which enhances close relationships. There really isn’t anything better that we can be spending our time doing than learning how to have great relationships because that’s where our greatest happiness and well-being resides.
What is one thing readers take away from your book?
Our readers understand how powerful they are to impact their relationships with others when they have differences.
The differences that we have from others can be a source of learning, growth and enrichment.
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An End to Arguing doesn’t just provide a way of preventing differences from turning into painful conflict; it gives the reader an insight into what qualities are inherent in argument-free relationships. The way of getting there may be simpler than you think!
An End to Arguing
In An End to Arguing: 101 Valuable Lessons for All Relationships, Linda and Charlie Bloom share their fifty years of marriage experience, offering insight into how to make relationships work and gently resolve conflicts. In addition, the book provides tips on avoiding arguments and shares essential lessons on managing differences in a relationship.
The authors’ background as psychotherapists is infused into their writing, resulting in a gentle and positive tone that makes the reader feel included in the discussion. The text is clear, and the phrases used are memorable, making the reading experience feel communal. This inspirational book provides value for readers, including life lessons, free marriage advice, virtual counseling sessions, and a positive outlook on relationships. The book contains 101 chapters, each tackling different but related topics, making it an engaging read for individuals of all ages and relationship types.
The authors offer insights on critical issues such as nonreactive listening, projection, negotiation, arrogance, people-pleasing, and agreements, among other topics. This book stands out because the lessons are not limited to just romantic relationships. The knowledge in the book can be applied to friendships, family relationships, professional settings, and any spaces that involve human relationships and interactions. The first chapter, which discusses the inevitability of differences in relationships and how to meet in the middle with your partner, is particularly profound and electrifying to read. The authors use multiple scenarios to expound on the topic being discussed, making it easy for readers to fully comprehend the main point.
An End to Arguing is an invaluable resource for anyone seeking to improve their relationships, whether romantic or otherwise. The book provides practical tips, free advice, and a positive outlook on human interactions. It is an encouraging and enlightening read that is sure to provide value to its readers.
Pages: 332 | ASIN : B0BNM149DM
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