A Schizoid at Smith: How Overparenting Leads to Underachieving by Blair Sorrel is a captivating memoir that dives into the author’s journey through an over-parented childhood, leading to the discovery of her schizoid personality disorder (SPD). Set against the backdrop of the 1960s, Sorrel’s narrative vividly portrays the era’s music and social dynamics, growing the reader’s experience. The memoir opens with Sorrel in a memoir writing class, struggling to put her thoughts on paper. She reflects on her upbringing, marked by a distant father and an overly strict mother who emphasized even the smallest wrongs. Despite her intellectual gifts, Sorrel faced social anxiety and difficulty forming connections with her peers. Her solace was found in the music of the time, which is beautifully woven into the narrative.

The book shines in its candidness and depth of self-exploration. Sorrel bares her soul, going through her family dynamics and their contribution to her suffering. Her diagnosis of SPD in her thirties adds another layer to her narrative, shedding light on a condition that often goes unnoticed. Sorrel’s purpose is twofold: to share her unique perspective and to caution parents against the negatives of overparenting.

On the positive side, the memoir is a heartfelt and emotional journey. It offers valuable insights into the impact of overparenting on a child’s psyche and serves as a cautionary tale. The addition of music and cultural references from the 60s adds depth to the storytelling. However, at times, the narrative can feel somewhat scattered, moving between different time periods and aspects of Sorrel’s life. While this may reflect the author’s inner turmoil, it could potentially confuse some readers.

A Schizoid at Smith is a touching and introspective memoir that is a must-read for those facing similar challenges and a valuable resource for parents seeking guidance in raising their children with a balanced approach. Blair Sorrel’s honesty and resilience shine through her storytelling, making this book a compelling read.

Pages: 162 | ASIN : B0CGPYW9XT