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Patty Beecham Author Interview

Growing Up, Rocky is a poignant journey through your childhood in rural Australia, revealing the profound impact of family dynamics and life’s tumultuous waves on shaping one’s character and destiny. Why was this an important book for you to write?

I wanted to show the backstory and intimate behind-the-scenes of a prominent, public family. You cannot judge others until you know their full story.

How did your family’s missionary background and rural Australia influence your perspective on life and relationships?

Watching my parents give their time, energy and love to others was inspirational. Later, even though I knew we were loved, I also realised that our family always came second, as an afterthought.

Looking back, what do you believe is the most significant lesson you learned from the challenges and experiences of your youth?

I learned to back myself, and that anything was achievable. I had two hands and a brain, the same as everyone else. How hard can it be?

What do you hope is one thing readers take away from your story?

To believe in yourself, be resilient and follow your dream. Delve deeper into relationships with your family. Things are not always as they seem. Perhaps there were reasons for neglect, as my parents also struggled with their own demons of depression and loneliness.

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Written over 51 chapters, we follow the unusual family upbringing on an Aboriginal mission on Cape York. The family live apart for a year in three locations in Queensland as the father trains to become an Anglican priest at 44 years of age, and then they have to re-learn who to live again as a family under the one roof in Rockhampton.

This is the true story of the youngest daughter of a Sydney couple living at Lockhart River Mission for 9 years, raising their children within an Aboriginal village of five tribes.
Conceived on Cape York, and finally moving to Rockhampton as a young child. A family tragedy in 1971 with the shocking death of brother Chris, two days before a family wedding, sees the upheaval of family life.

Patty feels abandoned and has to educate and raise herself as well as learn to iron a cassock!
Patty brings herself up with her distracted parents, marries young and then flees a violent marriage. Patty dreamed of a bigger life than what was offered in her sleepy country town. Life became a series of ground-breaking adventures, and we follow her turbulent relationships and jobs, learning how to survive.
Share her adventures in this gentle, humorous and insightful early memoir.