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Mike Cromwell Author Interview

Dr. Black Widow is a gripping true story of betrayal, survival, and the pursuit of justice as you navigate the emotional and legal fallout of a failed marriage and a toxic relationship. Why was this an important book for you to write?

This book is a novel based on a true story as I searched for love after a failed 38-year marriage and a failed justice system!

In your story, you faced significant legal challenges. What changes do you think are most needed in the justice system to better protect people in similar situations?

Education for police officers to make a justified decision based on the facts.

You speak candidly about betrayal and emotional resilience. What advice would you give to others who are dealing with the fallout of a broken marriage or toxic relationship?

When searching for that special someone, it is crucial to be clear-eyed and discerning. Don’t ignore red flags no matter how much you want things to work out. Pay attention to how they treat you, how they treat others, and how they handle conflict. Is it someone who will truly cherish and respect you, or are they just putting on a show? Be wise, be practical, and don’t allow yourself to be blinded by wishful thinking.

Looking back on the events in Dr. Black Widow, is there anything you would have done differently, either in your personal relationships or in how you approached the legal battles?

I would not have ignored the red flags, and I would have run from the danger at the beginning. If I had run from the danger, then the legal battles would not have occurred.

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Dr. Black Widow By Mike Cromwell has achieved a remarkable feat by being as Top #100 best seller in one of Amazon’s categories.

#13 Best Seller ★ in Survival Biographies (Jun 28, 2024)
#47 Best Seller ★ in Two-Hour Biography & Memoir Short Reads (Jun 28, 2024)
#71 Best Seller ★ in Survival Biographies & Memoirs (Kindle Store) (Jun 28, 2024)


“Dr. Black Widow” is a gripping memoir by Mike Cromwell, unveiling a tale of love, betrayal, and the daunting quest to reclaim personal sovereignty from the clutches of manipulation and injustice. Within the pages of this narrative, readers are introduced to Mike, a protagonist who navigates the dangerous waters of a lengthy marriage only to confront the stark reality of infidelity. Despite this betrayal, Mike’s unwavering commitment to his daughter leads to a unique living arrangement with his estranged wife. As the story unfolds, the sale of Mike’s cherished home becomes a catalyst for change, propelling him into the orbit of Dr. Ford, a psychiatrist whose peculiar interest in the property sets the stage for a turbulent relationship fraught with manipulation and peril. Throughout the narrative, the intricate dance between Mike and Dr. Ford unfurls, revealing moments of intimacy interwoven with escalating cycles of coercion and danger. Despite his valiant efforts to break free, Mike finds himself trapped in a legal quagmire, confronting corruption and bias within the judicial system.

Dr. Black Widow

Dr. Black Widow is an intimate and deeply personal story about Mike Cromwell’s journey through a failed 38-year marriage and a subsequent disastrous relationship with a manipulative woman all leading to a whirlwind of legal battles, emotional torment and eventual self-discovery. Cromwell uses his experiences to spotlight issues within the justice system, particularly in how men can be treated unfairly in domestic disputes. He also reflecting on the lessons learned about family, love, and personal strength.

I found Cromwell’s writing to be raw and unfiltered which made the emotional impact of his story hit hard. His candid reflections on his marriages struck me as profoundly honest. He acknowledges his faults during his first marriage, like neglecting his wife for the pursuit of money. But he also describes the crushing blow of betrayal when he discovers her infidelity. His recounting of this moment, when the house that symbolized their life together becomes just a “house on a hill,” beautifully illustrates the transformation of a dream into disillusionment. It was one of those moments that made me pause and feel the weight of his heartache.

Cromwell’s later relationship, the one he calls his “insane” second marriage, is a wild, almost unbelievable ride of manipulation and control. Chapters like “Living with the Spider” and “Breaking Point” left me flabbergasted at the cruelty and deceit he faced. His second wife, whom he portrays as a gold digger, manipulated not just him but the legal system as well, which only compounded his suffering. There’s a gut-wrenching moment where he is physically assaulted, a vivid account of waking up to punches raining down on him. The way he conveys his shock, confusion, and eventual resolve to fight back is intense and emotionally charged.

What I found particularly gripping were Cromwell’s reflections on the justice system. His experience of being wrongfully detained, facing biased treatment from law enforcement and legal entities, is central to his mission. Chapters like “Legal Entanglements” highlight his frustration with how easily the system can fail to protect the innocent. I could feel his desperation and anger when he describes taking an Alfred Plea, despite his innocence, because the odds were stacked against him as a man in such cases. This part of the book not only serves as a personal lament but also as a call for reform in how domestic cases are handled.

Dr. Black Widow is a candid and sometimes brutal, exploration of love gone wrong, personal failure and societal injustice. It is a deeply personal book, and I would recommend it to anyone interested in true stories of resilience, especially men who may feel overlooked or misunderstood by the justice system. However, it’s also a story that resonates with anyone who has experienced betrayal or fought for justice in the face of overwhelming odds.

Pages: 67 | ASIN: B0D87CTFV1

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