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Their Own Personal “Storms”

Author Interview
S.E. Cunningham Author Interview

In After the Storms, you share with readers your story of survival shaped by faith, from your childhood marked by disaster, poverty, and alcoholism to your inspiring return to grace. What inspired you to share your story with others?

I was inspired to share my story by a deep-seated desire to provide a roadmap for others navigating their own personal “storms” and to show that one’s beginnings do not have to dictate their end. My journey from a childhood marked by disaster and poverty to a life defined by service and faith taught me that resilience is often forged in the most difficult circumstances.

By being transparent about my lowest points and the long road to redemption, I hope to testify to the power of grace and the possibility of finding peace and purpose no matter how much has been lost. I wrote this book to offer a message of hope, proving that it is always possible to rebuild and thrive after the clouds have cleared.

Your family is portrayed with both struggle and deep love. How do you understand that duality now?

I understand that duality now as the very foundation of resilience; the struggles we faced weren’t in spite of our love, but often the crucible that proved how deep it actually ran. Looking back, I see that while poverty and personal battles created immense pressure, they also stripped away everything but our commitment to one another. That friction between hardship and devotion taught me that grace doesn’t require a perfect environment to grow—it often takes root most firmly in the broken soil of our shared trials.

How did your experiences during the Gulf War shape your perspective on life and faith?

My time as a Cavalry Scout during the Gulf War served as a profound turning point, stripping away the abstractions of life and replacing them with a raw, immediate dependence on faith. In the chaos of combat, I quickly realized how little control I truly possessed, which forced me to seek an anchor beyond my own training and equipment. This experience instilled in me a permanent perspective on the fragility of life and a conviction that grace is often most visible in our most uncertain moments. Ultimately, the desert taught me that no matter how vast the landscape or how dark the storm, there is always a purposeful path forward for those willing to trust in a higher power.

What is one thing you hope readers take away from your story?

The single most important message I hope readers take away is that your history does not have to be your destiny. Whether you are standing in the wreckage of a physical disaster or the quiet ruins of personal struggle, there is always a path from “red dirt” to redemption. I want people to see that resilience is not about avoiding the storm, but about finding the faith and grit to rebuild once the wind stops blowing. Ultimately, I hope my story serves as a reminder that no matter how much has been lost, it is never too late to return to grace and find a life of profound purpose and peace.

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After the Storms: From Red Dirt to Redemption

Book Review

After the Storms is a memoir of survival shaped by faith: an Oklahoma childhood marked by tornadoes, poverty, alcoholism, and a crowded, fiercely loving family gives way to military service, war, policing, grief, near-fatal injury, and, finally, a hard-won return to grace. What stayed with me most is the book’s sense that a life can be battered nearly beyond recognition and still remain, somehow, redeemable. The early pages are especially vivid. The green tornado sky over Lawton, the humiliating “free lunch” moment at school, the father’s ruinous drinking after Ronnie’s death, the family’s desperate drives to Fort Supply, all of it builds a world that feels raw, wind-burned, and painfully lived in. Later chapters widen the scope into Desert Storm, law enforcement, devastating personal loss, a spiritual collapse, and the eventual reorientation of the narrator’s life around faith rather than sheer endurance.

I admired the book’s emotional directness. Again and again, the memoir finds its deepest strength not in spectacle but in particularity: a teacher returning fifteen cents and, in a different scene, another teacher speaking a sentence of life into a shamed child; a nameless family in an RV turning up on a blistering Sunday like mercy made practical; a father walking into church once, dressed in his best, only to be crushed by the cruelty of people who should’ve known better. Those moments have real sting because they’re told with a survivor’s memory for texture and humiliation. I also found the family portraits unexpectedly moving. The siblings are drawn not as a blur of relatives but as distinct presences, half guardian angels and half co-authors of the narrator’s endurance. Even the memoir’s humor, the yellow spray-paint disaster, the BB gun revenge, the little absurdities of childhood, matters because it keeps the suffering from flattening the book into a single note.

At its best, the prose has a bruised lyricism that suits the material beautifully. The recurring language of storms, scouts, foundations, shields, and watchfulness gives the memoir a strong internal music, and there are passages where that rhetoric genuinely lands. I sometimes wanted fewer lines that explain the meaning of an event when the event itself has already done the work. The ideas in the book are also clear: faith is the throughline, Christ the unshakable foundation, redemption the final grammar of suffering. Readers who share that worldview will likely feel nourished by its certainty. I was moved by it because the conviction is plainly earned. The later turn, where military discipline, police work, grief, and fatherhood all get folded back into a Gospel-centered identity, isn’t subtle, but it is sincere, and sincerity counts for a lot in a memoir like this.

After the Storms is an undeniably heartfelt memoir. It reads like the testimony of someone who has spent a lifetime learning how pain gets handed down, how love interrupts that inheritance, and how faith, for him, became not an ornament but a structure strong enough to live inside. I’d recommend it especially to readers who are drawn to faith-based memoirs, stories of family endurance, military and law-enforcement life, and narratives of recovery that refuse cynicism without denying damage.