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Why I Must Go offers parents a gentle way to talk about a family member’s military service and the reasons behind their time spent away from home. When did you realize there was a need for a book like this for young children?
My husband deployed twice in two years when my children were very young. My daughter started asking why her daddy had to leave for work when other daddies came home. I didn’t have a good enough answer that explained the magnitude of service and courage of military members. There was one defining moment on the day my husband deployed for the second time. We were at a friend’s house, and their dad got home from work. The kids all started yelling Daddy! and running to meet him at the door. My eldest got caught up in the moment and joined in, only for her face to fall when she realized her daddy wasn’t going to be home for a long time. I saw that there was a need for a way to explain to children that loved ones leave for the military because of love for them. They love their kids and family so much, they deploy to protect them.
How do you ensure the tone stays comforting without minimizing the reality of separation?
The reality of separation is very much present in the book, but I tried to pair different examples of the separation with reasons behind it. I focused on the freedoms and the safety that the children can enjoy because of the service of members in the military.
The story emphasizes routines and small moments of joy. Why was that important to include?
Life doesn’t and shouldn’t stop when family members deploy. It is so easy to fall into the trap of “Wait until Daddy gets home.” I wanted to show that fun and exciting things can still happen even though their loved ones may not be there to experience it with them.
What is one thing you hope families take away from Why I Must Go?
I want families, and especially children, to be proud of their loved ones for their service. To see the positive in their absence.
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Being separated from a loved one for a long period of time is especially hard. But why is it that loved ones who serve in the military have to leave for so long? Why is it they have to miss important life events?
Why I Must Go explains to children that their loved ones leave because they love them very much, and that they serve their country to protect and ensure their freedom. It is hard, but they are not forgotten.
This book helps children understand that they are a service member’s motivation and encouragement for what they do.
Book pictures and storyline are applicable to all services and inclusive of all ranks.
Why I Must Go
Why I Must Go, by Jennifer Nielsen Thill, is a gentle, reassuring children’s book about one of the hardest experiences a young child can face: a family member leaving for military service. Told in rhyme, the story centers on the bond between parent and child. It explains the reason for that separation with warmth, clarity, and a tone young readers can understand.
One of the book’s greatest strengths is its use of rhyme to communicate a complicated emotional reality. The writing shows how children and families keep moving through daily life, finding joy in small moments and comfort in familiar routines. At the same time, it quietly underscores that these ordinary freedoms are safeguarded by the sacrifices of those in service. That balance gives the story unusual weight. The rhythmic language softens the subject without diminishing it, making the message feel steady and comforting rather than overwhelming.
The parent’s voice is especially effective throughout. Again and again, the narrative returns to love, devotion, and purpose. That choice shapes the emotional core of the book. Instead of allowing the sadness of separation to dominate, the story frames the parent’s absence through pride, protection, and deep care for the child. The result is tender and affirming.
Ilma Salman’s illustrations also play an essential role in the book’s emotional impact. Soft, expressive, and inviting, they work hand in hand with the text to create a sense of comfort. The artwork is simple in style, yet emotionally rich. Younger children can easily connect with the images and gain a small, approachable understanding of what this kind of work may look like for their family. The visuals also emphasize the everyday moments of childhood, reinforcing the idea that a child remains loved, supported, and cared for even when a parent is away.
Why I Must Go is a thoughtful and supportive book that will be especially meaningful for children in military or service families. It is well-suited to younger readers who respond to emotional storytelling and gentle reassurance. For families searching for a calm, positive way to talk about separation, this book is likely to feel both helpful and deeply comforting.
Pages: 34 | ASIN : B0CNN15ZLB
A New Normal
Soft Hugs for Mommy is a heartfelt exploration of living with fibromyalgia, wrapped in a narrative that combines raw vulnerability and an educational touch. This seems like a very personal story for you. How hard was it to put this story out in the world for people to read?
It is a story right from my own personal experience. I have desired for some time to share a story that would help others understand the plight of chronic pain. I have been blogging about fibromyalgia since 2015, so it wasn’t a real difficult write … other than writing it in a format for children’s understanding.
What were some ideas that were important for you to share in this book?
The major idea is that someone with fibromyalgia needs soft hugs. First, literal soft and gentle hugs because even a hug can be painful. Second, the hugs can come in other formats, such as kindnesses done for them.
I also wanted to suggest ways that a family can help their parent with chronic pain and how the whole family must accept a new normal because of the illness.
For the patients themselves, I wanted to suggest that gratitude is a good step toward dealing with your pain. And a big thing is you can still be a great parent even with your pain.
The art in this book is fantastic. What was the art collaboration process like with the illustrator Melissa Pickens?
Well, let me say, first that I have absolutely no artistic talent. Melissa and I were already acquaintances through several avenues, including chronic illness. When I saw her handpainting work, I knew I must ask if she could illustrate the book.
It was a painstaking process because we both have our own pain issues. This caused a much longer process but well worth the wait. Melissa brought great ideas to the project, including the purple ribbon search. She even had suggestions on grammar and vocabulary!
What do you hope is one thing readers take away from your story?
I hope this book will be a tool to open communication between parent and child when chronic illness (of any kind) arrives in their home. My goal is that I can help them find a new normal as a family with a new understanding of the disease.
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Soft Hugs for Mommy tells the story of a loving family as they navigate the challenges of Mommy’s chronic pain condition. Filled with tender moments and loving gestures, it seeks to encourage understanding and unconditional love. The family helps Mommy with her invisible illness by offering gentle hugs, thoughtful acts of kindness, and comforting words. A talented author who draws from her personal experience with fibromyalgia shares this sweet story. Another chronic illness warrior skillfully illustrates the story with hand-painted pictures. Together, author and illustrator capture the emotions and experiences of each character with warmth and tenderness.
Soft Hugs for Mommy continues with a “Let’s Talk” section to open the conversation between parent and child. These questions, created with a child psychologist, offer a space for children to express their feelings about Mommy’s illness. This book facilitates discussing other related conditions (such as Lyme Disease, ME, CFS, rheumatoid arthritis, multiple sclerosis, chronic migraine, chronic pain, and others).
Finally, the book offers a subscription through e-mail as she shares soft hugs and new resources for chronic illness every month.
Oh, Tal! Not Today
Oh, Tal! Not Today by Tal Anderson is a beautifully illustrated and deeply resonant picture book that gently champions the importance of individuality and creativity. Written with sensitivity and charm, the story introduces readers to Tal, a child who, despite her quiet demeanor and unique approach to life, radiates imagination and independence. Accompanied by her ever-loyal cat, Winnie, Tal’s journey offers a touching reminder that there’s more than one way to navigate the world.
The narrative shines not only through its engaging storytelling but also in its ability to inspire reflection. Tal’s perspective invites readers, both children and adults, to appreciate differences and understand that what may seem unusual at first glance often carries a deeper, valuable purpose. Through the eyes of her loving parents, we witness a transformative arc as they come to realize the profound beauty in Tal’s individuality. The illustrations add a layer of magic, capturing the whimsy and vibrancy of Tal’s inner world while reinforcing the story’s themes of acceptance and love. I especially loved how Tal’s personality is portrayed through the smallest details, like her connection with her cat, Winifred. It reminded me of the small comforts we all cling to during rough days. This visual feast makes the book especially appealing to young readers, while parents and educators will appreciate its subtle but powerful message about empathy and open-mindedness.
Oh Tal! Not Today is more than just a story, it’s a celebration of being yourself and finding joy in doing things your own way. Heartfelt and uplifting, it’s a must-read for families and classrooms looking to nurture creativity, kindness, and understanding.
Pages: 35 | ASIN : B0DJCFRFH1
Millie & Marty Muldoon Miss Out
Millie & Marty Muldoon Miss Out is a whimsical and heartwarming children’s book that masterfully captures the essence of youthful curiosity. The story follows Millie and Marty, two lively and imaginative siblings who are convinced that their parents are having all the fun after they go to bed. From ice cream bowls mysteriously left behind to the discovery of a karaoke machine and a misplaced Snickerdoodle game, the siblings’ detective work draws readers into a playful, after-dark adventure filled with humor and intrigue.
The author does an excellent job of portraying Millie and Marty’s growing excitement and suspense as they hunt for clues, all while sprinkling the narrative with laugh-out-loud moments. Young readers will undoubtedly relate to the siblings’ vivid imaginations and their determination to uncover the secrets of the night. The writing is engaging and age-appropriate, making it a perfect read-aloud book for parents and children to enjoy together. What sets this story apart is its gentle reminder about the wonder in everyday life and the simple joys that come from being part of a family. The resolution, which cleverly highlights that reality is sometimes more ordinary than the adventurous tales we conjure up, leaves a warm and comforting feeling. It teaches children that even the most mundane moments can be special, especially when shared with loved ones.
Millie & Marty Muldoon Miss Out is a charming and delightful read that strikes a perfect balance between mystery and meaningful lessons. It is a must-have for families and young readers who enjoy a good mix of fun, curiosity, and heart. This book will not only entertain but also inspire children to appreciate the magic that surrounds them every day.
Pages: 32 | ISBN : 978-1068824418
Building a Relationship
A Father’s Love follows a little girl enjoying an outing with her father, her biggest hero, as she receives his advice and encouragement about her upcoming ballet performance. What was the inspiration for the setup of your story?
I was inspired to create a story that is based on a positive connection between a child and her father. I had the desire to showcase a young girl who receives motivation because it demonstrates that she can achieve whatever she sets her mind to. She is building on her personal courage, and she is learning to become a self-directed learner.
Is there anything from your own life included in A Father’s Love?
The story is not related to my life but it’s a constant reminder that a father’s presence, time, and consistent effort is required when you’re building a relationship with your child.
The art in this book is fantastic. What was the art collaboration process like with illustrator Olivia Smith H.?
The art collaboration process was smooth and easy with Olivia. I shared my thought process by explaining and being detailed on how I would like each picture to look. She provided me with sketches and colors, asked me questions, and we used a great amount of teamwork. I’m pleased with the outcome of the book.
Can young readers look forward to more stories featuring Rachelle and her father? What are you currently working on?
I’m currently thinking about my next book. I have topics in mind, and I plan on starting the writing process very soon. I may do a series from my first book, then I will create another book that features Rachelle.
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A Father’s Love
A Father’s Love, by Alicia Smith, is a heartwarming story that beautifully captures the bond between a father and his daughter, Rachelle. The narrative follows little Rachelle as she enjoys a day of fun and adventure with her biggest hero—her dad. From playful outings at the playground to indulging in sweet treats, Rachelle’s day is filled with joy. However, as evening approaches, she begins to feel nervous about her upcoming ballet performance. With her father’s unwavering love and support, Rachelle must summon the courage to face her fears and step onto the stage for the first time in front of a large audience. The question lingers: Will Rachelle find the confidence to shine, or will her doubts hold her back?
This tender story is a touching portrayal of a father’s supportive role in his child’s life. I was particularly moved by how the father instinctively knew when to let Rachelle take charge and when to offer reassurance. The narrative seamlessly illustrates the powerful connection between love, support, and self-confidence. The gentle pacing of the story, coupled with Olivia Smith H.’s lovely illustrations, enhances the emotional depth of the tale. Each page is brought to life with soft, vibrant colors that add another layer of warmth and charm to the book.
A Father’s Love is as sweet as summer strawberries—a delightful read for all ages. The story’s message of love and support is perfectly conveyed, making it a comforting and uplifting choice. It’s a beautiful depiction of gentle parental guidance and familial love, leading to a conclusion that leaves the reader feeling cherished and embraced. This exceptional collaboration between author and illustrator has created a book that resonates deeply, and I eagerly look forward to more from this talented duo. Alicia Smith’s engaging tale makes a wonderful addition to a family library.
Pages: 26 | ASIN : B0C9FNBNZV
Daddy’s Favorite Sundae
Daddy’s Favorite Sundae, a charming children’s book by Dawn Grantham, follows the journey of a little girl named Sundae who learns to ride a bike without training wheels with the help of her supportive dad. Set against a colorful urban backdrop, Sundae faces challenges and teasing from peers but ultimately overcomes her fears, gaining confidence and new friendships along the way. This heartwarming tale is beautifully illustrated by Demont Pinder, bringing the story’s emotions and lessons to life.
One of the book’s strengths lies in its relatable and encouraging narrative. Grantham captures the feelings of frustration and determination that children often experience when learning new skills. Sundae’s journey is filled with ups and downs, perfectly exemplified in the scene where she falls into the trash but gets back up to try again. This moment is particularly poignant, as it teaches children that failure is part of the learning process and resilience is key to overcoming obstacles.
The dialogue and interactions in the book are realistic. When Sundae’s friends, Junior and Journey, initially tease her for using training wheels, it reflects a common childhood scenario. However, the story’s resolution, where these same friends cheer her on once she succeeds, underscores the themes of personal growth and peer support. This shift is both heartwarming and instructive, demonstrating the impact of perseverance and the value of supportive friendships.
The vibrant and expressive artwork captures the attention of young readers but also enhances their emotional connection to the characters. For instance, the depiction of Sundae’s proud moment riding without training wheels visually reinforces the triumph of the narrative. Every other page is filled with colorful imagery that makes the story accessible and delightful.
Daddy’s Favorite Sundae is an excellent picture book for children who are navigating the challenges of learning new skills and seeking encouragement. Its positive messages about resilience, the importance of family support, and the value of friendship make it a perfect choice for parents and educators alike.
Pages: 58 | ASIN : B0CV51TX9K
