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Highway To Healing
Highway to Healing by Shae Pratcher is an intimate and poignant memoir that delves into the author’s challenging childhood marked by abuse and neglect within her family. Pratcher’s narrative candidly addresses how these early experiences cast a long shadow over her adult life, including her marriage and the complex dynamics with her parents. The memoir traces her courageous decision to confront and process her past traumas, underscoring the considerable effort and commitment involved in her journey towards healing and personal growth.
Guided by her profound faith in God, Pratcher navigates her path to recovery, portraying the transformative power of spiritual belief in overcoming life’s obstacles. This book is not just a personal account but also a profound testament to the influence of faith, documenting the remarkable instances of divine intervention and the positive changes that ensued in her life. Pratcher’s narrative is notable for its emphasis on empowerment over victimhood, a perspective that lends an inspiring and motivational tone to the book. Her willingness to share personal and often painful details adds a layer of authenticity and depth, making the memoir resonate with readers. The integration of her spiritual journey into the story highlights the significant role of faith in her healing process. The memoir is particularly compelling for its portrayal of Pratcher’s proactive steps to protect her family from the repercussions of her past, a testament to the power of deliberate and self-aware choices in the path to recovery. While the content can be emotionally challenging, it serves as a powerful reminder that healing is possible, even in the face of deep-rooted trauma. That deliberate effort is key to overcoming such hurdles.
Highway to Healing stands out as a beacon of hope for others facing similar challenges, offering a unique perspective where past traumas are transformed into a source of strength and inspiration. This memoir is not just Pratcher’s personal journey; it is a guide for anyone seeking resilience and healing amidst life’s adversities.
Pages: 198 | ASIN : B0BWVM6XX7
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Highway to Healing is a personal memoir that recounts your journey through childhood trauma and loss, revealing how faith and therapy guided you toward healing and self-discovery. Why was this an important book for you to write?
It was important for me to write this book to continue to heal and help people who have experienced trauma in various aspects of their lives to change the narrative in how we navigate through it. People need to know they are not alone and what can be done to take the necessary steps to #Heal4Real so they can be whole and walk in their truth authentically.
How did writing this memoir affect your own healing process?
The effect writing this book had on my own healing process was very profound. It began as me just wanting to journal my way through my therapy sessions so I could reflect back at a later time in my life. However, in the process of doing this I felt a strong urge that confirmed it was going to be more than that. Although, I didn’t know what that would entail reading back over it then and even now it continues to push me forward in my choice to protect my peace on purpose. It serves as a reminder that I made it through to the other side and to maintain the level of peace and joy I have now, I must be intentional about continuing to make choices that align with that decision.
What do you hope readers take away from your story, especially those who may be facing similar challenges?
My hope is that others are encouraged, empowered and inspired to dedicate their time to commit to true healing by doing the necessary work. I want people to really self reflect as they read my book to identify what “work” is necessary for them to do in order for them to #Heal4Real so they too can be the best version of themselves for not only their loved ones but always for themselves because they deserve that! Truth is there’s a real importance and impact that is made when we are intentional about unpacking the different traumas so that we #Heal4Real.
Secondly, I hope they understand that true healing requires us to confront the uncomfortable things and/or people that contributed to the pain and trauma. This allows us to properly deal with it and put it away so we learn how to better deal with our triggers instead of them dealing with us.
How has your journey and the process of writing this memoir changed your perspective on life and relationships?
My perspective on life and relationships has been forever changed through eye opening experiences I encountered while on my own highway to healing journey. I learned so much about myself when I made the choice and that’s been a pivotal factor in my healing and how I see and deal with people now. I learned that I was looking at the world and all the people in it through trauma lens pre therapy. However, all that changed slowly but surely every session that I made the decision to show up for ME. Fast forward and post therapy I understand myself better than I ever had in my entire life. I look at circumstances differently and choose to allow people to be who they want to be in my life versus who I expect them to be and govern myself accordingly. I find that I’m happier and less stressed and frustrated with this approach. I learned that no matter how much we want things to be a certain way or people to behave we can’t change it or them. We can want better for others but they must not only want it for themselves but also be willing to work for it. So, with this in mind, I focus on ME and what’s within my scope to grow and be the best version of myself because that’s what I have the power to change and impact the world in a powerful way.
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While our journeys may not be exact, you may resonate with mine, and vice versa. It’s important to understand that we can all learn something from each other, no matter the difference in age, gender, or any of that other stuff we put labels on. Be willing to bet on YOU, the HEALED YOU! I’m not talking about the “half healed” version of yourself where you confront what’s comfort- able to circumvent what’s conducive. True healing requires commitment. You owe it to yourself. Too often we sacrifice ourselves, including our happiness, peace of mind, and joy, without ever being intentional about pouring back into our own cups.
“GIVE YOURSELF PERMISSION AND USE YOUR PAIN TO POUR INTO YOUR PATH THAT LEADS YOU TO YOUR PURPOSE.”
~SHAE PRATCHER ~
Highway To Healing
In her deeply moving memoir, author Shae Pratcher navigates a journey marked by intense emotional landscapes, beginning with early childhood trauma inflicted by a trusted family figure. This narrative is further complicated by the heart-wrenching loss of a child, events that collectively shape her life’s trajectory. The author candidly shares how her steadfast faith played a pivotal role in weathering these storms, illustrating how spiritual guidance and listening to divine direction became her compass in seeking healing from her deep-seated traumas.
Pratcher’s memoir is remarkable in its exploration of the healing process, delving into the author’s year-long therapeutic journey. Her eloquent portrayal of this experience resonates deeply, offering a message of hope and resilience. It underscores the idea that even in moments of perceived helplessness and despair, there lies an innate strength within us, a capacity for direction and self-recovery that often surpasses our expectations.
Throughout the book, the author confronts various personal challenges, demonstrating a commitment to self-care and healing. Her decision to openly acknowledge and address the sources of her pain and discomfort is both courageous and inspiring. This process not only aids in her own healing but also reshapes her identity for her family, revealing her authentic self – a testament to the beautiful creation she believes herself to be through her faith.
This book, while challenging to read due to its heavy emotional themes, imparts a powerful message about accountability and change. It echoes the author’s belief that desiring change is one thing, but actively making choices that align with that desire is another. Her journey, as narrated in this memoir, is a compelling testament to the power of faith, therapy, and inner strength in overcoming life’s most daunting challenges.
Pages: 196 | ASIN: B0BXNFGBHC
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