In her memoir Living with Trauma, Finding the Light Again, M. Struemph courageously recounts her life’s journey, the highs, the lows, and the deeply unsettling. After dedicating 32 years of service to the U.S. military, a career spent protecting others, Struemph was tragically unprepared for the danger that lurked within the very institution she served. Her memoir sheds a stark light on the pervasive issue of sexual abuse in the military, a hidden scourge that thrives in the shadows. Struemph’s story is not only a testament to her own resilience but also a call to action for addressing the trauma, fear, and silence that often surrounds these heinous acts.

Beginning at her retirement party, Struemph pours her heart into every page, vividly capturing her mixed emotions. We feel her sense of relief at closing one chapter of her life but also her deep anguish as memories of her predator and the abuse she endured resurface. The narrative is powerfully personal, and each chapter is carefully crafted to draw readers into her world. Though we may not know her personally, Struemph’s writing fosters an intimacy that makes us feel like trusted confidants entrusted with her deepest truths. The book also offers a sobering look at the latest statistics on sexual assault within the U.S. military. The numbers reveal a disturbing rise in cases, with women, in particular, bearing the brunt of these assaults. Although male soldiers are also affected, it is female service members who are most often targeted. These revelations are both unsurprising and devastating, forcing readers to confront the painful reality of systemic abuse. As someone unfamiliar with this issue before reading Struemph’s account, I found myself questioning what other injustices remain hidden behind institutional walls, and who will step up to fight for the victims. I deeply admire Struemph for her bravery in sharing her story, especially under her real name, despite initial fears. Her courage is a beacon of hope for others who may be suffering in silence. For anyone who has experienced trauma, Struemph’s message is clear: you are not alone, and healing is possible. Though trauma can weigh heavily on us, it does not define us—we have the strength to reclaim our lives and find joy again.

I highly recommend this memoir, Living with Trauma, Finding the Light Again, to those seeking a deeper understanding of the realities of sexual abuse in the military, as well as to survivors of assault. However, for those who have experienced similar trauma, be mindful that parts of this book may be triggering. Struemph’s story is not an easy read, but it is an essential one, shedding light on a dark corner of our world that too often remains unseen.

Pages: 404 | ASIN : B0D6WJ2W6P