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Be Clear-Eyed and Discerning
Dr. Black Widow is a gripping true story of betrayal, survival, and the pursuit of justice as you navigate the emotional and legal fallout of a failed marriage and a toxic relationship. Why was this an important book for you to write?
This book is a novel based on a true story as I searched for love after a failed 38-year marriage and a failed justice system!
In your story, you faced significant legal challenges. What changes do you think are most needed in the justice system to better protect people in similar situations?
Education for police officers to make a justified decision based on the facts.
You speak candidly about betrayal and emotional resilience. What advice would you give to others who are dealing with the fallout of a broken marriage or toxic relationship?
When searching for that special someone, it is crucial to be clear-eyed and discerning. Don’t ignore red flags no matter how much you want things to work out. Pay attention to how they treat you, how they treat others, and how they handle conflict. Is it someone who will truly cherish and respect you, or are they just putting on a show? Be wise, be practical, and don’t allow yourself to be blinded by wishful thinking.
Looking back on the events in Dr. Black Widow, is there anything you would have done differently, either in your personal relationships or in how you approached the legal battles?
I would not have ignored the red flags, and I would have run from the danger at the beginning. If I had run from the danger, then the legal battles would not have occurred.
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Dr. Black Widow By Mike Cromwell has achieved a remarkable feat by being as Top #100 best seller in one of Amazon’s categories.
#13 Best Seller ★ in Survival Biographies (Jun 28, 2024)
#47 Best Seller ★ in Two-Hour Biography & Memoir Short Reads (Jun 28, 2024)
#71 Best Seller ★ in Survival Biographies & Memoirs (Kindle Store) (Jun 28, 2024)
“Dr. Black Widow” is a gripping memoir by Mike Cromwell, unveiling a tale of love, betrayal, and the daunting quest to reclaim personal sovereignty from the clutches of manipulation and injustice. Within the pages of this narrative, readers are introduced to Mike, a protagonist who navigates the dangerous waters of a lengthy marriage only to confront the stark reality of infidelity. Despite this betrayal, Mike’s unwavering commitment to his daughter leads to a unique living arrangement with his estranged wife. As the story unfolds, the sale of Mike’s cherished home becomes a catalyst for change, propelling him into the orbit of Dr. Ford, a psychiatrist whose peculiar interest in the property sets the stage for a turbulent relationship fraught with manipulation and peril. Throughout the narrative, the intricate dance between Mike and Dr. Ford unfurls, revealing moments of intimacy interwoven with escalating cycles of coercion and danger. Despite his valiant efforts to break free, Mike finds himself trapped in a legal quagmire, confronting corruption and bias within the judicial system.
The Beauty of the Freedom Afterwards
Descending Angels, How to Escape Abuse: The Many Types of Abuse, The Angels of My Story, Tricks Learned for Escape is beautifully written and a unique approach that addresses a subject that is often overlooked or talked about by people who have not lived it. What inspired you to share your story?
It was a simple passing request believe it or not. Matilda (now grown) for whom I was a tutor, asked me to write one scene about what we were all going through. I did so, but then just couldn’t stop writing.
It was as if “the code of silence” that keeps many in the hands of abusers, broke. I became flooded not simply with emotion, but the more I thought about it, the more I saw how I might help others with what I’d learned, having escaped my abuser.
Everything poured out, and when organized became a guide, not just to escape, but to the beauty of the freedom afterwards.
What were some ideas that were important for you to share in this book?
Probably the most important would be that the victim knew how to survive long before they met the abuser. That being so, the victim will also survive after the abuser is gone. Survival need not be taught. Survival is a basic drive we are born with.
The second being; most victims are brainwashed into thinking they are less, undeserving, useless. That is just a power play that abusers use to minimize partners. If we were truly unworthy, would it have to be told to us repeatedly? No.
The problem I see most of the time is that people mistake confidence and or self-love for pride. These are not synonyms. Yet somehow, we grow-up believing that feeling good about ourselves is conceit.
What is a common misconception you feel people have about people in abusive relationships?
The biggest problem I’m aware of is that mainstream belief is that the abused are weak. Absolutely laughable if you take into account every horrible thing they put up with and still manage to get out of bed in the morning.
The worst bit is that the abused believe that lie too. This keeps them in the nightmare. I truly wish that society would stop reinforcing this mindset.
What is one thing you hope readers take away from your story?
We really are capable of anything we put our minds to. ALL of us. Don’t sell yourself short and bar yourself from overcoming obstacles. You are the main character of your story, if you don’t like what your story says, you have the power to rewrite it.
If this book helps even one woman get free, I’ve succeeded.
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What I didn’t know about abuse could fill up a book.
I didn’t know the many types of abuse and how they could affect me. I didn’t know how to escape or get away from it. I didn’t know how smart I actually was and everything I could accomplish if I only put my mind to it. And I didn’t know how strong I was… that is, until Angels Descended upon me and enlightened my thoughts with what was actually possible for my life.
God did not put us on this planet to be bullied and abused. When He sends Angels to help you – LISTEN to them! Take action. And get away as soon as you possibly can!
Descending Angels, How to Escape Abuse: The Many Types of Abuse, The Angels of My Story, Tricks Learned for Escape
Descending Angels, How to Escape Abuse by Mrs. Anonymous offers an insightful exploration of the psychological impacts of abuse through the lens of spiritual metaphors and personal experiences. This work uniquely combines angelic symbolism with practical advice, providing a valuable resource for individuals recovering from abusive relationships. The book begins by shedding light on the subtle yet damaging forms of abuse, including emotional and economic, along with their warning signs. Mrs. Anonymous then shares her own story, starting with her summoning of an angelic figure, symbolizing the initiation of her journey toward liberation from her abuser.
Mrs. Anonymous’s narrative is deeply personal, recounting her journey through the support of Alcoholics Anonymous and a compassionate therapist, whom she affectionately terms as the ‘medicine man’. These experiences are presented as pivotal in her healing process, offering readers a raw and intimate glimpse into her soul. Her writing style is notably approachable and empathetic, resonating with those facing similar challenges. She consistently promotes resilience and faith, encouraging readers to persevere through difficult times. A significant aspect of the book is its practical guidance for those seeking to extricate themselves from narcissistic relationships. Mrs. Anonymous outlines strategic steps and resources for a safe exit, emphasizing the importance of self-worth and professional assistance.
Descending Angels, How to Escape Abuse is a compelling read, not only for those navigating the journey from victim to survivor of abuse but also for individuals supporting others in such circumstances. It’s a testament to the strength found in vulnerability and the power of seeking and accepting help.
Pages: 55 | ASIN : B0CS19HPLK
Don’t Poke the Bear: A Memoir About Recovering From Abuse By A Narcissist
Maria Schmeig’s Don’t Poke the Bear: A Memoir About Recovering From Abuse By a Narcissist is a poignant and unflinchingly honest account of her 28-year struggle within an emotionally abusive marriage. At 29, Maria believed she had found her soulmate, only to discover that her partner was not the person she thought he was. Her narrative vividly details the challenges of navigating a dangerous relationship while raising three children, offering a close look at her coping mechanisms and the journey to recognizing the abusive patterns of her narcissistic husband.
From the opening line, “This nightmare ends today,” Schmeig sets a tone of empowerment and resilience. She not only shares her story but also imparts a critical lesson on the importance of community support in overcoming such trials. Her writing invites readers into her world, allowing them to connect deeply with her experiences. I found myself empathizing with Maria’s pain and admiring her courage. Her unapologetic honesty creates a bond with the audience, making her journey feel both personal and universal. The memoir stands out for its heartfelt sincerity and vivid descriptions of life with a narcissist. Schmeig’s storytelling is engaging and rich in detail, capturing the complex dynamics of her experience. The book’s artistic style contributes to its immersive quality, though some readers might prefer a more straightforward approach.
Don’t Poke the BearDon’t Poke the Bear: A Memoir About Recovering From Abuse By a Narcissist is more than a memoir; it’s a testament to the human spirit’s resilience. It’s a valuable read for anyone interested in understanding the realities of living in an abusive relationship and the power of personal transformation. This book not only tells one woman’s story but also speaks to the broader themes of survival, support, and self-discovery.
Pages: 263 | ASIN : B0CNTWR44T
Heart to Heart Resuscitation – A Memoir
The transition from the battlefield to civilian life is often a tumultuous journey for war veterans. Heart to Heart Resuscitation, by Vic Montgomery III, explores this delicate subject through the lens of the Montgomery Model of heart-to-heart resuscitation. This innovative approach is designed to aid veterans in healing from the deep-seated trauma and mental anguish often experienced post-service. The book delves into the complexities of post-traumatic stress disorder, substance dependency, and the broad spectrum of mental health challenges that many veterans face upon returning home.
Montgomery’s passionate advocacy for heart-to-heart resuscitation is a testament to his commitment to restoring the lives of those who have served. His method, which emphasizes counseling from the heart and the power of storytelling, is both unique and commendable. The author’s dedication to working with individuals struggling with chemical dependencies and severe mental health issues reflects a deep understanding and respect for the sacrifices made by military personnel. While the book does not shy away from the harsh realities of war and its aftermath, it also offers a message of hope and recovery. Montgomery’s work is a tribute to the resilience of the human spirit and the potential for renewal even after the most harrowing experiences. This book is not only a valuable resource for veterans and their families but also for anyone seeking to understand the profound impact of war on the human psyche.
In Heart to Heart Resuscitation, Vic Montgomery III emerges as a compassionate figure dedicated to the noble cause of healing and supporting those who have endured the unthinkable. His work serves as a reminder of the ongoing support needed by veterans as they navigate the challenging path back to civilian life. The book is well-crafted, offering insights into the struggles and triumphs of those who have served, making it a recommended read for a broad audience.
Pages: 278 | ASIN : B0CN7BLCHG
Escaping My Demons
In Escaping My Demons, author Joseph Fagarazzi provides a poignant and deeply moving account of his life, marked by emotional scars from his past, particularly a turbulent relationship with his biological father. Born during a challenging period in his parents’ lives, he bore the burden of their resentment, grappling with a constant feeling that he had disrupted their existence.
Fagarazzi courageously delves into the trials and tribulations of his life’s journey, which was marred by severe physical and emotional maltreatment from his parents. Despite his tumultuous upbringing and his father’s wayward conduct, he endeavored to construct a relationship with the father he had been deprived of. Unfortunately, just as he began to reconcile his past, a new series of bitter disappointments unfolded, further intensifying the cycle of paternal hate he endured.
Joseph Fagarazzi’s memoir encapsulates the profound anguish and adversity he faced at the hands of his biological family. He candidly recounts his life’s darkest chapters, striving to liberate himself from the trauma inflicted by his father. This work candidly explores the raw intensity of his experiences, conveying the depth of physical and emotional torment he bore, his struggles and triumphs, as well as the severe cruelty of his father.
The narrative is profoundly affecting as it unveils the severity of Joseph’s suffering at the hands of those who should have offered him unconditional love and support. The weighty paradox of a child being the victim of such cruelty from his family rather than external forces is deeply unsettling. However, Fagarazzi’s courage in sharing these deeply personal and traumatic experiences is commendable. His narration radiates palpable pain, desire, and a sense of the absurdity of his father’s actions.
This memoir, while it might be a challenging read due to its intense emotional content, is incredibly compelling. Escaping My Demons offers readers a riveting and heartfelt perspective on resilience and the power of personal liberation.
Pages: 190 | ASIN : B0BLWBJ78J
Sarah Burning
Sarah Burning by Tim Ritter is a true story that takes place in the 50s and 60s. It centers around the life of a family who experienced a fire on October 27th, 1959. This memoir shares the horror they endured that dark morning and the aftermath that the survivors faced. This emotional book starts with the aforementioned fire. Then it jumps back in time, sharing some of the back stories of the Ritter family. The introduction hooks the reader as you turn each page, hoping the author didn’t wait until the last chapter to reveal what happened in the fire. Instead, the author shares the story of the Ritter family, their daily life, and their journey as individuals after the deadly fire that altered the rest of their lives.
Although the book describes each character’s inner feelings, it is written using the stylistics of a diary and tells the reader what happened on significant days in the Ritter family. Life back then, although not that long ago, was completely different, and the pace of life is different nowadays too. Reading about the Ritter family gives the reader a welcomed moment to take a step away from all that is busy and technology controlled. This slower pace of life is also reflected in the pacing of the narrative. Information about the event and the family is revealed in a way that allows the readers to fully absorb the situation and grasp at the emotions the family is feeling at the time.
Sarah Burning is the emotional biography of one family and the plight of those that survived this devastating fire. Their gripping story tells of overcoming the loss of those they love, healing from the burns, and learning how to start over when everything is literally left in ashes. This survival story will touch the hearts of readers and leave them with a sense of hope that they can overcome tragedy in life.
Pages: 270 | ASIN : B09GF6NJMN
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