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Rudeness Rehab: Reclaiming Civility in the Workplace and Your Home Space
John O’Brien’s Rudeness REHAB dives into a pressing issue of modern life—the pervasive presence of incivility and its impact on personal and professional interactions. Through a compelling blend of personal anecdotes, psychological insights, and practical strategies, O’Brien offers readers a roadmap to understanding, addressing, and ultimately mitigating rude behaviors in themselves and others. His exploration strikes a chord, challenging assumptions while providing actionable tools to foster respectful communication.
O’Brien makes a clear distinction between overt acts like bullying and the subtler, often unconscious behaviors that define everyday rudeness. This subtlety allows readers to introspect and reconsider their own actions and reactions. Drawing on academic research, including the work of Christine Porath and Christine Pearson on workplace incivility, O’Brien builds a foundation of credibility without drowning readers in complex terminology.
One of the book’s most impactful aspects is its examination of the health consequences of incivility. Chronic stress stemming from rude interactions, O’Brien explains, can lead to significant physical and mental health issues, including high blood pressure, depression, and even addiction. By linking rudeness to such tangible effects, he underscores the importance of civility not just for interpersonal harmony but for individual well-being.
O’Brien’s storytelling brings the text to life. The book opens with a vivid and relatable account of an uncivil job interview, setting the stage for his exploration of the broader implications of rudeness. His conversational tone and knack for weaving humor into serious discussions make complex psychological concepts approachable and engaging. Whether recounting personal experiences or presenting strategies for improvement, O’Brien maintains an accessible and captivating narrative style. The author’s tone is both empathetic and empowering. He acknowledges the universality of incivility, offering reassurance to readers who have faced or exhibited such behavior. At the same time, he challenges them to take responsibility, encouraging proactive steps toward self-awareness and change. Strategies such as grounding techniques and reframing internal dialogue are explained with clarity, making them easy to implement.
O’Brien seamlessly transitions between personal stories, research-backed insights, and practical advice, guiding readers through scenarios ranging from tense family gatherings to the volatile realm of social media. O’Brien captures the essence of a society grappling with diminishing civility, offering readers tools to navigate and counteract this trend. His ability to contextualize rudeness within the broader framework of mental health and interpersonal dynamics makes this book an invaluable resource.
Whether you’re a professional seeking to improve workplace interactions, a parent teaching children the value of respect, or simply someone aiming to cultivate more meaningful relationships, Rudeness REHAB is an essential read. Through a masterful combination of reflection, research, and practical guidance, John O’Brien delivers a powerful call to action for fostering kindness and respect in an increasingly uncivil world.
Pages: 198 | ISBN : 978-1957651910
Kindness and Forgiveness
Ouch, You Hit Me follows a young schoolgirl who, after an incident in the sand bin, aims to navigate and resolve interpersonal conflicts, showcasing the importance of communication over physical reactions. What was the inspiration for the setup of your story?
The inspiration behind the story came from my 5-year-old daughter and the conflicts she was having at school. She struggled a lot with speaking up for herself, and I realized this was a conversation we were having often. I noticed that if she struggled with it then I’m sure others did as well. So I decided to write a book about it to make it a teachable topic.
The art in the book is charming. What was the art collaboration process like with illustrator Lalsho Bujer?
I found Lalsho on Fiver. It was difficult at times because she is located in a different country, so we had a big time difference, but overall her work is amazing and we pushed past obstacles.
What were some themes that were important for you to explore in this book?
A few themes that were important to me are conflict resolution between children, teachers modeling language for children, and lastly kindness and forgiveness.
What is the next book you are working on, and when will it be available?
The next book I am working on is titled We’re All Friends–a story about a boy named Knox and the valuable lesson he learns to include others when playing. He learns through a teachable moment that it is okay to have more than one friend in Pre-K. It will be available this upcoming May.
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Compassionate and empowering, Ouch, You Hit Me, is a guide to help children navigate age-appropriate behaviors. This book is a great visual for children learning to use the power of words.
No One is Truly Alone
The Connection Playbook is a guidebook that teaches readers how to build meaningful and healthy relationships in order to have a more fulfilling life. Why was this an important book for you to write?
My life’s path has primarily centered on guiding individuals through the intricacies of their relationships with others. Writing a book on this subject felt like the inevitable next step in this lifelong pursuit.
My enduring desire has been to take the insights I’ve held deep within and present them in an easily understandable and engaging manner. Writing a book has allowed me to discover the beauty in the shared human experience – realizing that many people have similar insights; they simply express them in unique and diverse ways.
With so many different books out on the market on relationship building, what ideas do you present that make yours different and stand out?
I’d like to start by expressing my perspective: to me, books are akin to seeds. When you plant them, some flourish with enduring significance others don’t make it so far. Books about relationships, regardless of their authorship, hold value for anyone who gains insight from them. In the case of this particular book, I believe it offers a blend of practicality, straightforward simplicity, and exercises that provide a genuine opportunity to transform lives and relationships.
A decade of my life has been woven into the fabric of this book, and I believe readers can sense that profound connection. Even the inclusion of QR codes at the conclusion of each chapter serves as a poignant reminder that every reader is not traversing this intricate journey alone.
Has anyone ever given you a piece of life-changing advice, if so can you share with us what that was and why it made such an impact on you?
Advice holds significant meaning in my life, and I tend to perceive it in a broader light than most. I genuinely believe that everything that comes our way carries hidden lessons. Each encounter is an invitation for us to discern the guidance the universe is presenting us with in that particular moment.
Reflecting on just this book, some of the most invaluable advice I’ve received came from my high school teacher, who remains a dear friend to this day. In the early stages of the book, he remarked, “The book is not a reflection of you. It lacks the depth I know you possess.” While it was more of feedback than advice, the lesson I gleaned from it was clear: don’t restrain yourself. And I heeded that wisdom wholeheartedly.
What is one thing you hope readers take away from your book?
I aim for readers to realize that they have the capacity to transform relationships they may have once dismissed as irreparable – be it with parents they’ve been reluctant to forgive or children with whom they struggle to find common ground. Ultimately, life can often seem isolating and insurmountable. I’m hoping this book makes that less so.
I wrote this book to illuminate the fact that no one is truly alone in their journey. I want people to recognize that there are tangible, practical steps they can take to enhance their interactions with others. In the end, they need not be mere victims of their circumstances; they possess the power to shape their relationships and their lives.
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🌐 The Connection Playbook is both deeply relevant and immediately practical, offering illuminating exercises at the end of each chapter. This book is an invitation to transform how we relate to others, unburden ourselves from the weight of unresolved conflicts, and embrace the transformative power of authentic connections.
🌐 Dive into the depths of human relationships, communication, and the intricate web that binds us all. Whether you’re seeking to enhance your personal connections, improve your professional networking, or simply gain a deeper understanding of the world around you, this comprehensive guide has got you covered.
📖 Inside, you’ll discover:
🗣️ Difficult Discussions: Learn strategies and techniques to navigate tough conversations with grace and empathy.
🧘 Managing Triggers: Explore how to identify and manage emotional triggers that can hinder meaningful connections.
🤔 Asking Skillful Questions: Uncover the power of asking the right questions to foster understanding and connection.
🚫 Overcoming Blame and Judgment: Gain insights on how to let go of blame and judgment, creating space for compassion and connection.
🎉 What’s Included?
📖 The Main Book: A comprehensive exploration of connection, featuring insights, stories, and expert advice on these and other vital topics.
🎧 7 Hours of Audio: Immerse yourself in the content with in-depth audio guides for each chapter.
📹 4 Hours of Video: Access exclusive video content to enhance your understanding.
📣 Get ready to connect on a whole new level, both with yourself and with others.
🌟 Get your copy today and let’s explore the boundless possibilities of human connection together!
Don’t Bury an Ailing Marriage
Don’t Bury an Ailing Marriage: … It’s Not Too Late to Resuscitate! by author and psychologist Don D. Campbell Ph.D. is a relationship/marriage self-help book that gives insight into marriages and relationships in four different parts. This informative book breaks down straining relationships and how to heal them through four distinct concepts: 1. Open your mind, 2. Open your heart, 3. Cleave unto your spouse, and 4. Office visits. This inspirational book concludes with an epilogue titled Love is Forever.
By addressing each of these ideas, the author highlights the roots of issues that lead to ailing marriages. The book goes through several key issues that are found at the heart of many struggling marriages, including but not limited to: loss of the sense of self, adultery, anger, dissatisfaction, abuse, victimization, and lack of sexual intimacy. Though these issues are individually addressed, Campbell gives profound insight for working through these issues and practical tools for healing wounds that have surfaced.
Conflict resolution, weekly date nights, respect, and re-sparking romance are just a few of the ways addressed to help heal an ailing marriage. Campbell does a good job at getting to the root of many issues and offering solutions for marriages. Knowing that there is no one cure for all, Campbell covers multiple solutions while encouraging readers to figure out the right combination for their unique needs.
This thought-provoking book gave me hope for seeing the value of working through conflict in order to better my own marriage. By challenging readers to address their own personal issues, this encouraging book does a great job of extending hope and restoration to couples at any stage of their relationship.
Don’t Bury an Ailing Marriage: … It’s Not Too Late to Resuscitate! is not only an enjoyable book to read, but it is also recommended for couples and singles looking to better understand all kinds of relationships. The information is invaluable and contains solid advice and ground to stand upon as relationships are navigated.
Pages: 244 | ASIN : B07958H7QB
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