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Brenda Miller Author Interview

Blessing Mistakes is a self-help book that teaches people to focus on the whole person instead of a mistake that was made. Why was this an important book for you to write?

For many years my focus has been to help people dissolve stress in 30 seconds when an upset arises—it’s called Instant Evolution Out Of Stress®. Mistakes don’t need to cause hostility and hollering when they can create compassion and connection.

What experiences from your own life influenced your book?

One day I was driving my dad’s too big truck in his too small corral and I put a dent in it. When I showed it to him, apologized, and offered to pay for it, he held his arms out to me for a hug and said, “It doesn’t matter a particle.” On that day I learned how to give myself and others Grace (be kind) instead of grief (be mean) when a mistake is made. The mistake is already made, so we can decide if we want to disapprove and feel upset or feel the truth of the statement, “I/Your matter more than the mistake.”

What is one piece of advice someone gave you that changed your life?

My mom showed me how to let the love in my heart look through my eyes.

What do you hope is one thing readers take away from your book?

That they have a joyful nature residing within them—it’s there waiting for us when we dissolve what’s blocking it.

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When you bless mistakes instead of being stressed by them, you dissolve a lot of turmoil
in your head—and in your home. This book offers a host of connection-creating, stressreducing
strategies that transform you from grumpy to grateful and point you back to
your peaceful and playful nature.

With a heartwarming sense of humor, Brenda helps you unfriend anger—simply
because you don’t need it anymore. Dissolving anger makes space for Grace as your new
operating system, and leaves you genuinely able to show yourself and others kindness
when a mistake is made.

Brenda also includes three stories from her children’s book, Mr. Upalupagus’s Secret Secrets to help you teach your kids how to bless mistakes and shoo away anger.

Praise for Blessing Mistakes

“I went from panicked to peaceful in a matter of seconds when I applied
this simple strategy.”
—Julie Veresh,
Innate Dynamics

“Blessing Mistakes is a game changer for me. Talk. About. Relief.”
—Janna Glasman,
Franklin Method Educator

Blessing Mistakes

Blessing Mistakes is a life-changing and eye-opening self-help book by Brenda Miller. The author shares with readers practical ways to help you let go of the negativity and live a peaceful life. The central concept of this book teaches you how to deal with mistakes with gratitude and love instead of anger.

Brenda has written about beneficial strategies to help people with anger management. This book revolves around the concept that people matter more than their mistakes. Hence, when a mistake is made, we should enter the higher conscious level, and instead of punishing the person in question, we should make them understand that they are bigger and more important than their mistake. By showing this kindness, we not only make their life easier and teach them a meaningful lesson, but the power of forgiving also results in a healthier lifestyle free of resentment and grudges.

Author Brenda miller is an exceptional writer and best-selling author in parenting books, and such as her previous books, this one is a masterpiece as well. She has written helpful guidelines that can change a person’s life in more ways than imaginable. Her childhood stories reflect the fact that she grew up in a healthy environment where she wasn’t blamed and resented for meaningless mistakes. Instead, she was taught ways to make corrections, and such gratitude has made her a better person. Further on, the stories of her own children are also shared along with some from other authors’ work. Perceptive quotations and lessons are beautifully mentioned in places, and Miller’s humor-friendly tone made this book an easy and joyous read.

Blessing Mistakes consists of valuable real-life lessons and teaches a person practical strategies that are guaranteed to change their mindset and enable them to live stress-free lives. Miller could provide such insightful and beneficial information without making it seem complicated. This 6 chapter book was fast-paced and truly an amazing read!

Pages: 172 | ASIN : B09KX22ND8

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