Dread in the Dark follows a little boy that has a new sister and a new room, but the new room is scary at night. What was the inspiration for your story?

It must be admitted that I am fascinated by different fears. That’s why I have written a whole Little Fears Series! Both children and adults have them, and the ways to cope with them vary. I think that adults have a great responsibility to ensure children’s welfare. This does not mean growing up in cotton wool and removing all difficulties, but sensitivity to recognize situations where help is needed. In this book, on the one hand, I deal with the common fear of the dark, but as a side plot, I also deal with the significant change that the birth of a little sibling causes in the family.

I remember trying to sleep in the kitchen for a while as a child – with no success. Although I wasn’t afraid of the refrigerator, its vibrations and noises in the middle of the night made it difficult to fall asleep. The birth of a new child also creates confusing contradictions in the lives of many families. Older children often feel that they are losing something in their status and may worry about their parents’ feelings for them. Fortunately, as a child, I was thrilled to be a big sister, so that side of the story is not based on my experiences.

What were some ideas that were important for you to share in this book?

Dread in the Dark is a book in the Little Fears Series that addresses various situations of wise parenting – seven books so far! So, the book’s target group includes both children and their parents. Little ones can best overcome their fears with adults’ encouraging and calm attitude.

With my book, I want to highlight the importance of cooperation between adults and children when fear disturbs a child’s life. When viewed through the eyes of an adult, recognizing the need for help may be complicated because fearful situations often seem pointless from their perspective. The little person doesn’t always get the parent’s patient attention and calm handling in a problematic situation.

A child’s fear may unexpectedly appear in an everyday situation where the adult’s attention is on other, more important things in his opinion. In the middle of a rush, he may ignore the child’s fear lightly, even irritably, or postpone dealing with it to a more suitable time from his point of view. Of course, giving the case enough time is a good idea, but this promise must not go unfulfilled. A few friendly words of encouragement, even in the middle of a rush, might help as first aid. So the child will be noticed and feel valued.

Children may also be reluctant to confess their fears and talk about them. The pressure of coping alone and being brave is also there. Building trust and revealing even sensitive thoughts is a long-term process. You could also write a whole book about it under the parenting title!

What was your approach to writing the interactions between Elliot and his dad?

It is no coincidence that I chose a child and his father for this book. My relationship with my father was the bedrock of my childhood. Although Father was an old-fashioned man in many respects, he also could understand a child’s sensitivity and need for security. On the other hand, I have gained the challenge of coping with different situations myself.

My parenting experiences as a mother of three children – and now also a grandmother – have confirmed my idea that dealing with different fears is essential. There are many ways. There is first aid and long-term work. There are playful solutions, serious discussions, and, above all, sensitive listening. It’s pointless to try to force quick solutions, no matter how busy you are as an adult. It is better to find time and patience when the child’s need is greatest – not until tomorrow or next week. Childhood is short, but what it creates for the rest of life is vital!

Some essential topics in Dread in the Dark relate to Elliot’s trust in his father and the security he represents. Catty Flores’ delightful illustration brings humanity and warmth to both main characters. Adult readers can undoubtedly identify with the sleepy father’s attempts to get the situation under control in the middle of the night, with his own eyes half closed from fatigue.

What is one thing that people point out after reading your book that surprises you?

Especially with the Little Fears Series books, I often get into conversations where adults reveal their surprising childhood memories. I am usually amazed at how big someone’s small fears can become in a person’s mind. Situations that seem trivial in themselves may have grown into problems that affect even an adult’s life.

Often, fearful situations and memories concentrate on two kinds of strong feelings. The first category is anger and disappointment with the adults of one’s childhood: Why didn’t anyone notice? Why didn’t anyone understand? Why didn’t anyone help? The second type of thought is a shame that an adult feels: Am I still the same timid child? Dare I admit to anyone that I still need help dealing with this old fear?

I have sometimes ended up hugging and comforting an adult for whom painful memories from childhood have suddenly surfaced. That’s when I’m on the right and necessary path when writing books like this. I have succeeded if I can help children in challenging situations and make it easier for parents struggling with parenting issues!

I often get suggestions from children and their parents for new stories in the Little Fears Series. I collect them because they may inspire more books in this much-needed series. – One of those topics brewing in my mind recently popped up, and I found a fun way of handling one more fear! Just wait and see!

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