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What’s So Bad About Being Poor? Our Lives in the Shadows of the Poverty Experts
Deborah M. Foster’s What’s So Bad About Being Poor? is a gripping exploration of poverty and mental illness through the lens of her own tumultuous family history. Spanning multiple generations, the book deftly intertwines personal memoir with societal critique, offering a candid, often raw account of the struggles her family faced. Foster’s storytelling blends vivid memories, poignant observations, and biting commentary, making it both a heartfelt narrative and a call to action against systemic inequities.
What struck me most was Foster’s ability to illuminate the deep scars poverty leaves, not just on finances but on the human spirit. The opening chapters introduce us to her father, grappling with schizophrenia, and her mother, struggling with bipolar disorder. These challenges, compounded by the weight of economic instability, create an almost suffocating sense of inevitability that permeates the family’s life. One particularly haunting moment involves Foster’s father’s psychotic episode while serving in the Air Force, a turning point that sets the stage for the family’s challenges with mental health and stigma. These moments are rendered with a stark honesty that makes them both heartbreaking and relatable.
Foster’s critique of societal attitudes toward poverty is both personal and razor-sharp. She targets the toxic ideologies of figures like Charles Murray, whose dismissal of poverty as “not so bad” fuels her lifelong determination to counter such views. The book cleverly juxtaposes Murray’s theoretical musings with Foster’s lived reality, exposing the absurdity of detached policymaking. Yet, the book isn’t all gloom. Foster finds moments of resilience and even humor in her family’s chaos. Her descriptions of her mother’s encounters with eccentric faith healers or her father’s UFO theories add a surreal, almost darkly comedic layer to the narrative. These anecdotes, while strange, serve as a reminder of the lengths people will go to find meaning and hope in desperate circumstances. Foster’s ability to weave these lighter threads into her otherwise heavy tale is a testament to her skill as a writer.
What’s So Bad About Being Poor? is as much a memoir as it is a rallying cry. Foster’s journey from a poor, marginalized child to an academic fighting against the very systems that oppressed her family is inspiring. This book is for anyone who wants to understand the lived experience of poverty beyond the numbers and policies. It’s for those who appreciate a narrative that is as fiercely intelligent as it is deeply personal. For me, it was a stark reminder of the resilience of the human spirit, even in the face of unimaginable hardship. Highly recommended.
Pages: 418 | ASIN : B0CQJ3K8SH
A Global Icon
Edward de Bono: Love Laterally is a biography that paints a vivid and layered portrait of the man who coined and championed the concept of lateral thinking. What inspired you to tell Edward de Bono’s story?
It is a zeitgeist story. It was a timely and important story to tell. We need to teach our children how to think not what to think in schools – and this book explains why and how. It’s more than a biography. Edward de Bono led the world of thinking for over half a century, encouraging people to think about their thinking. His ideas and views are even more relevant now than they were in the 1960s when he started to write the first of his sixty-six books. He resisted autobiography and biography because he didn’t want to get in the way of his ideas. He did not want to become the focus of attention, and journalists frustrated him, as he believed they (largely) focus on human angles, gimmicks, and attack, and often quoted him out of context. This is a shame as his ideas, as many of those I interviewed over the seven years, worked in real-world scenarios and made a lot of people very rich, both in their professional and personal lives.
He lived life to the full and was a global icon before it became relatively easy to be so, thanks to the internet. He dominated the world of ‘thinking’ and encouraged people to think about their thinking for over half a century. And he left behind him some very strong feelings. I knew him for the last ten years of his life, and I felt his passion for introducing lateral thinking lessons into schools was even more timely now that it was when he first suggested the idea back in the sixties. That is why I launched the book at the House of Lords, in front of distinguished guests, including Lord Bilimoria, Sir Anthony Seldon, Lord Woolley, Huw Levinson, Baroness Helena Kennedy as well as others interested in the thinking process, including Dr Alison Wood of Cambridge University and founder of Changemakers, Karen Chetwynd CEO Montessori Global, Nicola Tyler, who worked with Edward for years, advertising guru Dave Trott, and Dr Tara Swart who has written about the thinking process in her best-selling book as well.
What were some ideas that were important for you to share in this book?
Edward resisted a biography and autobiography as he didn’t want to get in the way of his ideas. He was a charismatic man, who was able to hold the attention of schoolchildren, and CEOs, politicians, and creatives alike. He achieved so much in his life, his bibliography is a chapter in its own right, but when I asked him how he wished to be remembered he replied ‘as a writer, and for doing good’. As Baroness Helena Kennedy states in the excellent foreword, he was a visionary, who’s ideas have yet to be fully appreciated.
Did you find anything in your research of this story that surprised you?
So many things. Some trivial, others more significant.
For example, I didn’t know during the sixties, he was at one point the most travelled person (by air) on the planet (with BA at least) and that you are told by BA when you have clocked up enough air miles.
There were also so many people from diverse backgrounds I didn’t realise who had been influenced by his ideas. Fashion icon, Sir Paul Smith, is a huge fan, and so is author and illustrator Shaun Tan, as are the Eurythmics (who thanked him on the cover of their Sweet Dreams album), and I only discovered this in the process of researching the book.
I also noted how many reports differed in the number of books he had written. Edward himself wasn’t sure, but I referred to his family and they said ‘sixty-six’.
What is one thing that you hope readers take away from Edward de Bono: Love Laterally?
I would like them to buy one of his books – perhaps a couple – which will make them think about their thinking. Everyone has a favourite that relates to their way of thinking, or the people they work with. Mine was the 1990 ‘I am Right You are Wrong’ which clearly identifies why critical thinking, argument, confrontation, and ego, get in the way of identifying solutions and lead to and encourage conflict, while lateral thinking encourages connection, collaboration, and communication as a way to identify solutions. Edward explains how and makes it fun and playful.
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Adored by advertising agencies, misunderstood by the media, and mistrusted by academia, De Bono became a household name dominating the field of creative thinking for half a century.
With contributions from de Bono’s former wife, Josephine de Bono, Sir Tony Blair and many others who knew de Bono – plus rare photographs from his family.
Deadly Dilemma: A Memoir
Anthony Gurley’s Deadly Dilemma is a raw and intimate memoir that explores the tumultuous emotional journey of a man grappling with his past, his fears, and his place in the world. From his childhood in a poor North Carolina housing project to his struggles with self-worth and his attempts to reconcile with faith and family, Gurley paints a vivid portrait of his life. The story begins with a poignant letter that sets the tone, one of unvarnished truth, pain, and introspection, before taking the reader through a labyrinth of formative moments, personal trials, and eventual reckonings.
What I liked most about the book was Gurley’s ability to convey vulnerability without self-pity. The letter at the beginning is a gut punch, laying bare his struggles with depression and fear. As he recounts his childhood memories, such as a terrifying encounter with Hurricane Hazel or his days playing sports at the Boys Club, Gurley brings a sense of nostalgia tinged with melancholy. These anecdotes felt relatable, especially his longing for recognition and connection. His descriptions of trying out for the basketball team and the heartache of not making it are heartbreakingly universal moments of rejection that linger long after adolescence.
At times, Gurley’s narrative meanders, pulling the reader into minute details of his early years or internal thoughts. While this makes the book deeply personal, some passages felt overly detailed and repetitive. For example, his recounting of ironing clothes and relating it to a George Washington Carver biography is insightful but I think it could have been condensed. That said, this unfiltered style makes the memoir feel like a candid conversation with the author, one where he is unafraid to show every bruise and scar.
I appreciated Gurley’s reflections on his relationship with faith and community. His introduction to Quakerism and his attempts to find solace in religion add depth to the book. However, the most powerful sections for me were his examinations of family. The story of his father leaving when he was a child, coupled with his own feelings of inadequacy as a parent, hit me hard. It’s in these moments that the memoir transcends its specific context and becomes a universal exploration of loss and resilience.
By the time I reached the conclusion, I felt both drained and inspired. Deadly Dilemma is not a light read. It forces the reader to confront uncomfortable truths about fear, loneliness, and the human need for love and belonging. I’d recommend this book to anyone who enjoys deeply personal memoirs that wrestle with life’s big questions.
Pages: 318 | ASIN : B0CQ6GXGRW
Edward de Bono: Love Laterally
Sarah Tucker’s Edward de Bono: Love Laterally paints a vivid and layered portrait of Edward de Bono, the man who coined and championed the concept of lateral thinking. Tucker delves into de Bono’s life with warmth, wit, and curiosity, offering a narrative that oscillates between his intellectual brilliance and personal quirks. From his early days in Malta to his global influence as a thinker and educator, the book captures the essence of a man who reshaped the way we approach creativity and problem-solving.
What struck me most was Tucker’s ability to weave anecdotes that showcased de Bono’s humor and humanity. One instance that stood out was when, as a young student, de Bono circumvented bullying by inventing a secret passageway at his boarding school, demonstrating his knack for innovative problem-solving even as a child. These moments are sprinkled throughout the book, making de Bono relatable, even to readers who might not be familiar with his academic legacy.
Tucker doesn’t shy away from exploring de Bono’s professional controversies. The criticism he faced for his theories lacking empirical support is discussed with nuance. Yet, the narrative also highlights the testimonies of countless professionals who credited de Bono’s methods for their success. The juxtaposition of detractors calling his work “pseudoscience” against admirers who saw him as transformative makes for a fascinating read. It’s clear Tucker admires her subject, but she’s also unafraid to question his more outlandish ideas, like his proposal to become the “King of Australia,” which borders on self-parody.
What I loved most were the glimpses into his creative philosophy. De Bono’s belief that education should encourage collaboration rather than competition resonated with me. His Six Thinking Hats methodology, which encourages diverse perspectives in problem-solving, exemplifies this ethos. Yet, Tucker’s coverage of de Bono’s struggles with institutional recognition and his complicated relationships with academia left me pondering the systemic rigidity that stifles innovation.
Edward de Bono: Love Laterally is a compelling read for anyone intrigued by creativity, psychology, or education. Tucker’s conversational tone and her ability to balance respect for de Bono with critical observation make this biography accessible and engaging. I’d recommend it to readers who appreciate stories of unconventional thinkers or those seeking inspiration to approach problems differently.
Pages: 256 | ISBN : 1913641465
From Deep Within: A Clinical and Forensic Psychologist’s Journey
Susan J. Lewis’ From Deep Within: A Forensic and Clinical Psychologist’s Journey offers an intimate and enlightening exploration of her career as a practicing psychologist. Part memoir and part professional reflection, the book begins with Susan’s early life and the path that led her to the field of psychology. From there, it shifts focus to her encounters with various patients, offering detailed accounts of both individual and group therapy sessions. She candidly discusses the challenges and breakthroughs she experienced, providing readers with a rare glimpse into the emotional complexities of working in forensic and clinical psychology.
The book’s core lies in Susan’s vivid depictions of her patients, each presented with care and nuance. Through these accounts, Susan illustrates the intricate dance of building trust and forging connections, often against significant odds. In group therapy sessions, she describes the collective dynamics, highlighting the initial states of her patients and the progress they achieved. One particularly compelling example involves the “Blackjack group,” where Susan’s persistent effort to introduce games that resonated with the participants ultimately revealed their preferences and opened pathways for engagement. Similarly, her experience with Vicky—a patient who initially resisted interaction—shows the power of patience and empathy. Their eventual bond, centered on Vicky’s tattoos that told her life story, exemplifies the breakthroughs possible when psychologists find unique ways to connect.
The memoir also delves into the emotional toll of the profession. Susan is refreshingly honest about her struggles with empathy, especially with challenging patients like Michael and Ruth. These moments underscore the human side of psychology, revealing the internal conflicts practitioners face while maintaining professional boundaries. Susan doesn’t shy away from discussing the unpredictable and sometimes volatile nature of her work, as demonstrated by her experiences with patients like Kristen. The book’s structure, divided into sections based on individual patients or groups, enhances readability. This organization allows readers to navigate the text with ease and focus on specific stories. Susan’s reflections, woven throughout the narrative, add depth and make her journey relatable.
From Deep Within is a thought-provoking memoir that offers valuable insights into the challenges and triumphs of forensic and clinical psychology. Susan J. Lewis writes with authenticity and compassion, making her journey as engaging as it is educational. This book is a must-read for anyone interested in the psychological field or for those curious about the human stories behind mental health care.
Pages: 217 | ASIN : B07L3WSM3C
Transformational Betterment
I’m Not Dead…Yet shares your journey through the adversities of cancer, addiction, mental health struggles, and time in prison, ultimately leading to self-acceptance and redemption. Why was this an important book for you to write?
For several years, I’ve had a few different thoughts and ideas for writing manuscripts, but the one story I felt would be the most difficult to write was the story of my own life. I say this because, it is obviously so close to my heart and so raw, that a potential rejection of the book itself could easily be construed as a rejection of myself. For this and several other reasons, I had to make sure that I was removed from these past atrocities of my life just enough to ensure I wasn’t re-traumatizing myself and could bear the possibility of being judged. I made the “mistake” of trying to write this memoir a few years ago. I would start writing and soon after start weeping so badly I couldn’t see the page in front of me. This happened a few times, and I refused to relent because in my heart I knew there would be other people out there who could benefit from my story. This is the main reason why I knew it had to be written. Also, I wanted to get my “toughest” story out into the universe so that I could begin the process of writing those other stories I’ve wanted to complete. In my mind, I thought, if I can make it through this memoir, I can make it through anything else I decide to write.
I appreciated the candid nature with which you told your story. What was the hardest thing for you to write about?
I wish I could whittle it down to just one thing. The truth is, there are a few different scenarios that were very difficult to write about. It’s one thing to generally talk about hard times with people I know during a conversation. It’s much harder to reveal the details of these situations to complete strangers, most of whom I will never meet. This is especially so for the most intimate details that have scarred my soul, yet make me the person I am today. In the end, the potential reward of helping others have hope weighed more heavily than the potential for embarrassment and rejection.
What were some ideas that were important for you to share in this book?
Outside of the litany of situations that contributed to a deleterious cycle in my life, I felt it was just as important to imbue some humor when appropriate — at least my hope is that it comes across as appropriate. Also, I felt it was important to show that transformational betterment is possible, no matter how bad things get for us. It’s not easy to change for the better, but it is absolutely necessary and crucial for us to survive and flourish. I also feel very strongly that people need as many chances as possible to make things “right” for themselves and those they may have hurt. For this reason, I don’t believe in “second” chances; but instead, take every failure as an opportunity to become closer to the change I want and need, no matter how many times it takes to make the change stick in the long term.
What do you hope is one thing readers take away from your story?
Everyone has a past. Everyone must endure hardships, no matter who we are. While I’ve likely experienced more difficulties than the typical person out there, that doesn’t make me better than anyone else. No matter what we must endure in life, there is always hope and opportunity for betterment, and I am living proof of that. Bottom line: don’t ever give up on yourself.
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This memoir is an open invitation into Joshua’s life, a connection point for those facing or who have faced similar hardships, and a beacon of hope and empowerment for anyone in need of strength. Through his experiences, Joshua illustrates that despite monumental setbacks, it is possible to emerge stronger and more resilient.
Readers will glean valuable insights into the power of resilience, the lessons inherent in adversity, and the importance of self-acceptance free from judgment. Joshua’s narrative offers coping mechanisms for societal taboos, strategies for managing mental and physical health challenges, and a profound message about the significance of self-acceptance.
As a cisgender, gay Puerto Rican survivor, Joshua’s perspective is both unique and universal. His memoir speaks to individuals seeking inspiration, understanding of the human condition, and guidance on navigating various challenges, especially those within the LGBTQ+ community.
The writing style is marked by maturity, heartfelt introspection, vivid descriptions, and relatable anecdotes that evoke a spectrum of emotions. Themes of survival, empowerment, overcoming adversity, self-discovery, and the journey toward self-love and acceptance resonate throughout the narrative.
While there are other books covering similar topics, “I’m Not Dead…Yet” distinguishes itself as a deeply personal account that resonates on a profound level. Joshua’s memoir is not just a story; it is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the transformative power of embracing one’s truth.
For readers seeking solace, inspiration, and the courage to confront their own challenges head-on, “I’m Not Dead…Yet” is a must-read. Joshua’s memoir is poised to make a meaningful contribution to the literary landscape, offering hope and healing to all who turn its pages.
I’m Not Dead…Yet: How I Turned My Misfortunes Into Strengths
I’m Not Dead…Yet, by Dr. Joshua J. Caraballo, is a profound narrative of personal resilience and transformation. The book chronicles Caraballo’s tumultuous journey through the adversities of cancer, addiction, mental health struggles, and time in prison, ultimately leading to self-acceptance and redemption. It’s a raw reflection on the human condition, framed by Caraballo’s unique experiences as a gay Puerto Rican man navigating a world often unkind to those who are different.
Caraballo’s writing is both engaging and unflinchingly honest. He draws the reader in with vivid descriptions of his early life, such as his experiences with racial discrimination and the challenges of growing up as a queer person in a conservative environment. The way he recounts these memories, with a blend of humor and pathos, makes the narrative incredibly compelling.
One of the book’s strengths is Caraballo’s ability to reflect on his experiences with a critical yet compassionate eye. His discussion of addiction and mental health is particularly powerful, offering a candid look at the destructive cycles he found himself in and the painful process of breaking free from them. His account of the two years of torture due to Hodgkin’s lymphoma is harrowing, yet it’s his reflection on becoming the victim and eventually rising above it that is truly inspiring. Caraballo’s exploration of identity is another highlight. His journey to self-acceptance, particularly regarding his sexuality, is a central theme. His narrative about finding solace in storytelling and the arts, and how these passions helped him navigate his identity, is deeply moving.
I’m Not Dead…Yet is a must-read for anyone interested in stories of personal transformation and resilience. Dr. Caraballo’s journey is a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the power of self-acceptance. His honest reflections offer valuable insights into the struggles faced by those dealing with illness, addiction, and societal prejudice. This book is particularly recommended for readers who appreciate memoirs that don’t shy away from the harsh realities of life, yet find hope and redemption within them.
Pages: 217 | ASIN : B0CZT4NH32
The In-Between: Life in the Micro
The In-Between: Life in the Micro by Christian Espinosa elegantly merges memoir and self-help, offering readers a thoughtful exploration of the author’s personal transformation. Espinosa’s narrative is richly grounded in the appreciation of life’s smaller moments, often unnoticed yet fundamentally shaping our experiences. His approachable storytelling reveals his transition from focusing on broader life goals to appreciating the intricate, everyday occurrences that impart significant impact.
Spanning ten chapters, the book skillfully navigates Espinosa’s journey from a broader perspective to a more nuanced understanding of life. This shift personalizes his story and turns the book into an inspirational and practical guide for readers embarking on their own self-discovery journeys. One notable chapter focuses on redefining personal identity, providing insightful strategies for personal development. Espinosa’s openness and sincerity in this section particularly resonate, offering a powerful and relatable resource for anyone seeking meaningful change. The discussion on aligning with core values is another highlight, presenting moments of realization that reinforce the book’s profound influence. Espinosa combines practical advice with actionable steps throughout, presenting a clear guide to discovering life’s deeper meaning and value. His emphasis on mindfulness and awareness serves as a potent tool for those seeking fulfillment and peace.
Espinosa’s narrative echoes Robert Brault’s sentiment, “Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things,” illustrating this philosophy across the book’s pages. The In-Between: Life in the Micro is a valuable source of insight for individuals at various life stages, filled with wisdom from Espinosa’s life and teachings. It stands as a significant contribution, meriting recognition for its ability to inspire readers to value life’s transient moments and find joy in the mundane.
Pages: 130 | ASIN : B0CP8RYV55
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