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In The Widow Chose Red?, you share the highs and lows of your marriage and professional life, your unshakable faith, and your husband’s heartbreaking journey with ALS. Why was this an important book for you to write?
It was important to write this book for a few reasons: To heighten the awareness of ALS, which is still considered a rare disease. Too many people still don’t know about it. Proceeds from the book are benefiting the LiveLikeLou Foundation.
To have a written record of my life with John as something tangible for my boys to refer to.
To provide inspiration for others who may find themselves facing unimaginable circumstances and give them some support, insights, and strategies for dealing with those curveballs life throws at us. To remind people that we, as believers, we have all been gifted with a supernatural superpower in the form of the Holy Spirit, which is there to comfort and fortify us when we can’t go on..
I appreciated the candid nature with which you told your story. What was the hardest thing for you to write about?
The hardest parts to write about were the day we got the diagnosis, the Christmas we told his family, the day we told our boys, and the day John died. Even though it has been 14 years since John died, the mind is magical and mystical in how it can take us back to that moment in time, complete with emotion and physical presence. It’s never a fun process to go back to those moments of pain, suffering, sorrow and loss, and that is why sometimes, it is best to give yourself some time to process.
What advice would you give someone who is considering sharing their own memoir with readers?
Go for it! It’s your story, and someone will benefit from your sharing it. Get clear on your message. That being said, it is a process that can be lonely, confusing, and tiring, so get some support.
There are so many tech tools available (and I’m not talking AI), like transcription, voice recording, etc, that will make the process of getting it on paper so much easier. If you need to interview someone else to get a perspective…write up a list of questions and submit ahead of your conversation…give yourself a goal for writing…a number of words a day…a chapter a month…published by this date. Otherwise, it can go on forever, and don’t discount the editing process…it’s HUGE!!
What is one thing you hope readers take away from your experience?
Even when your “happily ever after” doesn’t go the way you wanted…you can have a “hopefully ever after” that is beyond your imagination.
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“She stood at his service wearing red. Not in defiance, not in denial – but in love. Because grief is not just sorrow; it is the bold echo of a love that never fades. And red is not just a color – it is the flame of the Holy Spirit and the fire that refuses to be extinguished.”
When Rachel Kerr Schneider lost her husband, the world expected her to mourn in black – to withdraw, to disappear into sorrow. But she made a different choice. She wore red. Not because she wasn’t grieving, but because love – real love – is too vibrant, too deep, too enduring to be cloaked in darkness. And because red, the color of fire, is the color of the Holy Spirit – the every-present force that carried her through the valley of grief and into a future she never imagined.
This is not just a memoir about loss – it is a story of resilience, faith, and the bold, sometimes unexpected ways we learn to live again. For anyone who has ever faced heartbreak and wondered if joy was still possible, The Widow Chose Red is a testament to the truth that even in sorrow, life still shines – and the Spirit still burns.
The Widow Chose Red?: My Journey with Jesus, John, and ALS
The Widow Chose Red? is a deeply personal memoir chronicling the life of Rachel Kerr Schneider, from her whirlwind romance with John Schneider through decades of marriage, parenting, and professional shifts, culminating in John’s heartbreaking battle with ALS. Told through a lens of faith and fierce devotion, the book walks readers through the joys of new beginnings, the messiness of real relationships, and the crushing weight of terminal illness, all while clinging to the hope and grace found in God.
The writing is conversational, often funny, and incredibly raw. Rachel doesn’t hide behind platitudes. She’s honest when things are hard, she laughs when they’re absurd, and she leans into her faith with a kind of vulnerability that feels both courageous and familiar. The structure, split into sections of life stages, reflects how grief and growth aren’t linear. I loved how she wove in reflections after each major chunk of the story. It gave me space to breathe and think alongside her.
There were times when I felt gutted by the emotional weight of it all. Watching John’s health decline through Rachel’s eyes was both beautiful and brutal. Her love for him doesn’t flinch. It holds steady through every stage of ALS, even when things got messy and uncertain. But this isn’t just a moving book; it’s a book about showing up. It’s about surviving with grace when life doesn’t let you plan ahead. I admired how Rachel let us see the struggle to stay spiritually grounded when everything feels unfair. And somehow, even in the grief, she writes with humor.
The Widow Chose Red? is a love letter to John, to her sons, and to the God who walked through every minute of it with her. If you’ve ever cared for someone who’s sick, if you’ve wondered where God is in your pain, or if you just want to feel less alone in your own tough season, you’ll find something in Rachel’s story. I’d recommend it to caregivers, to women figuring out who they are after loss, and to anyone trying to make peace with the messiness of life. You don’t need to be religious to connect with her heart.
Pages: 224 | ISBN : 978-1966561101
In Search of You; How To Find Joy When Doing More Isn’t Doing It Anymore
In Search of You, by Kasey Compton, is a deeply introspective memoir that explores the journey of self-discovery through the lens of childhood memories, intergenerational trauma, and personal growth. Compton’s raw and unfiltered narrative offers readers a candid look into her life, revealing her struggles and triumphs in a way that feels both personal and universal. This is not just a recounting of past events but an invitation for readers to reflect on their own lives, seeking greater understanding, healing, and self-appreciation.
Compton’s writing style is engaging and conversational, effortlessly drawing readers into her world. Her vivid descriptions bring memories to life—whether it’s the distinct smell of cigarette smoke in a beat-up Oldsmobile or the serene, sun-drenched afternoons spent in her grandmother’s garden. These sensory details make the past feel alive and immediate, pulling readers into the emotional landscape of her story. Structurally, the book alternates between past and present, a technique that mirrors the therapeutic process of revisiting and reprocessing formative childhood experiences. This narrative style adds emotional depth and allows readers to experience Compton’s vulnerability as she works through her memories.
The memoir is not only personal but profoundly brave. Compton tackles heavy, complex themes such as parental absence, emotional neglect, and the lingering effects of trauma. Through her therapeutic journey, she uncovers how these early experiences have shaped her adult identity. Her recollections are often poignant and, at times, heartbreaking, especially as she reflects on her mother’s struggles with depression and her own yearning for emotional connection. The inclusion of dialogues between Compton and her therapist offers readers an insightful look into the therapeutic process, providing a unique structure that allows readers to witness her real-time thoughts and emotions as she navigates her past. Compton delves into her mother’s and grandmother’s lives, exposing how trauma reverberates through families, adding layers of complexity and depth to the narrative. This generational perspective enhances the memoir’s emotional resonance, making it a rich exploration of how we are shaped by both our histories and our efforts to break free from them.
What makes In Search of You particularly powerful is Compton’s honesty. Her willingness to share her most painful experiences is both unsettling and empowering. The emotional weight of the story is palpable, and readers will feel her courage as she unpacks her past and strives to heal. This balance of pain and hope is what makes the book so impactful. While Compton revisits her wounds, she also demonstrates the power of healing and reclaiming one’s sense of self, making the book not only cathartic but also uplifting.
In Search of You is a compelling memoir that masterfully blends personal narrative with psychological insight. Compton’s writing is intimate and captivating, drawing readers into her world as she reflects on her past and works toward healing. This book is an excellent choice for anyone interested in mental health, self-discovery, and the journey of healing from trauma. As Compton breaks the cycles of the past and emerges more in touch with herself, readers are encouraged to embark on their own journeys of introspection and transformation.
Pages: 272 | ASIN : B0C7TF273M
The Velvet Hammer: Judge Belvin Perry, Jr.’s Capital Murder Cases and Memoir
The Velvet Hammer by former Chief Judge Belvin Perry Jr. offers a unique perspective within the true crime genre. It sets itself apart from the usual narratives penned by detectives, third-party authors, or perpetrators. Instead, it is written by the judge who presided over some of the high-profile cases detailed within its pages. The title, a nod to his courtroom nickname, will be familiar to those who recognize Perry as the judge in the infamous Casey Marie Anthony case.
Perry acknowledges that many readers will be drawn to the book because of his role in the Anthony trial, and he does not disappoint. A significant portion of the book delves into this case, revealing behind-the-scenes details that even avid followers may have missed. Perry shares insights from the courtroom, including moments that weren’t captured by cameras or recorded in transcripts, offering a fresh perspective on a case that captivated the nation. Beyond the Anthony case, The Velvet Hammer explores Perry’s personal life and other significant cases he handled, such as the Judy Buenoano case, also known as the Florida Black Widow. These accounts provide valuable context for understanding Perry’s approach to the highly publicized Anthony trial. The book paints a picture of a judge who, while emotionally detached in his professional capacity, also grapples with the isolating nature of his role. Perry presents certain elements of the case in a matter-of-fact manner, avoiding excessive graphic detail. This makes The Velvet Hammer accessible to a broad audience, including those new to the true crime genre.
For seasoned true crime enthusiasts, the book is a must-read, offering a rare viewpoint from the bench—a perspective that is both judicially objective and personally reflective. Perry’s account sheds light on the complexities of the justice system and the inner workings of a judge’s mind. The Velvet Hammer is a compelling read for true crime aficionados and an excellent entry point for newcomers to the genre. Its balanced approach, combining legal insight with personal narrative, makes it a standout work that offers something unique in true crime literature.
Pages: 339 | ASIN : B0D98XVXB3
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