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Reach Out with Acts of Kindness is a heartfelt and practical guide offering compassionate, straightforward advice on how to support people facing illness, grief, or crisis. Why was this an important book for you to write?
After going through a traumatic time, I felt called to write this book. I could not not write this resource in which I share my passion for reaching out to others in hardship. We will all face obstacles and hurdles throughout life, and support from family, friends, acquaintances, coworkers, etc., is vital for those hurting attempting to move forward.
I appreciated the candid nature with which you told your story. What was the hardest thing for you to write about?
I am a private person, so sharing my feelings with readers was the hardest part of writing the book. Those who are deeply entrenched in a troubling period or have gone through a tumultuous time can relate to the many mixed emotions I express in the book and that anyone in crisis may experience. There were many dark, unsettling instances too personal to include that were left out, in respect for my family.
What were some ideas that were important for you to share in this book?
I share first-hand knowledge of what may help and what may not help those struggling, and also include examples from others who endured trauma, regardless of the circumstance or predicament. Specific ideas and suggestions to lend support are featured. I’m a firm believer that everyone has a gift, whether it’s picking up the phone to touch base, sending a thinking-of-you card, delivering a meal, completing an errand, mowing the grass, etc. I emphasize lending support in an area that is most comfortable and easy for the giver. Readers are invited to consider what their gift may be.
Could you tell me what one thing you hope readers take away from Reach Out with Kindness?
The goal of Reach Out is for readers to understand the importance of reaching out and connecting with anyone struggling with simple acts of kindness.
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At some point in life, everyone will face a roadblock, obstacle, or will be touched by someone experiencing a challenging, tumultuous period. No one is immune to struggles, but outsiders are often unsure how to best offer comfort and support.
Reach Out is a call to action for creating a culture of compassion and empathy by illuminating how to be there for others when they need it the most. This relatable resource highlights specific ways to help others in crisis as well as the aftermath. Everyone has a gift to offer, whether it is just picking up the phone to touch base, sending a card of concern, delivering a meal, mowing the grass, or other helpful acts. What is your gift?
Flirting With Extinction: Collected Essays & Stories
Joanna Kadish’s Flirting With Extinction is a raw and unapologetic mosaic of personal essays and stories that chart a life punctuated by grief, recklessness, resilience, and searching. The book dives headfirst into heavy themes: addiction, motherhood, loss, and the fragile line between survival and surrender. With prose that veers between unfiltered vulnerability and sharp humor, Kadish offers an intimate chronicle of a woman navigating trauma through love, memory, danger, and—sometimes—wild horses.
What struck me most was Kadish’s unflinching voice. She doesn’t tidy up her pain, doesn’t soften her edges. In the preface, she talks about clawing her way back from a state of “perpetual sadness” after losing her sons to the opioid crisis—a tragedy that ripples through many of the essays with a haunting steadiness. In “Anatomy of a Firefighter,” she captures childhood pyromania and sibling chaos in the heat-scorched deserts east of Los Angeles. It’s darkly funny, but the undercurrent of danger—both literal and emotional—never lets you forget the stakes.
Kadish’s writing is pure guts and gravel in “Calamity Jane,” where she recounts a horrifying attempt to break a rodeo bronc as a young girl. The imagery is searing: the smashed teeth, the blood, the betrayal of the body. But what lingers most is her twisted pride in lasting the “full eight seconds” before being flung like a ragdoll. There’s something electric in the way she writes pain. It’s not masochism; it’s a yearning to feel, to prove, to matter. This isn’t just about animals—it’s about people, about relationships, about the wild things in ourselves that won’t be tamed no matter how gently we try.
What I liked most about the chapter Zero Evidence was how it peeled back the layers of human fragility in the face of relentless judgment. Kadish walks the tightrope between raw confession and sharp critique, especially when she recounts the moments after her son’s overdose and the unbearable silence that followed. The way she describes the hospital room, the indifferent fluorescent lights, and the cold detachment of the medical staff—it all made my chest tighten. But it’s the emotional isolation that hit hardest. She’s grieving, furious, helpless, and still somehow worried about how others might view her as a mother. Her honesty cuts deep.
This is not a gentle collection. It won’t hold your hand or let you off the hook. But Flirting With Extinction will speak to anyone who’s lived through pain and come out the other side with scars and stories. It’s for people who can’t stop looking backward even while forging ahead. I’d especially recommend it to those who’ve wrestled with addiction in their families, lovers of memoir that bleeds fiction, and women who’ve ever been called “too much” for wanting to ride the bronc instead of just watching.
Pages: 300 | ASIN : B0DJHCQ5LT
How to Rewrite Our Lives
Willower: Rewriting Life After Unimaginable Loss is a heartfelt memoir that delves into the complexities of loss, grief, and resilience, sharing the emotional journey surrounding the tragic death of your son and the toll this unimaginable loss takes on you and the family. Why was this an important book for you to write?
Writing this book was something I needed to do to stay connected to Sam and keep his memory alive. And, writing was a necessary distraction for me, which I later learned. For hours at a time, while concentrating on writing how I was processing and reshaping my loss and grief I was finding some relief from it. I know it seems counterintuitive to write about loss and grief as a way of escaping it, but I came to realize that’s what I was doing. Day after day, year after year, trying to grasp reality, searching for answers and meaning—even if I had to construct my own, creating and crafting this book, then finishing and publishing it is what gave me a focus, a purpose, a reason to live.
What were some ideas that were important for you to share in this book?
One idea was that grieving the death of your child and relearning to live without them, is an unpredictable and lifelong readjustment process.
Another key idea I wanted to get across was that eventually, in time, you do learn to live with the weight of your loss.
But I think the most important idea I wanted to share was that as we migrate through our grief, all we can do is learn how to rewrite our lives and reimagine our stories, the ones we tell ourselves so that we can keep going. As Sam told me in my book’s last chapter: “Imagine the rest, Mommy. And remember, the letters are magic.”
What was the most challenging part of writing your memoir and what was the most rewarding?
The most challenging part of writing this memoir was learning how to write—and then how to write a memoir. After five years of work, I’d sent my “finished draft” to an editor who told me it was a good “first draft.” I was devastated, but learned so much from that experience. I kept at it, the rewriting. Like I said earlier, focusing on this book, on finishing it, is what gave me a purpose, a reason to live. Eleven years later, after taking writing classes, working with a writing coach, and hiring an editor again, my “finished draft” turned out to be my “final draft.”
The most rewarding part of writing this memoir was the magic I experienced while writing the dialogue with Sam. For anyone who’s grieving, I’d recommend—after enough time has passed, and you feel up to it—writing dialogue, a back-and-forth, with your deceased loved one.
What do you hope is one thing readers take away from your story?
After experiencing my story, I hope the reader feels more hopeful and less alone in their grief.
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On April 30, 2007, Deanna Kassenoff experienced a parent’s worst nightmare when her nine-year-old son, Sam, collapsed on the playground at school and died from sudden cardiac arrest. Drowning in grief, considering ways to end her own life, Deanna was faced with a choice: give up or rewrite her story, one with a different ending.
A Finalist in the 18th Annual National Indie Excellence® Awards, Willower is a book about using the power of story and imagination to survive the unimaginable. It is the story of a bereaved mother’s urgent quest to find a way to stay connected with her beautiful boy.
Deanna Kassenoff’s memoir takes us into an unfathomable world of the most profound and permanently disorienting experiences: the sudden death of a child. Determined to find meaning in the details of her son’s life, Deanna shows us how it is sometimes our lunacy that pulls us through grief back to living again. Written with stunning honesty, intensity, and eloquence, Willower is an unforgettable and heartbreaking demonstration of the endurance it takes to grieve and the courage it takes to live. This thoughtful and lyrical narrative will change you and stay with you forever.
We use the words widow, widower, and orphan, but there is no word in our vocabulary that identifies the bereaved parent. So, Deanna coined the term willower®. From the words willow, a weeping tree that symbolizes deep mourning; and willpower, that creative source within that provides the superhuman strength and determination it takes to continue on—despite unimaginable loss.
Willower: Rewriting Life After Unimaginable Loss
Willower: Rewriting Life After Unimaginable Loss is a heartfelt memoir that dives into the complexities of loss, grief, and resilience. The book chronicles the author’s emotional journey following the tragic death of her son, Sam, and explores the psychological and emotional toll this unimaginable loss takes on her and her family. It is a raw and emotional recounting of how she navigates through the darkest moments. From grappling with the realities of death to attempting to rewrite her life after such a profound loss. The narrative shifts between memories of Sam’s vibrant personality and Kassenoff’s poignant reflections on grief and survival, offering a deeply personal look at the process of healing.
Deanna Kassenoff’s writing is gripping and intense. She effortlessly transports the reader into her world of sleepless nights and unbearable sorrow, which makes reading it an emotional experience. What stood out most to me was the way Kassenoff interweaves elements of her daily life with reflections on survival. Her comparison of her own struggle with that of Ayla from the “Earth’s Children” series was both powerful and relatable. I appreciated how she used literature as a means of understanding her grief. It’s raw and there’s no sugarcoating the immense difficulty she faces in trying to make sense of her new reality. The chapter where she recounts Sam’s heart issues, the doctor’s warnings, and the overwhelming dread left me in a state of emotional exhaustion. She manages to make the reader feel what she’s feeling without overdramatizing it.
Another element I appreciated was the humanity Kassenoff brings to her story. Despite the weight of the subject, she manages to sprinkle in moments of warmth and humor, particularly in her memories of Sam. I found myself smiling through the tears at some of Sam’s childhood antics and her recollections of his deep imagination. Her decision to preserve these moments, along with her son’s struggles and eventual passing, adds layers of complexity to the book.
Willower is an emotional read that will resonate deeply with anyone who has experienced grief or who has felt overwhelmed by life’s darkest moments. Kassenoff writes with sincerity and, while the subject matter is heavy, there’s a resilience that shines through her words. This book is for anyone who’s ever had to rewrite their story after a loss, or for those who seek to understand the raw and often unspoken emotions of grief.
Pages: 268 | ASIN : B0CJN7YF7V
Ringo’s Rainbow Journey: A Memoir of Our Border Collie’s Return to His Soul Family
Ringo’s Rainbow Journey: A Memoir of Our Border Collie’s Return to His Soul Family, by Kathy Bolte, captures the precious bond between a pet and its family, a relationship often as deep as any other familial connection. Bolte’s narrative starts with the adoption of Ringo, tracing their shared experiences from joyous adventures to their eventual, inevitable parting. This book is more than a simple recounting of pet ownership; it’s an engaging, love-filled journey through life with Ringo, marked by vibrant anecdotes and moments of joy.
Bolte does not focus solely on Ringo; she paints a full picture of her life with multiple pets, both cats and dogs, detailing the family dynamics and the different personalities of each animal. Her writing brings us into the fold of her household, enriched with photographs that offer a glimpse into these cherished relationships. The inclusion of characters like Amanda, who possesses the ability to communicate with animals, adds a unique dimension to the narrative, deepening our understanding of the pets’ distinct traits. The prose is rich and evocative, effectively conveying the emotional landscape of living with and loving animals. It emphasizes themes of empathy and family unity. The story is beautifully told, with life lessons woven through the personal reflections and shared moments that will resonate with anyone who has ever loved a pet.
In Ringo’s Rainbow Journey, Kathy Bolte beautifully illustrates the multifaceted relationship between humans and their animal companions, capturing the essence of love, loss, and the indelible mark a pet leaves on a family. Her heartfelt storytelling invites readers into a world where pets are not just animals, but cherished family members with their own stories and personalities. This memoir not only shares the joy and challenges of pet ownership but also celebrates the unbreakable bonds that form along the way, leaving readers with a deeper appreciation for the creatures that enrich our lives.
Pages: 238 | ASIN : B0D3KB31WW
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