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The World Is Craving Connection

Cathy Domoney Author Interview

The Backyard Peace Project is a thought-provoking and inspirational anthology of real-life stories collected from individuals who turned their challenges into a journey of self-discovery, healing, growth, and purpose.  Why was this an important book for you to write?

The Backyard Peace Project was born from a deep knowing that the world is craving connection, compassion, and realness. For years, I’ve witnessed people carry their pain in silence, high achievers, parents, leaders, community members, all doing their best while battling private storms. I’ve learned through my own journey that peace begins in our own backyard. It starts with one human being willing to tell the truth about their experience.

This book felt important because it gathers those truths. It gives people permission to be human. It shows that even in the darkest chapters, there is possibility, purpose, and a pathway forward. Creating a space where ordinary people could share extraordinary stories of resilience felt like a powerful antidote to the disconnection and overwhelm so many are struggling with today.

What were some ideas that were important for you to share in this book?

I wanted this anthology to highlight several core ideas:

• Your story matters, even if you think it doesn’t.
• Healing isn’t linear, and there is no “right way” to grow.
• We are stronger in community than we are on our own.
• Trauma can become purpose, not by denying the pain but by transforming it.
• Small acts of peace ripple outwards, changing families, workplaces, and communities.

At its heart, the book reinforces the message that every human being is capable of rewriting their inner narrative and becoming a force for good in their world. You don’t have to be perfect to create impact. You just have to be willing.

What was the biggest challenge you faced in putting together this collection of personal stories?

The biggest challenge was holding the emotional weight of so many deeply personal, often painful stories. Each author entrusted me with chapters of their life that they had sometimes never said aloud before. My role was to honour their truth, protect their voice, and create a safe container for them to share vulnerably without feeling exposed.

Another challenge was weaving the stories together into a cohesive tapestry – ensuring each voice was celebrated individually while still contributing to a collective message of hope, resilience, and peace. It required delicate balance, sensitivity, and immense respect for every contributor.

What is one thing that you hope readers take away from The Backyard Peace Project?

I hope readers walk away knowing, deep in their bones, that they are not alone. That their struggles do not diminish them. That peace is not something they have to find “out there” — it is something they can cultivate within themselves, moment by moment.

If even one reader feels seen, held, or inspired to take the next step in their healing or leadership journey, then this project has done exactly what it was meant to do. I hope that every person who turns these pages feels more empowered, more connected, and more hopeful than when they began.

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Launching World Peace Day 2025 (Sept 21st)

The Backyard Peace Project Anthology: Sharing Stories, Inspiring the World!

Finding Peace Through Struggle:

An Anthology of Hope, Healing & Human Resilience:

​What if the very struggles you face hold the key to your greatest peace?

​Finding Peace Through Struggle is a powerful anthology of real-life stories from extraordinary individuals who turned their deepest challenges into stepping stones for healing, growth, and purpose. These pages shine a light on the resilience of the human spirit and remind us that even in our darkest nights, peace is possible.

Confidence Transformation

Alexandra Elinsky PhD Author Interview

Girl Game: Balls Out is a blend of memoir, psychology, and empowerment, and is a call for women to reclaim their power, stop people-pleasing, and rise unapologetically into their full selves. Why was this an important book for you to write?

In love, I was always had an anxious attachment style, and I genuinely felt like something was medically wrong with me. My insecurities always got the best of me, and I grew up without any confidence or self-esteem. Rejection was my middle name. I was unlucky in love. I had to get to the bottom of this, so I spent 5 years intensively studying attachment theory and childhood emotional neglect, and boy, did my findings revolutionize my life as I know it. That research and my own confidence transformation were the catalyst and backbone of this work.

In Chapter Six, “The Fight of Your Life,” you write about internal battles. How do you personally recognize when you’re in one?

By how I am feeling. All internal states are attached to a feeling, and all feelings are trying to tell us something vital about ourselves.

What do you hope women take away from your message when they’re standing at their own
breaking point?

That they heal “balls out” style. Many people sit in a therapist’s office for years and take medication for decades hoping to numb the pain, but they never really heal HEAD ON. I encourage radical healing through awareness and consciousness, and that requires a full-blown, balls-out exploration of the shadow, or what I call an emotional exorcism, in this book.

You mix faith, psychology, and empowerment in a unique way. How do those three forces coexist in your own healing process?

I am a spiritual person. I do blend faith, spirituality, psychology, and empowerment because of my background in all 3. I refuse to take pills. I don’t go to therapy (but I am a huge fan of it) – I champion healing by facing problems head-on and feeling them fully until healed.

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BALLS OUT is the most powerful and emotionally charged book in the GIRL GRIT series as Dr. Elinsky speaks directly to the little girl lost inside so many of us. Giving a voice to the child inside all of us, GIRL GAME: BALLS OUT carefully addresses the notion that resonates with so many, “children should be seen and not heard…”

With over 100 years of research behind it in human psychology, emotion, healing, attachment and relationships, self-worth and identity, this book provides profound insights concerning the realities that shape our existence when we struggle with low self-esteem. Since our subconscious accepts all suggestions as facts, we are met with demons we didn’t create who plague us as mirrors impacting our closest relationships while making rejection become the norm. This happens because of generational trauma passed down from ancestors and the general negativity felt and experienced in the external world. By embracing self-worth from within, the book emphasizes the transformative power it holds in reshaping personal connections and attracting genuine affection. The text prompts introspection on questions of rejection, societal constraints, and the impact of insecurity on personal growth and fulfillment. Encouraging a shift from seeking external validation to embracing inner worth, GIRL GAME: BALLS OUT advocates for empowerment and taking control of one’s narrative. By fostering self-belief and authenticity, individuals can transcend self-doubt, radiate confidence, and magnetize positive interactions.
You can either overcome or come undone… the POWER is yours.
Are you hiding behind that pretty face…

Clip Toenails for a Living: A Unique Path to Success

Clip Toenails for a Living is a blend of memoir, mindset guide, and professional journey that follows Dr. Marcin Vaclaw’s rise from podiatry resident to clinic owner and medical officer. The book lays out a simple idea. Success comes from doing the unglamorous work and doing it well. Dr. Vaclaw uses podiatry, especially the humble act of clipping toenails, as the central image of his philosophy. The book is organized into parts that move from fundamentals to building a personal path to defining success in your own terms. It mixes anecdotes from training, small wins, setbacks, and the slow grind that shaped his career.

I felt pulled in by the author’s plain way of telling stories. Nothing feels sugar-coated. He talks about fungal nails, house calls and residency struggles. That honesty made the bigger ideas easier to trust. I liked how he treated simple work with respect. It made me think about my own habits and how often I overlook basic tasks. Sometimes the writing leaned a little too hard on metaphors about cooking or recipes, but it still kept the tone friendly and down to earth.

I also enjoyed the way the book paced through the lessons. Some chapters focused on grit. Others focused on adjusting your course or finding your niche or learning from discomfort. I felt myself nodding along, especially during the parts describing how success is mostly small steps and small choices that pile up. It felt real. At moments, though, I wanted more detail about his own failures. Even so, the overall effect is motivating. I came away feeling lighter and more willing to take on the boring parts of my own life.

I would recommend this book to people who like personal development stories that feel practical and human. If you are early in your career or trying to rethink your path, it hits the spot. It would also appeal to readers who enjoy memoirs from medical professionals. The lessons are simple, clear, and easy to apply. It left me with the sense that I could do a little better tomorrow.

Pages: 193 | ASIN: B0FT6ZDK3M

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True Empowerment

Alexandra Elinsky PhD Author Interview

Girl Grit: Savage Not Average is a blazing manifesto that exposes the wounds society inflicts on women and rebuilds them into fierce, unshakable self-worth. What moment or experience first sparked the fire that became Girl Grit?

In August of 2022, I was on vacation in Florida, swimming in a pool by myself, when the idea very suddenly hit me all at once. I came home, put pen to paper, and finished my first book GIRL GRIT: SAVAGE NOT AVERAGE in 5 months.

You write with such raw honesty. Were there parts of your story that were hardest to include or share publicly?

Yes and no. I am a mask-off author. True to my nature, I believe in authenticity and the realness of life. The good, the bad, and the ugly. It’s time we are hit with the truth as a society instead of sweeping real problems under the rug while wearing the façade of our ancestors. We will grow and evolve as a society when we face our problems head-on. As an author, I was never going to transform someone’s life overnight by writing about candy canes and gumdrops; I was going to do it through raw honesty, authenticity, and vulnerability were necessary.

The book moves from pain to power. How did you decide where to draw the line between vulnerability and empowerment?​

Vulnerability and empowerment go hand in hand. You cannot access one without the other. Willing to be vulnerable is where true empowerment lies. We diminish our empowerment when we hide behind facades, suppress emotions, and refuse to solve problems head-on. People also usually go the route of drinking, drugs, or other addictions. I wasn’t about to go down those dark paths; I was going to take pain and truly turn it into power in an authentic and meaningful way.

If readers take only one message from Girl Grit, what do you hope it is?​

Don’t be afraid of what anyone else thinks of you. Live your life authentically and heal others by refusing to put on the show of being perfect and infallible.

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Girl Grit: Savage Not Average is the first book in the empowering Human Empowerment trilogy for women worldwide. Dr. Elinsky guides readers through a profound journey of harmonizing thought and emotion, exploring personal fulfillment and experience. She transforms her readers from doormats-controlled, manipulated, and walked over by others-into daredevils, fearless warrior women living without regret. Discover what it means to go from average to savage in this emotional, action-packed self-help adventure that will not only inspire you but also challenge societal conditioning to be a ‘good girl’ focused on serving and pleasing others.

In Girl Grit, Dr. Elinsky passionately challenges and dismantles restrictive gender roles, asserting that they limit our potential as women and undermine our purpose as equal human beings. As an expert in gender relationship dynamics, Dr. Elinsky draws on extensive research to critically examine the very fabric of our social conditioning. She urges, “It is time to wise up, rise up, and ascend to your highest potential.” Celebrating the worthiness and grandeur of women’s capacities, Girl Grit will elevate you to unimaginable heights.

Finally, Dr. Elinsky advises, “Do not read this book unless you are ready to revolutionize your life as you know it.” Learn what it means to become a fire woman and unleash your regal authority into the world. Girl Grit will set your self-esteem on fire.

The Howl of the Whisper

The Howl of the Whisper traces MaryAnn Gramig’s long struggle with her inner critic, beginning with childhood wounds and stretching through decades of self-doubt, crisis, and eventual healing. She weaves stories about anorexia, motherhood, trauma, Shakespeare, and the slow climb toward self-understanding. The book blends personal narrative with practical exercises built around CliftonStrengths, all aimed at helping readers quiet the harsh voice in their heads and uncover a truer sense of self.

I found myself pulled in by the honesty. Some pages made my chest tighten, especially the moments about her daughter’s stroke. Other parts felt soft and warm like someone handing you a blanket when you did not ask for one but really needed it. Her writing is simple and direct, and she tells her story without putting on airs. I liked that. It made me trust her. It also made the heavier moments easier to take in.

The ideas here are familiar at first glance. Still, the way she shapes them around her own life gives them a new kind of punch. The inner critic is not an abstract thing in her world. It is a presence that taunts her, trips her up, and clings for years. When she talks about learning to see her strengths clearly, I could feel the tug of both fear and relief. I found myself nodding along. I also caught myself thinking about my own patterns and how often I let them run the show. The casual tone made those reflections hit harder, not softer.

By the end, I felt grateful for the time spent with this book. It is heartfelt and plainspoken and surprisingly comforting. I would recommend it to anyone who feels pushed around by their own thoughts, anyone who keeps shrinking themselves to stay safe, and anyone who wants a gentle guide toward a more grounded and honest version of themselves. It is especially good for readers who enjoy memoir mixed with hands-on exercises and who appreciate a voice that speaks like a friend sitting beside them instead of a teacher standing in front of them.

Pages: 144 | ASIN: B0FTZL4S19

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Build Your Cloud Career: A Professional’s Guide to Cloud Engineering

Build Your Cloud Career lays out a clear path into cloud engineering. It starts with simple explanations of what the cloud is, then moves into the major providers, the different engineering roles, and the skills needed to build a career in the field. It mixes technical basics with career advice. The writing stays grounded in real situations and aims to give beginners confidence as they enter a fast-growing and sometimes intimidating area of tech.

Reading it felt smooth and surprisingly friendly. I enjoyed how the author kept things practical without stuffing the pages with jargon. The explanations made complicated ideas feel lighter. Sometimes I caught myself nodding along because the examples matched real workplace moments. I also liked the honest tone around certifications and career paths. It never tried to oversell or hype anything. It just told you what works and why.

A few concepts flew by fast, and I found myself wanting more stories or more hands-on guidance. Still, the author’s experience comes through in a warm way. It feels like sitting with someone who actually wants you to succeed. That personal touch gave the book more heart than I expected from a tech guide.

The chapter Cloud Engineering Roles in Depth was particularly relevant to me. It helped me see how each cloud role fits into real projects and why those differences matter. It gave me clarity on which responsibilities align with my strengths and interests, especially when comparing paths like DevOps, security, and architecture. It also made the career landscape feel less confusing since I could finally picture where I might fit and what skills I should focus on next.

All in all, I think this book is great for students, career switchers, and anyone curious about cloud work. If you are feeling lost or overwhelmed by AWS and Azure and all the big words floating around the internet, this book gives you a place to start. It is calm, clear, and encouraging. I would recommend it to anyone who wants to break into cloud engineering without feeling like they are drowning in technical noise.

Pages: 139

Reignite Your Power: Resolving Trauma Through Mindfulness

Reignite Your Power tells a clear and heartfelt story about trauma, healing, and the quiet strength that sits inside us even when life shakes us apart. It moves through explanations of how trauma affects the mind and body, describes Buddhist personality types, and lays out a series of mindfulness and heart-based practices like loving kindness, compassion, forgiveness, and gratitude. The author blends stories, science, and spiritual teachings into a gentle guide for finding safety again and waking up to your own inner power.

As I read it, I found myself settling into the author’s tone. It feels warm and steady. The writing has a soft rhythm to it that made me want to slow down and pay attention to each moment she described. I appreciated how she handled trauma. She never made it sound simple or light. Instead, she treated it with honesty and respect while still offering hope. Some parts struck me deeply because they carried a mix of realism and tenderness that is hard to balance. There were moments when I felt a little overloaded with metaphors, but even then, the heart of what she was saying stayed clear.

What surprised me most was how personal the book felt. The ideas are grounded in Buddhist psychology and mindfulness, yet they never drift into heavy academic talk. Her stories pull you in and make the exercises feel doable. I liked how she kept encouraging the reader to show up imperfectly, to move slowly, to stay curious. It made the book feel like a companion instead of a manual. I also enjoyed the sections about personality types. They gave me a new way to look at my own habits, and I kept thinking about them long after I put the book down.

I walked away feeling calmer and more connected to myself, which is not something I can say about every book on healing. I would recommend Reignite Your Power to anyone who has been carrying emotional pain and wants a softer, grounded approach to working through it. It is also a great fit for people who enjoy mindfulness, spirituality, or psychology but want those ideas explained in plain language. It feels especially right for readers who want guidance that is kind and practical.

Pages: 228 | ASIN: B0FRC5XKYF

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Courage Is Contagious

 Elaine Rock Author Interview

Dusty Roads is the biography of Barbara “Dusty” Roads, a flight attendant who challenged the airline industry’s sexist standards in the 1950s and ’60s and became one of the first female lobbyists fighting for women and against gender discrimination. Why was this an important book for you to write?

While a few books on the women’s movement mentioned one or two of Dusty’s major achievements, they rarely captured the depth or accuracy her story deserved. One book dedicated an entire chapter to Dusty and her colleague and mentor, Nancy Collins. Still, even that left out the most important part: Dusty made it her lifelong mission to fight for her fellow flight attendants. I couldn’t believe no one had suggested writing her biography to preserve her legacy. When I asked if I could write it, she said, “I’ve just been waiting for someone to ask!”

Dusty was fearless. She confronted union leaders, challenged pay disparities between men and women, and fought the airline industry’s discriminatory rules about age, marriage, weight, and appearance. Her persistence helped overturn many regulations that had held women back in the 50s and 60s and beyond. Whether negotiating contracts or lobbying Congress members, she never stopped advocating for her colleagues.

I began writing this book to honor Dusty’s accomplishments for both female and male flight attendants and to make sure her legacy isn’t forgotten. I knew I had a compelling story the moment I saw Dusty thank Gloria Steinem, and she replied, “Oh no, Dusty, I should be thanking you. You’re the one who started it all.” Dusty cried afterward, finally understanding the true significance of her impact. At that moment, I knew I had to write this book. I was the only one who knew her well enough to collect all her stories, and I didn’t want this part of airline and American history to disappear. 

What were some ideas that were important for you to share in this book?

One key idea I wanted to communicate is that persistence really matters. Dusty’s story shows how one determined woman can challenge deep-seated misogyny and transform an entire industry. I also wanted to help readers see that real progress often starts with ordinary people refusing to accept injustice—and that lasting change requires both women and men standing together. I hope Dusty’s legacy inspires others to keep moving forward because the fight for equality continues. 

Did you find anything in your research of this story that surprised you?

Yes! One of the most profound discoveries was learning about Sonia Pressman Fuentes, the first female legal counsel at the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission after Title VII passed. Through JSTOR, I uncovered her articles describing the misogyny she witnessed at the EEOC, including the delays in addressing discrimination complaints from flight attendants. The most startling fact was that nearly one-third of all complaints in the EEOC’s first year came from flight attendants—yet most were ignored by the male commissioners, except for Aileen Hernandez, the only woman and the first Black commissioner. That neglect is what prompted Betty Friedan to propose creating the National Organization for Women, an organization I joined in 1970.

When I found Sonia’s phone number, she generously shared her story with me. She knew that two flight attendants had filed the first EEOC complaint but didn’t realize it was Dusty and Jean. Sonia and Dusty had never met, yet both had spent their careers fighting similar injustices from different angles—one through law and the other through labor. One Christmas, I brought them together on a Zoom call, breaking their “six degrees of separation.” Watching them finally meet was a deeply moving reminder of how many women worked, often unknowingly, in parallel to change history.

What is one thing that you hope readers take away from Dusty Roads?

I hope readers finish this book feeling confident in their own strength and understanding that knowing their rights is the first step in fighting injustice. Dusty showed me that progress isn’t automatic. It moves in cycles, and each generation must learn what those before them endured and achieved so we never forget how far we’ve come or how much further we still need to go.

She understood that the true goal has always been fairness, especially in a world that too often relegates women to second-class status. Her legacy is a reminder that courage is contagious and that every act of standing up for equality lights the way for others.

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If you are a woman or a man …
If you are concerned about the impact of politics on women …

Dusty Roads will be a wake-up call for you.

Meet Dusty Roads, one of the few brave voices way out in the wilderness, where women worked in the world of the 1950s and 60s, when it was mandatory for stewardesses to:
Wear girdles and submit to flick checks to ensure they did.
Maintain weight standards that would be shocking and unrealistic today.
Be willing to be paid less than men in the same job.
Phrases like sex discriminationand women’s rights hadn’t yet entered the nation’s vocabulary.

The captivating story of Barbara “Dusty” Roads sets the stage for an eye-opening read as Dusty begins her fight in 1953 against American Airlines’ employment policies, including firing stewardesses if they married or reached the age of 32. Airline leadership believed stewardesses had to be perpetually young, single, and attractive to entice traveling businessmen to buy tickets. Other airlines followed American’s lead.

Incensed, Dusty vowed to change the policies they were forced to work under. As the most influential voice in her union and one of the first female lobbyists in Washington, DC, Dusty quickly learned she was fighting for all women and against national gender discrimination. Then, in 1965, she filed the first-ever U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission discrimination complaint on behalf of a colleague who was about to be fired for turning 32, a year after Title VII and the Civil Rights Act were passed. Her actions helped to pave the way for workplace equality for both men and women in the airline industry and nationwide.

“I should be thanking you for everything you’ve done. You’re the one who started it all!” -Gloria Steinem.

Author Elaine Rock drew on extensive interviews with Dusty Roads to bring her inspiring persistence alive for readers. Elaine is a former history teacher, technology executive, and women’s rights advocate. She writes about little-known but heroic women and men whose perseverance and resilience helped shape history, making them trailblazers. To view the color print versions of photographs and other bonus materials from her book on her website, please go to the link on the “Contact” page at ElaineRock.com.