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Easy in Harness: A Productive Approach to Hiring a Good Manager
In the intricate tapestry of corporate success, the individuals driving a company forward serve as its defining threads. Leadership, often seated at the pinnacle, can steer an organization either toward a harmonious, flourishing future or into a desolate landscape of dispassion. Easy in Harness offers a compelling exploration into the pitfalls of imperfect leadership and management in today’s work environments.
Drawing from many real-life accounts, this book underscores the challenges many professionals face under the shadow of inadequate leadership. Among these is the poignant tale of a college friend who, having been thrust into an atmosphere of intimidation by a shift in leadership, opted for early retirement. Another account recalls the author’s personal experience at an Ivy League University health plan, which witnessed a decline in harmony and satisfaction due to a change at the helm.
Alan J. Cohen captures the essence of these experiences with a writing style that is both descriptive and informative. He draws upon factual and relatable real-world examples to reinforce his arguments. Through a lens that is both reflective and analytical, Cohen expresses deep empathy for the individuals who have grappled with professional tribulations.
Easy in Harness commences with a deep dive into the ramifications of dysfunctional leadership for those who endure it. The narrative artfully unpacks the resultant feelings of mistrust, disillusionment, and waning job satisfaction. Cohen’s authoritative voice, seasoned by personal experience, offers a holistic view of the subject. By weaving in anecdotes from diverse professions and sectors, including his own, he crafts a narrative that many will find both touching and relatable.
The book follows a logical trajectory, exploring the impacts of subpar leadership on employee well-being before dissecting the topic layer by layer. This systematic progression ensures an engaging reader experience, enhanced by the timely relevance of the subject matter in modern workspaces.
Easy in Harness stands as a beacon of clarity, authenticity, and meticulous dissection of workplace dynamics. It is an invaluable resource for anyone seeking insights into the repercussions of flawed leadership—ranging from high employee turnover and plummeting morale to potential health ramifications.
Pages: 136 | ASIN : B0CL2JMG1Z
There’s Just Life
What were some ideas that you felt were important to highlight in You, Me, We: Why We All Need a Friend at Work (and How to Show Up As One!)?
The most important idea that we wanted to highlight is that workplace relationships are the single biggest influencer of happiness, engagement, and productivity at work.
Morag Barrett’s first book, Cultivate – The Power of Winning Relationships, introduced the four relationship dynamics (Ally, Supporter, Rival, and Adversary) that make up the Relationship Ecosystem™. We’ve been leading workshops on the Relationship Ecosystem™ ever since, and kept getting the question, “How do I get more allies?” The short answer isn’t always what people want to hear, but it’s true: To have an ally you need to be an ally.
In You, Me, We we wanted to provide a guide that helped readers understand, practically, how they could do that. After more than a decade of research, interviewing thousands of leaders about what it means to show up as an ally to our colleagues, and creating a self-assessment tool that outlines what comes more naturally to people, we created a practical guide that would help readers to make intentional choices in how they show up in workplace relationships.
Central to the book is what we call the Ally Mindset, and it is made up of five practices; Abundance and Generosity, Connection and Compassion, Courage and Vulnerability, Candor and Debate, and Action and Accountability. We created the Ally Mindset Profile (available at skyeteam.cloud/youmewe) to provide readers with a solid foundation when deciding how to make intentional investments in critical stakeholder relationships.
What is a common misconception you feel people have about work friendships?
There are many misconceptions about workplace relationships. It’s been said that workplace friendships are not professional, that they can lead to favoritism, or that they aren’t even genuine (they’re misperceived as politicking and empire building). Some also argue that they will distract from productivity, or lead to complications when one friend inevitably leaves the organization.
While human beings are messy, and no two workplace friendships are alike, most of these ideas just don’t hold up in the real world. These misconceptions come from a place of scarcity. What we argue in the book is that beginning from a position of abundance, and showing up as our true authentic selves, workplaces flourish when friendships abound. People hold each other to a higher account, they tend to be more engaged, and measurably more productive when engaged in friendships at work. Our research and experience has shown that the health of our professional relationships is the most important factor when it comes to success in business and in life.
What is one piece of advice someone gave you that changed your life?
We spend a majority of our adult lives working, and the stresses of daily life are always in the picture. Eric used to struggle with worrying about personal things while he was at work, and then fretting about work things when he wasn’t. A mentor of his helped him to understand that there’s no such thing as work/life “balance.” There’s just life. A big old garbled mess of all things work, personal, and everything in-between. When you allow yourself to show up in every frame as your true self, everyone is better off. This isn’t to say that you should wear your emotions on your sleeve and share everything with anyone who will listen. It means that you acknowledge what’s going on on the inside for you, honor that, and let it be, versus trying to fit the entirety of human experience into discrete containers or labels like “work” and “home.” The most powerful lever in this mindset is leveraging the most important relationships you have around you, to support you, and to remind you that self-care is paramount. True allies have your back, no matter the circumstances, and that is a complete game changer!
What is one thing you hope readers take away from your book?
We want readers to find at least one piece of practical advice that they can use to make intentional investments in their most critical workplace relationships. The book serves more as a field guide than a linear narrative. We hope that people pick it up and flip to the chapter that most fits their current circumstances. If they’re having trouble being vulnerable, jump to the chapter on Courage and Vulnerability. If they find themselves employing a scarcity mindset, open up the section on Abundance and Generosity. Each chapter ends with a set of real-world tips, called Look Up, Show Up, Step Up, that readers can use in their workplace relationships today! While the stories in the book are compelling, they don’t need to be consumed like a novel. We hope this is a book that readers come back to time and time again. We want it to be that ratty, dog-eared, marked up book on desks that people use throughout their lives to help make their lives, and the lives of those around them a little bit lighter, a little bit better.
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One of the most important indicators of individual, team, and organizational success is the presence of an ally mindset. When we have best friends at work—people who are with us, in good times and bad, and who help ensure we make it through together—we thrive. When we don’t, we flail, and eventually crash and burn, leaving only a smoking hulk of debris behind as evidence that they were ever even there.
Through their extensive work with clients that include Google, National Geographic, Microsoft, and many more, the authors have discovered the framework for an ally mindset includes five key parts:
– Abundance and generosity
– Connection and compassion
– Courage and vulnerability
– Candor and debate
– Action and accountability
In You, Me, We, they share valuable lessons on each of these aspects, to show you how to be a better friend at work, and how doing so leads to greater happiness, collaboration, and business outcomes.
You, Me, We.: Why we all need a friend at work (and how to show up as one!)
You, Me, We masterfully illustrates potent strategies for cultivating a spirit of kinship within any professional environment. Our modern work culture, often marred by individualism and isolation, can inadvertently foster an atmosphere of emotional detachment and gradually escalating conflict among team members. This book underscores the fundamental principle that prosperous professional relationships form the cornerstone of career success.
In order to cultivate such relationships, one must exercise intentionality. The objective should be a reciprocal connection, where both parties are invested in mutual growth. The authors highlighted the importance of proactive relationship building, highlighting a particularly notable section on transforming adversaries into allies. Adversarial relationships can often be traced back to mundane incidents, which, when recognized and addressed, can pave the way for constructive collaboration.
Embodying empathy and devoid of judgment, You, Me, We acknowledges the ease with which one can let negative relationships fester, ultimately staining the fabric of our professional lives. Through the lens of Fiona’s story, it delivers a cautionary tale, illuminating the destructive power of unchecked interpersonal issues at work while simultaneously reinforcing the notion that a strained relationship requires a concerted effort from both parties.
Framed through engaging, real-world narratives, the book feels akin to a conversation among friends. Its accessible language, corroborated by empirical evidence, reinforces its credibility and resonates with logic. You, Me, We is a harmonious blend of practical advice and thought-provoking insights, delivering an invigorating and rewarding reading experience that carries the potential to transform one’s professional life.
This narrative serves as a call to all professionals. While it applauds the merits of hard work, it emphasizes the value of camaraderie and mutual support in the journey to success. Leaders are prompted to foster an environment that encourages allyship, necessitating transformative actions at both individual and organizational levels. A thriving work culture hinges on leaders who genuinely support and collaborate with their staff as allies.
Written by Morag Barrett, Eric Spencer, and Ruby Vesely, this timely masterpiece serves as a gentle nudge to reembrace our social instincts as we navigate the post-pandemic work landscape. You, Me, We is an essential read for anyone seeking to purge negativity from their relationships, whether professionally or socially. Its messages are relevant to those desiring a more positive, fulfilling interpersonal existence.
Pages: 304 | ASIN : B09XV17RFW
The Exceptional Life R-Evolution
To live a fulfilling life is the goal. Every human being wants to lead a life that brings them joy and happiness. In her inspirational book The Exceptional Life R-Evolution: A practical guide to reach peak performance and create exceptional experiences in our workplaces, homes, and communities, author Jessica Tietjen discusses in depth the purpose of life, how to grow as an individual, and living the dream life. Reading this insightful book will open your eyes to different aspects of life. The author uses real-life examples to expound on the topics and personal touch on every subject she talks about.
Jessica Tietjen’s engaging nature is what makes the reading experience beautiful. The author knows how to get through to the reader. She writes about fascinating topics and gets the reader to reflect on the things being discussed.
Jessica Tietjen is modest, kind, and humble. Her language gives readers a look into her personality. Reading this book will encourage you to pursue better things in life. The Exceptional Life R-Evolution will provide you with the tools to make that 180-degree turn in improving your life balance. The content in the book is rewarding and will get you to achieve goals that you may not have imagined.
The four sections in the book have specific content. The first section is about performance. How do you get to perform? How many milestones can you hit? Are you ready for your peak? Jessica Tietjen helps you create exceptional experiences and progress to peak performance in the first section. Section two of the book focuses on the challenges we face as human beings. I appreciate the author for the discussion in this section. While reading about the challenges people go through at work, relationships, and how one can mend broken relations, the author talks of her experiences and gives advice on navigating the barriers we come across. This section of the book was my favorite because I connected with the author personally.
The last two sections of this book have life lessons. If you want to learn how to navigate the modern workplace and come up with solutions for problems at the workplace, then this book is for you. The author prudently writes on how to interact with colleagues, friends, and family and learn human behavior. My favorite part of section 4 was the discussion about leadership. This topic was informative and will get the leader out of you. Jessica Tietjen’s writing is impactful. Every subject has something beneficial for modern men and women. The author also talks about the status quo and how to bring positive change wherever we are.
The Exceptional Life R-Evolution: A practical guide to reach peak performance and create exceptional experiences in our workplaces, homes, and communities, is a valuable self-help and personal transformation book. This well-written book will help you reach your personal and professional goals.
Pages: 503 | ASIN : B09HQL5FDP
The Team Game
Every adult dreams of success and making it big in whatever career or business they are in. To be successful, however, you need to be disciplined, focus on your goals, gain knowledge everyday and use your skills the best way you can. In The Team Game: How Your Business Can Dominate Year after Year authors John Bucsek and Bellaria Jimenez share valuable advice on how to grow a business, build a team, and be at the top of your game. This book will be helpful to you especially if you are a growing entrepreneur. The authors have immense knowledge about running businesses and give pragmatic guidance. If you are in business, and are stuck, or do not know what method to apply to grow your business, then this book is for you as the authors have everything covered.
While the discussion in the book is mainly about business and reaching your goals, the authors use a positive tone that is encouraging and optimistic to those reading the book. Both John and Bellaria share their personal stories, and from their experiences one can tell that they had a few challenges before they made it. Readers will appreciate reading about real life experiences as they give a perspective of how things are run. One of the major lessons in the book is that it is okay to fail; what separates failures from those that succeed is how you rise after failing.
Unlike other books in this genre, the authors of The Team Game do not just suggest ways in which you can grow, they give step by step instructions and go a step further by quoting known businesses that have used the techniques successfully. The authors use facts and statistics to show how using these proven measures can move you from the bottom to the top swiftly. Some of the chapters that readers will enjoy are about coaching staff, the process of sales, choosing roles and responsibilities and team building.
Readers will appreciate the easy to comprehend style in The Team Game: How Your Business Can Dominate Year after Year by authors John Bucsek and Bellaria Jimenez. This is an informative and well researched book that shares practical and actionable advice that will help entrepreneurs and leaders create high functioning teams and, in effect, grow their business.
Pages: 244 | ASIN : B07R25K514
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