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Healing from Toxic Relationships in Marriage, Dating, and Interpersonal Connections: Break Free by Taking Steps Toward Recovery and Rebuilding Self-Esteem, Confidence and Healthy Boundaries
Reading this book feels like sitting down with a trusted friend who isn’t afraid to tell you the truth but always has your back. With a refreshingly candid writing style, Turpin dives deep into the complexities of relationships. It’s like getting advice from a life coach who’s been through it all and is ready to offer no-nonsense guidance on what makes relationships work.
One of the most engaging aspects of the book is the author’s relatable voice. It doesn’t read like a dry, academic textbook filled with jargon. Instead, it feels conversational and grounded, making even the toughest relationship challenges seem manageable. Turpin breaks down complex concepts into actionable advice, such as the importance of body language and the need for honest communication to avoid misunderstandings. This practical approach makes the book feel like a toolkit for everyday relationship struggles rather than a theoretical discussion. The balance between the highs and lows of relationships is another highlight. Turpin addresses the tough moments—wounds, betrayals, and heartbreaks—without unnecessary drama, showing how these difficult experiences can lead to profound growth. At the same time, the book celebrates the joy, laughter, and shared memories that make relationships worth the effort. This thoughtful balance reminds readers that while relationships require work, the rewards are undeniably worth it. The sections on building trust, mending after a breakup, and nurturing intimacy are particularly insightful. Rather than offering clichĂ© advice like “just communicate more,” Turpin emphasizes specific, realistic actions that foster connection. Simple gestures of kindness are given as much weight as addressing deeper issues, reinforcing the idea that small, consistent efforts can keep a relationship strong. In terms of writing style, it’s smooth sailing. The language is clear and direct, the advice is practical, and the pacing flows effortlessly. Turpin perfectly balances comforting the reader and pushing them to grow. By the end, you feel less overwhelmed and more equipped with clear steps to improve your relationships.
Healing from Toxic Relationships in Marriage, Dating, and Interpersonal Connections is a valuable resource for anyone seeking to strengthen their relationships with practical, no-nonsense advice. Turpin’s honest and relatable approach makes even the toughest challenges feel manageable while offering a balanced view of the partnership’s struggles and joys. With clear steps and real-life applications, the book provides readers with the tools they need to foster deeper, more meaningful connections. Whether you’re navigating trust issues, healing from heartbreak, or simply looking to improve communication, this book is an insightful and encouraging guide worth exploring.
Pages: 170 | ASIN : B0DG6WHHXM
Venturing Into Relationships
The Victorious Vagina takes readers on a journey through the highs and lows of modern relationships by sharing your experiences, from flirting to your first date to making a relationship work in the fast-paced life of NY City. Why was this an important book for you to write?
I really wanted to touch the minds and hearts of women when it comes to venturing into relationships. We have been duped into believing sex is what should come first.
What perspectives or beliefs have you challenged with this work?
The idea that sex will capture and keep a man. The feminist movement of the 70’s in America did more harm than good. Giving our precious flower to any and every man will not and has not made us the more powerful gender.
Has writing and publishing a book changed the way you see yourself?
Yes, very much. Years ago, a good friend asked if I thought I had a book in me, and I replied, yes. At the time I had no idea what I would write about, but I knew words would flow from my mind when the time was right.
What is the next book that you are working on, and when will it be available?
My next book is called The Vigilant Vagina – How To Recognize The Power Of The Flower. I hope that it will be available by December. It will conclude the vagina series.
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The city is adorned in all its glitter & glory. The air is filled with the electric excitement that only this time of year can bring. Meet Katie Slade, a lovely & savvy native New Yorker, frustrated full time employee, determined entrepreneur, who thinks she has just met the man of her dreams!
Meet Mr. GQ, the successful business hottie that sweeps Katie off her feet. He’s a spiritually grounded, self made man who is sophisticated, charming and generous. So, what does fate have in store for Katie in the world of business & romance? Find out when you take a memorable roller coaster ride with Katie, as she navigates the thrilling excitement of meeting Mr. GQ and her demanding corporate job and life as a single woman trying to get ahead in NYC. Share in her first date jitters and fiery flirtation with Mr. GQ. As well as the lows and highs of trying to make more money in one of the most expensive cities in the world! You’ll laugh, relate and learn some valuable lessons from this true life rollercoaster ride!
Hold on and enjoy!
Are There Really Plenty of Fish in The Sea?
Tony Demechees’s book, Are There Really Plenty of Fish in the Sea? offers a compelling glimpse into the complexities of modern dating and the nuanced quest for a compatible life partner. Drawing from his personal insights and broad observations, Tony paints a vivid picture of the often disheartening realities faced by those navigating the modern dating scene. His exploration into how societal expectations and personal desires intersect in the pursuit of romance is both enlightening and sobering.
Central to Tony’s narrative is the inventive metaphor of a novice fisherman embarking on his first fishing trip—an analogy that he uses to parallel the often bewildering experience of dating. This metaphor not only captures the inherent challenges but also highlights the strategic disadvantage at which novices find themselves. Tony deftly argues that success in the dating world requires not just hope but also strategy and a clear understanding of one’s goals and desires. He further explores the impact of background, age, and social status on dating choices, offering a nuanced view of how these factors shape our relationship trajectories. Particularly poignant is his discussion on the shifting relationship standards over time, especially among women contending with societal pressures and biological timelines. While the book’s engaging cover initially caught my eye, it was the depth of Tony’s insights and the relatability of the fishing analogy that truly held my attention. I found the comparison not only clever but deeply resonant. The
Are There Really Plenty of Fish in the Sea? is a thought-provoking and accessible read that effectively mirrors the complexities of contemporary romance. It’s a must-read for anyone who appreciates a realistic look at the emotional landscape of dating today, enriched with personal anecdotes and a reflective, analytical approach.
Pages: 41 | ASIN : B0CW19WWT7
An Honest Telling
To Venus and Back: One Man’s Quest to Rediscover Love is your story about becoming a widower and single parent at the age of fifty-one and your return to the dating world two years later. Why was this an important book for you to write?
There was an odd inner pull I felt to write my story, a story I never would have believed if I hadn’t lived it. I thought people needed an honest telling—from a man’s—perspective of what can happen in the world of dating, love, and sex. Dating memoirs and relationship books are a significant non-fiction category but are differentiated by gender. There are books about dating and relationships for women by women (spoiler alert, men don’t fare well) and the same for men (bro-books often written with locker-room mentalities). My book uniquely bridges this divide and fills a void—a dating memoir about women for women written by a man.
What were some ideas that were important for you to share in this book?
The biggest thing is that there are still people in this world—men in particular—for whom kindness is paramount. I also wanted to debunk the pervasive popular cultural thinking among some women that men are rather clueless—and maybe a bit unfeeling—when it comes to love. Lastly, for those who think love is about checking all the boxes, that’s not love. That’s accounting.
I appreciated the candid nature with which you told your story. What was the hardest thing for you to write about?
Several things were particularly hard. One was writing about various intimate situations. That was oddly strange in a way I’ve never felt before. Another was writing about—confessing—difficult personal failings and doubts. But if I was being honest about my story, I had to fess up and be honest about everything, including where I felt I was falling short. By far the most difficult thing I wrote about however was describing how my wife died. When I began writing my memoir I swore to myself I would not write about how she died. I didn’t think I could do it and I talked myself into thinking it wasn’t relevant for a book about the crazy world of online dating in middle age. But then I realized I had to, and it changed the narrative.
What is one thing you hope readers take away from your story?
We all have in our lives certain things we never talk about and never share—that which is the most personal and intimate and rarely makes it past a hushed conversation with a trusted friend if even that. After all is said and done, and after years of writing and all the work that went into it, I’m not sure how much the big picture on dating, relationships, and sex will change because of my book. But I do know for sure that between the covers of the book, one thing has changed—a man has spoken about things we just don’t speak about, and it’s one incredible story.
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At age fifty-one, Turner Grant became a widower and single parent to his twin boys. Deep in grief, he often found daily routines difficult and his work arduous. But after two years, Turner embarked on a journey to find his future, both in life and love.
What Turner discovered shocked him. After tentative steps into the shallow dating waters, he was quickly immersed in a deep ocean filled with unexpected riptides and crosscurrents within a digital-dating universe that didn’t exist when he last dated decades earlier.
In three years, he met fifty-four single, middle-aged women who took him to a totally different world—Venus. It was a journey—a journey that’s, well … complicated.
To Venus and Back, One Man’s Quest to Rediscover Love
To Venus and Back: One Man’s Quest to Rediscover Love is a poignant and relatable memoir that delves into the complexities of human relationships, grief, and the search for love. It’s an evocative journey that navigates the often-turbulent waters of dating and relationships after the devastating loss of a spouse. Author Turner Grant’s narrative voice is both sincere and engaging, making the reader feel like a confidant rather than just an observer.
I appreciated Grant’s writing style for its honesty and vulnerability. He doesn’t shy away from exposing his personal struggles, uncertainties, and the raw emotions that accompany the loss of a loved one and the subsequent journey toward healing and finding love again. His use of dialogue, particularly in conversations with his sons and friends, adds a layer of authenticity and helps to humanize his experiences. While I enjoyed this memoir, I felt that, at times, the detailed recounting of various dates and encounters felt a bit overwhelming and slightly detracted from the pace.
Otherwise, what I truly enjoyed in this memoir is Grant’s introspective exploration of the societal and personal expectations placed on men in the context of dating and relationships. His narrative challenges the stereotypical notions of masculinity, particularly in how men deal with grief and embark on new relationships. This perspective is a refreshing take on a subject I find is often mired in clichĂ©s.
The memoir’s exploration of online dating and the modern dating landscape offers a glimpse into the joys and pitfalls of seeking connection in the digital age. The authenticity of its descriptions will resonate with anyone who has navigated the complex world of online dating, particularly at a later stage in life.
To Venus and Back: One Man’s Quest to Rediscover Love is a memoir that speaks volumes about resilience, the enduring need for human connection, and the courage to embrace love again after loss. I recommend this book to anyone who has experienced significant loss or is navigating the intricacies of modern dating. Its heartfelt narrative and honest reflection make it a compelling read not just for those in similar situations but for anyone interested in understanding the impact of love and loss on the human spirit.
Pages: 376 | ASIN : B0BKQW6XM5
Healing Books For Women
This guide helps women identify their attachment wounds and help them reframe their thoughts to regain control over their relationships. What was the idea, or spark, that first set off the need to write Healing Your Attachment Wounds?
I’d not long self-published Women Going Sober when I experienced what I’d call a stark illumination of my wounded self. Researching Women Going Sober exposed me to Gabot Mate’s body of work, specifically his assertion that addictions originate in trauma and emotional loss. With this nugget of insight, I glimpsed how emotionally ill-formed I felt at my core. A harsh reality to own in my 60s! It dawned on me that I was showing up wounded in every relationship, be it with my partner, adult children, family, career choices, etc. This broken version of me was sabotaging any and all attempts to step fully into an authentic life I’d yearned for as a young girl. I wanted to understand what it meant to have attachment wounds, how I got them in the first place, and where the path to healing might take me. It was only a matter of months after publishing my first book that I launched into writing book #2 Healing Your Attachment Wounds.
What were some goals you set for yourself as a writer in this book?
The vision, when sitting down to write my healing books for women, bundled together as the Sisterhood series, was to blend the latest neuroscience research with an overlay of spiritual awakening, shared struggles and triumphs, peppered throughout with hope and sisterhood. I set out to create a relatable roadmap for personal transformation and healing that would guide my readers through issues emanating from attachment trauma.
In writing Healing Your Attachment Wounds, I imagined my readers would receive a comprehensive understanding of their attachment style and its effect on their interpersonal relationships.
I understood, as I embarked on this healing journey with my readers, I’d be taking courage to confront my own demons.
What is one thing that you hope readers take away from your book?
Healing implies emotional work. It requires us to put our suffering into perspective. To look for the gift wrapped up in the wounds we lay down. Letting go of our wounds, however, we got them in the first place, creates space for our story to be as magical as we can imagine. We commit to nothing less than a deeply loving opinion of ourselves.
Do you have future books planned for The Sisterhood Series? If so can you tell us what topics they will cover and when you expect them to be published?
Yes, I feel book #3 calling to be written. I took a road trip recently. It was a long, exhaustive 13-hour solo drive. Towards the end, I got a glimpse of the direction my next book in the Sisterhood series might take. I believe women, young and old, are on their own heroine’s journey to usher in personal transformation that will upshift us all. Using my own journey as the backdrop, as I did in books 1 and 2, might I create an impactful healing book that not only encourages transformative experiences but provides a roadmap to connect with and experience our heroic self?
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Many women don’t have secure attachment styles, which impacts adult behavior. By identifying and addressing attachment scars, we can more authentically improve the way we develop positive relationships in life.
If you’re a woman struggling with codependent behavior, addiction, anxiety, intimacy, or other trauma, former attachment wounds are molding your current experiences. Negative attachments, obsessions, and lack of trust no longer need to dominate or destroy your connections with others.
It’s time to reframe your attachment styles once and for all so you can heal, create personal independence, and establish successful relationships.
With a thorough examination and understanding of attachment, you can learn to more genuinely bridge a healthy relationship between yourself and others.
We build strong and thriving interpersonal relationships by learning how to comprehend our past and mend any damage caused by negative attachments. In this second book of The Sisterhood Series, author Boadi Moore offers insightful, candid, and personal connections to help readers quickly and effectively realize their healing potential.
Inside Healing Your Attachment Wounds, you’ll discover:How attachment styles impact individuals far into adulthood
Ways to understand which attachment styles connect most to your life
Raw and relatable stories that highlight how women can learn to let go of negative attachments
Strategies to explore and resolve negative parental attachment
Methods to detach from childhood trauma
Techniques to identify and heal toxic attachments
Ideas for reframing personal boundaries and communication
Unique and constructive self-care routines to begin celebrating you!
Plus, you’ll receive ideas for sharing your story of attachment and healing.
Neuroscientists and doctors are making society more and more aware of the undeniable connection between the mind, spirit, and body—which are holistically integrated parts of our whole being. Doctors Gabor Maté, Amir Levine, and Bessel van der Kolk are but a few of the prominent names who advocate this integrative mind-body system.
While the past shapes our behaviors and interactions with others, attachment wounds don’t have to impede our ability to succeed in the present. True integration of our wounds gives us the power to embrace love and nurture the connections we hold dear.
Healing Your Attachment Wounds: A Guide to What’s Hidden in Your Attachment Style and Relationships
Delving into the intricate world of developmental theory, Boadi Moore’s Healing Your Attachment Wounds illuminates the significant influence of childhood attachment on adult relationships. Moore thoroughly unpacks how attachment styles, shaped during early development, permeate through every aspect of relational interaction, occasionally leading to trauma and misunderstanding.
In this sophisticated exploration, the second in the Sisterhood series, Moore seamlessly combines her personal narratives with comprehensive research. Her transparent and candid writing style elucidates complex theoretical frameworks, making the subject matter both accessible and enlightening. Serving as an empathetic guide, Moore adopts a holistic perspective on attachment disorders, offering tangible steps towards healing and self-improvement.
One of the standout sections of this insightful book is the chapter dedicated to the concept of ‘letting go’. Despite the common skepticism around this idea, Moore convincingly argues that there comes a point where blaming upbringing loses its merit. Letting go, she posits, creates the necessary mental space to facilitate healing—a vital gem among numerous others in this compelling read.
Healing Your Attachment Wounds not only presents a powerful discourse on attachment styles and their implications, but also fosters meaningful conversation around these often-overlooked aspects of relational dynamics. Moore successfully reframes the common narratives around ‘toxic partners’ by encouraging readers to understand the underlying causes of their behaviors, thus promoting empathy and compassion.
Designed for anyone grappling with challenges related to intimacy, trust, anxious attachment, and identity merging, this book can serve as a valuable starting point. While it does not replace professional therapy, it equips the reader with a comprehensive understanding of their attachment style and its effect on interpersonal relationships. It inspires readers to embark on the journey of self-discovery and self-improvement.
Boadi Moore’s creation is indeed a beacon of hope for individuals seeking healthier relationships, despite the lingering effects of negative childhood attachments. It emphasizes that the past, while significant, need not dictate the future adversely.
The compelling narrative, coupled with Moore’s authentic connection with the reader, makes Healing Your Attachment Wounds not only worthy of one’s time but also deserving of recommendation. It truly serves as an instrument of healing for readers from all walks of life.
Pages: 303 | ASIN : B0C8P968GQ
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