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Around the World With a Spare Pair of Jeans: My Adventures Along the Hippie Trail and Beyond

Jean Ramer’s Around the World With a Spare Pair of Jeans is an engaging travel memoir that transports readers to 1975, when international travel required considerable patience, resourcefulness, and a willingness to embrace uncertainty. A young British schoolteacher eager for adventure, Ramer leaves England with her travelling companion, Nicola, intending to reach Australia by following the legendary Hippie Trail through Europe and Asia. Their ambitious journey takes them through Turkey, Iran, Afghanistan, Pakistan, India, Nepal, and Thailand, introducing them to unfamiliar cultures, remarkable landscapes, and a seemingly endless assortment of logistical complications. Travelling on a limited budget, they rely on local transportation, inexpensive accommodations, and the kindness of strangers. Ramer recounts these experiences with warmth, candour, and an appealing sense of humour, capturing the excitement of exploring unfamiliar territory during a period when independent travel demanded considerable flexibility. Her memoir also offers a fascinating glimpse of countries and communities as they existed more than fifty years ago.

Ramer has the ability to transform ordinary travel frustrations into entertaining stories. Missed connections, overcrowded trains, questionable accommodations, language barriers, and bewildering bureaucratic procedures become opportunities for amusing observations and unexpected encounters. Her descriptive writing brings these experiences to life, whether she’s navigating chaotic city streets, exploring magnificent historical sites, or coping with the unpredictable realities of budget travel. Ramer has a particularly enjoyable way of acknowledging her own mistakes, often recognizing the absurdity of a situation only after she has become thoroughly entangled in it. Her recurring reminders to remain adaptable, including the wonderfully succinct “Lesson #2: Remember Lesson #1,” establish a playful thread throughout the narrative. The conversational style makes readers feel as though they’re listening to a seasoned traveller sharing memorable stories over coffee, complete with entertaining digressions, occasional exasperation, and genuine delight at her discoveries.

Beyond its entertaining anecdotes, the memoir provides a revealing portrait of everyday life along the Hippie Trail during the mid-1970s. Ramer pays close attention to local customs, transportation systems, marketplaces, food, architecture, and the economic circumstances of the people she encounters. Her observations are particularly compelling in Afghanistan and Iran, where her descriptions preserve impressions of societies on the verge of profound historical changes. Equally memorable are the relationships she develops with fellow travellers and local residents, whose generosity, curiosity, and companionship frequently shape her experiences. The narrative also conveys the distinctive challenges of travelling as a young woman, including unwanted attention, concerns about personal safety, and the need to exercise judgment in unfamiliar situations. These experiences are presented through the perspective of a woman learning to navigate cultural differences while developing confidence in her own decisions. The book’s chronological, destination-by-destination structure gives readers an intimate sense of the journey’s changing pace, with practical details reinforcing the realities of extended travel on a shoestring budget.

What makes Around the World With a Spare Pair of Jeans particularly appealing is its combination of personal recollection, historical atmosphere, and infectious enthusiasm for discovery. Ramer writes with an appreciation for both extraordinary sights and fleeting human interactions, recognizing that an unexpected conversation or small act of generosity can become as memorable as a celebrated landmark. Her reflections also reveal how travel encourages independence, resilience, and a growing awareness of the many ways people live. As she observes, “I loved the unpredictability of it,” a sentiment that captures the spirit running throughout her adventures. Readers interested in travel memoirs, cultural history, and the experiences of independent travellers before the digital age will find much to enjoy in this lively account. With its colourful characters, vivid settings, and personable narration, Ramer’s memoir preserves the pleasures and challenges of an adventurous era while celebrating the curiosity and determination that inspire people to explore the wider world.

Pages: 162 | ISBN : 978-1038351449

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Dreams Are Important

Bernard Leo Remakus Author Interview

The Other Disney follows a former baseball player and his family as unexpected setbacks test their resilience, priorities, and ability to find joy in what they already have. What was the inspiration for the setup of your story?

I was inspired by the realization that rich families can visit Walt Disney World often and even take it for granted, while poor families can only dream about seeing what has been called “the happiest place on earth,” even for only a day. Having visited Walt Disney World and taken advantage of the free transportation, such as the Sky Rides, monorails, boats, buses, and trams, as well as the free attractions, such as the exotic animals at the Animal Kingdom Lodge, live music and movies at various resorts, and nightly fireworks, I realized a family could visit Walt Disney World and have a wonderful experience, even if they couldn’t afford the expensive hotels, restaurants, or theme parks. I wanted to share my discovery with families that had more dreams than means, and cast a literary vote for the best things in life being free.

How did the story change from your initial concept to the finished novel?

I write all my novels backwards. I write the ending first, and then record how the characters make it from the start to the finish line. So, the only changes from my initial concept to the finished novel are the addition of ideas I get along the way that enhanced the narrative without changing the plot. These additions may come in the form of supporting characters, minor subplots, or just little-known facts.

Why was it important that Andy’s identity not be defined entirely by baseball?

Andy idolizes his father, and as is true in many strong father-son relationships, Andy realizes that his father’s dream in life to play major league baseball was cut short by a career-ending injury. So, Andy falls in love with baseball just as his father did, but he does so cautiously, realizing that what we do professionally is not as important as who we are. His caution is supported by the humble means of his family, and his realization that dreams are important – even the ones that don’t come true.

What do you hope families might take away from the D’Isignys’ approach to a budget-conscious vacation?

The greatest memories of a vacation rarely take into account how much money was spent as much as they do how the time together brought family members closer.

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After he apprehends a fleeing shoplifter, Val D’Isigny is unexpectedly fired from his job as a security officer at a large North Carolina home improvement center. Unemployed and short on cash, it appears the devoted father will be forced to break an earlier promise and cancel his son Andy’s birthday trip to Walt Disney World.

When all hope for the family’s trip appears to be lost, wife Eleanor searches the internet and comes up with a plan that will allow her family to spend Andy’s 10th birthday at Walt Disney World for nothing more than the price of groceries and gasoline. Her plan includes sleeping in their truck at interstate rest areas, eating food brought from home, and riding the free transportation at Walt Disney World, like the monorail, cable cars, and boats that link the various parks and resorts, and enjoying its free attractions, like the African zoo, resort movies, and fireworks.

Will Eleanor’s plan bring her son the birthday party he dreams of at Walt Disney World?

How will a day in the land of magic change the lives of the D’Isigny family?

Fundamental Pillars of Life

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Kevin Peterson Author Interview

A Poetic Wandering is a reflective collection spanning four decades in which you explore memory, family, Kansas history, travel, nature, faith, humor, and the experiences that shape a life. What role has poetry played in helping you process emotions, develop self-awareness, and make sense of your experiences?

Growing up as an only child, I wasn’t able to compare life experiences or receive guidance from a sibling. There were times I felt lonely, times I felt life was unfair, times when anger reared its ugly head. Writing became a means to document and work through some of life’s instabilities. The process eventually created opportunities for stronger self-confidence and self-esteem.

How has becoming a parent—and later reflecting on family across generations—influenced your poetry?

As one ages, we realize more and more the true importance of faith, family, and friends. I was truly blessed to grow up with parents who believed in these tenets. As parents, my wife and I tried to instill these beliefs in our own children. Sharing these fundamental pillars of life through family generations only makes sense.

Your collection moves comfortably between serious subjects and humorous poems about aging, grilling, toilet paper, and everyday life. Why is humor important to the overall balance of the book?

Poetry should be reflective at times, entertaining at times. I want readers to understand what I am sharing without having to dissect obscure, remote, or hidden meanings. Regarding humor…didn’t Ficino say “Humor Is the Spice of Life.”

What do you hope readers—especially parents, grandparents, travelers, and people reflecting on their own lives—take away from A Poetic Wandering?

I hope that by sharing my thoughts and experiences, it may help others to BE POETIC themselves.

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A Poetic Wandering

Kevin R. Peterson’s A Poetic Wandering feels much like its title suggests: a long, personal walk through memory, family, Kansas history, travel, nature, faith, humor, and the ordinary experiences that accumulate into a life. The collection reaches back to poems from Peterson’s 1980s chapbooks and then moves into work written across the following four decades, so the reader gets something close to a poetic autobiography. Peterson explains that poetry became a way for him to work through emotions, develop self-awareness, reflect on experience, and share what he’d learned, and that purpose remains visible throughout the book. The result is a collection that’s interested less in maintaining a single mood than in recording the things a person notices and carries with him over many years.

The most affecting section is the group of poems drawn from Kendra: A Father’s Feelings. Here Peterson writes about his young daughter’s grave illness, survival, deafness, and the family’s adjustment to a frightening new reality. The poems are plainspoken and emotionally immediate. In “Hospital Paradox,” the birth of one child and the medical crisis of another exist almost side by side, while “Can It Be” captures the complicated mixture of gratitude and sorrow after his daughter survives but loses her hearing. “Roller Skates” then turns a Christmas gift into something far larger, because having their daughter home and alive has changed what the family values. These poems are strong because Peterson trusts the events themselves to carry the emotion. That directness gives the family material an intimacy that stays with you.

Elsewhere, the book widens considerably. Kansas appears again and again through prairie landscapes, pioneers, bison, Dust Bowl memories, sunflowers, local history, and Peterson’s sense of generational connection to the land. Travel adds another dimension, with poems about Yellowstone, Florida, wilderness hiking, canoe country, sunsets, campsites, and the decades-long project of visiting all fifty states with his wife. Nature often becomes a doorway into something spiritual. Peterson says explicitly that it’s where he feels most comfortable and where he most strongly connects with God. There’s also a welcome streak of playfulness, including poems about toilet paper, aging, grilling, and other subjects that keep the collection from becoming uniformly meditative. Near the end, Peterson brings poetry and photography together in what he calls a “poetograph,” combining his own images with brief poetic responses. That makes the closing pages feel like a natural culmination of two lifelong interests.

I’d recommend A Poetic Wandering to readers who enjoy accessible, personal poetry rooted in recognizable experiences rather than poetry that needs to be decoded before it can be felt. It should have particular appeal for Midwestern readers, nature lovers, travelers, parents and grandparents, people interested in family or regional history, and readers who’ve reached an age when looking backward and looking forward begin to happen at the same time. Peterson writes with the perspective of someone interested in preserving memories while he still has the chance to name them, whether those memories involve a hospital room, a Kansas field, a campsite, a marriage, a family tragedy, or a ridiculous question about which way the toilet-paper roll should face. That range is the book’s real character. It reads like one man opening several decades of notebooks and photographs and inviting you to wander through them with him.

Variety and Discovery

Miry Bejerano Author Interview

In Balu the Paw-Traveler Visits the Seven Modern Wonders, an adventurous black Labrador takes children on a trip around the globe to see how diverse our world is. What inspired you to create Balu the Paw-Traveler and make him the guide for children’s adventures around the world?

Traveling is my passion, and showing the world to my boys is something I truly enjoy. The idea for Balu the Paw-Traveler came to me when I was looking for a book about the Seven Modern Wonders to share with my sons. I couldn’t find one that felt suitable for their ages and included the kind of adventure and learning I was looking for, so I decided to create the story myself.

Balu was inspired by my own black Labrador. He isn’t a puppy anymore, but he still has that sweet puppy face that made him the perfect character to guide young readers around the world.

I also wanted to give parents a tool to spark curiosity and show their kids that there are so many amazing places, cultures, and experiences to discover around us. I believe an adventure can start long before we actually visit a place. Sometimes, reading about it is that first step—it opens their imagination, encourages them to ask questions, and makes them excited to discover more.

The book introduces geography alongside food, language, music, traditions, animals, and activities. Why was it important to show children several different aspects of each culture?

When I travel, I’m always looking for variety and discovery. When I plan an itinerary, I don’t want to simply visit a famous landmark and move on. I want to try the food, hear the music, learn about the traditions, see the wildlife, and experience the little details that make each destination unique.

I wanted to bring that same feeling into Balu the Paw-Traveler. That’s why I tried to include as many different elements as possible throughout his journey. I want young explorers to see that discovering the world is about much more than seeing a famous place. It’s about experiencing the variety, diversity, cultures, flavors, sounds, and traditions that make every destination unforgettable.

That is what makes traveling so exciting to me, and it’s the feeling I hope readers take with them on Balu’s adventure.

In your story, you frequently invite children to participate through movement, imagination, language, and other activities. Why was interactive learning important to you?

I didn’t want Balu the Paw-Traveler to be a story that you simply read and then put back on the shelf. I wanted young explorers to participate in the adventure and feel like they were traveling alongside Balu.

Throughout the book, readers are invited to do things themselves: learn a samba step, practice yoga, close their eyes and use their imagination, and even think about what it might feel like to have the wind on their faces or butterflies in their tummies.

Reading about an experience is wonderful, but when you read, move, imagine, and participate at the same time, it becomes something you can actually feel. Those feelings are often what we remember most. That was my goal with Balu: to make the adventure feel as real as possible and turn reading into an experience rather than just a story.

Is The Seven Modern Wonders the beginning of more journeys for Balu, and are there other parts of the world or subjects you’d especially like him to explore?

Absolutely! The Seven Modern Wonders is only Balu’s first adventure. I’m already working on more journeys that will take him to new places and give young explorers even more opportunities to discover our incredible world. Future adventures may take Balu across continents, oceans, national parks, and beyond.

My goal is to continue creating adventures that encourage families to explore, learn, ask questions, and stay curious about the world around them. There is so much for Balu to discover, and I’m very excited about where his paws will take him next!

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Join Balu, the Paw Traveler, on an exciting journey to the Seven Modern Wonders of the World! This adventurous black Labrador takes young readers to breathtaking landmarks, meeting animal friends and sharing fascinating facts along the way.

Perfect for children ages 4-12, this educational travel adventure blends fun storytelling with real-world learning. Kids will explore Machu Picchu, the Great Wall of China, the Colosseum, and more, all through the eyes of a lovable dog.

With vibrant illustrations and an engaging narrative, Balu the Paw Traveler: Visits the Seven Modern Wonders is a multicultural picture book and a geography learning tool that sparks curiosity and a love for exploring our planet.

Ideal for bedtime reading, classroom learning, or as a gift for young adventurers, this travel story will inspire them to keep exploring our amazing world.

Ready, set, paws.
Adventure awaits, let’s go!


A Common Thread

Jeremiah Gilbert Author Interview

An Atlas of Ordinary Wonders: Dispatches from the Edge is a beautifully curated collection of photographic essays celebrating the extraordinary stories hidden within ordinary places. What inspired you to gather these twenty photo essays into a single collection?

The idea for An Atlas of Ordinary Wonders: Dispatches from the Edge grew out of a desire to bring together photographs and stories that might otherwise remain scattered across different places and different moments in my travels. The twenty photo essays originally appeared in Edge of Humanity Magazine, and I wanted to give them a second life as a single volume.

What connects these essays is not geography so much as a way of seeing. I have always been drawn to places that reveal something about the human experience—markets, streets, neighborhoods, forgotten landscapes, religious spaces, and communities that may not appear on a conventional tourist itinerary. A livestock market in Kashgar, a historic Chinese settlement in California, a night market in Taiwan, or the stark landscape of Namibia can seem very different on the surface. Still, each contains stories about identity, history, resilience, work, and everyday life.

The title An Atlas of Ordinary Wonders reflects that idea. Travel has taught me that wonder isn’t necessarily found in famous landmarks. Sometimes it is found in an old wall, a stranger’s expression, a crowded market, or a place that most people pass by. I wanted the book to encourage readers to slow down and look more closely at the seemingly ordinary world around them.​

Your travels take readers from Kashgar and Haiti to Namibia and South Korea. How did you choose the destinations that appear in the book?

The destinations were chosen less by a checklist of countries than by the stories and visual possibilities I encountered there. Having traveled extensively, I have learned to remain open to places that surprise me. Sometimes I arrive somewhere because I have been fascinated by its history or culture; other times, a location presents itself as an unexpected photographic opportunity.

I am particularly attracted to places where layers of history, culture, and everyday life intersect. Markets are a good example. They are not simply places where people buy and sell things; they are living portraits of a community. Architecture can tell similar stories, as can street art, religious traditions, abandoned places, and ordinary moments of daily life.

I also look for a sense of place that cannot easily be separated from the people who inhabit it. The locations in this collection are geographically diverse, but I hope the photographs reveal a common thread: wherever we live, people create meaning through their surroundings. My goal is not simply to photograph where I have been, but to photograph what those places have to say.​

The book includes discussions of lenses, lighting, and composition. Why was it important to share the technical side of the creative process?

Photography is both an art and a craft. I wanted the book to address both sides of that equation. I started including this information with my previous book, Around the World in Eighty Photos. There, it was focused on the thought process and settings for creating a single image, whereas here it is about creating a series of images.

A photograph may appear spontaneous, but there are usually dozens of decisions behind it—where to stand, which lens to use, how to frame the subject, what to include or exclude, how to respond to the available light, and sometimes, most importantly, when to wait. Sharing those considerations gives readers a glimpse into how I approach a scene rather than simply presenting the finished image.

I also wanted the technical discussions to be useful to photographers who are interested in travel photography themselves. You don’t need the most expensive equipment to create a meaningful photograph. Understanding light, composition, perspective, and timing is far more important than having a particular camera or lens.

Ultimately, though, technique is in service of storytelling. I don’t want readers to look at a photograph and think only about the equipment used to make it. I want them to feel something, become curious about the place, and perhaps imagine themselves standing there. The technical choices matter because they help translate an experience into an image.

How has your approach to travel photography changed over the past decade?

Perhaps the biggest change is that I have become more patient. Earlier in my travels, I was often focused on seeing and photographing as much as possible. Over time, I have become more interested in slowing down and allowing a place to reveal itself.

I have also become less interested in making photographs that simply announce, “I was here.” The iconic photograph of a destination has its place, but I’m increasingly drawn to the quieter, less obvious moments—the details, gestures, textures, faces, shadows, and encounters that communicate something deeper about a place.

My approach has also become more intentional. I think more about the story I am trying to tell and how individual photographs relate to one another. A single photograph can be powerful, but a series can create a much richer sense of place.

And, perhaps most importantly, travel photography has taught me to pay greater attention to people. The longer I travel, the more I realize that geography is only part of what makes a place distinctive. Places are ultimately shaped by the people who live in them. My camera has become a way of listening—quietly, visually, and with curiosity. I hope my photographs reflect that sense of connection and respect.

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An Atlas of Ordinary Wonders is a journey across overlooked corners of the world and into the heart of everyday life. Gathering twenty vivid photo essays originally published in Edge of Humanity Magazine, this collection captures the beauty, resilience, and complexity of communities often absent from traditional travel narratives. From the bustling livestock markets of Kashgar to the fading streets of California’s last Chinese town, from the glowing energy of Ningxia Night Market to the windswept landscapes of the Sigatoka Sand Dunes, these essays reveal extraordinary stories hidden within ordinary moments.

Blending documentary photography with reflective storytelling, An Atlas of Ordinary Wonders invites readers to slow down and look closer. Each chapter offers an intimate portrait of place, culture, labor, memory, or survival, celebrating the small rituals and human connections that shape life across continents. More than a travel book, it is a meditation on curiosity, empathy, and the quiet wonders waiting at the edge of the familiar.


Entertain and Enthrall

Alan Bartels Author Interview

Secret Nebraska Sandhills takes readers beyond the highways and familiar attractions to discover the hidden stories of the region. You describe many of the stories as having been discovered accidentally. What was the first unexpected story that made you realize there might be an entire book hiding out there?

I was doing a book signing event for my previous book, 100 Things To Do In The Nebraska Sandhills Before You Die, when a man told me a story that blew my mind. That man was a former county sheriff. He shared with me the report he received about there being alien tunnels near Ringgold, Nebraska. I won’t share all of the details here, but when this man – I will call him Sheriff John – told me this tale and mentioned extraterrestrials and even the US president, well, when it came time to put this book together, that tale was one of the first ones that I investigated. I am thankful that we were able to exchange contact information and the man didn’t entirely give me the cold shoulder when I started calling and texting- touching base was difficult at first.

The addresses, prices, photographs, captions, and “pro tips” make the book genuinely useful for travelers, but it doesn’t read like a conventional guidebook. How did you decide how much practical information to include?

Many of the features in the book are not places that the public can get to easily. It is not a travel book. My intent was to entertain and enthrall. Only if the feature has a bona nfide attraction included in it did I include the tips.

Was there one photograph that became much more meaningful after you learned the history behind what you’d captured?

Due to my 11 years as editor of Nebraska Life magazine, Nebraskans know me for my writing AND photography. One critique I heard most after my travel book, 100 Things To Do In The Nebraska Sandhills Before You Die came out was that there were ot enough photographs. In Secret Nebraska Sandhills, there are more than 160 color photos. I felt that was important because photos can do so much to help tell a story. The circuitous photo of the North Loup River in the book’s final feature has become very meaningful. The reason is that, due to the river cutting into the roadbed, there is now a construction project underway to move the road to the south. The scene that I have long considered the most beautiful place in Nebraska will soon no longer be able to be seen by the public. The photo captures a special moment in Sandhills time.

Your book repeatedly demonstrates that extraordinary stories can hide inside places most people barely notice. What do you think we lose when we travel only to famous destinations and stop paying attention to everything between them?

To me, the best history and best stories come from the unknown places. The known attractions can be fun, but adventurers should never focus only on those. By being curious about how seemingly ordinary people live, and by wondering about their history and/or that of a particular place, we learn more about the culture of an area. And ultimately, I think we learn more about ourselves.

One last question: after all your research, do you believe in the Walgren Lake Monster?

I do not believe that there is a gigantic serpent-like reptile reminiscent of the Loch Ness Monster swimming in or near Walgren Lake. But I believe it does exist in the history and culture of the Sandhills. Folklore is oftentimes more entertaining than the truth, and I like to think that we haven’t solved all of Earth’s mysteries just yet.

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Where in Nebraska can people explore a Stonehenge-inspired sculpture made from old cars, watch the night sky from one of the darkest places on Earth, float downstream in a livestock water tank through a more-than-a-century-old cattle ranch, and dive into a bottomless spring that some say is impossible to sink into? The Sandhills is an approximately 20,000-square-mile region of grass-stabilized sand dunes that cover one-quarter of the state of Nebraska. This is a grassland described both as a prairie sea and an ocean of grass, where cowboys still ride horses and ranch families know that if they are good to the land, the land will be good to them. The rich history here blends with folklore tales of haunted hotels, unsolved murders, and ghost railroads—and cryptozoological oddities such as the Walgren Lake Monster and the Sandhills Monkey. Voices quiet when conversations turn to UFOs and extraterrestrials, and perhaps no Sandhills resident has ever appeared more otherworldly than mythical Broken Bow resident Horace Easterwood who was pictured on the cover of a tabloid sporting a 40-inch horn growing from his head! In Secret Nebraska Sandhills: A Guide to the Weird, Wonderful, and Obscure, longtime Nebraskan storyteller and photographer Alan J. Bartels provides a one-of-a-kind look into the region’s lesser-known history and culture, discovered sometimes by accident but also through dogged research, folklore, memories, and mythology shared by generous Sandhills residents.

A Desire To Test Myself

Judy Depue Author Interview

Lady Vagabond is a thoughtful and adventurous memoir of solo travel, professional discovery, and personal transformation. Was the trip initially driven more by personal reinvention, professional curiosity, or the desire to test yourself?

My trip was more driven by a desire to test myself. Initially, I sought the adventure of pursuing my travel dreams. I also understood I was unprepared for many of the roles in a man’s world. Solo travel seemed to be a way to test myself and become more worldly in the process. At age 31, with a doctorate degree, I thought I was already grown up. Before long, however, I discovered I had much more to learn.

What did traveling alone allow you to experience that you might have missed with a companion?

With a companion, we are more likely to talk to each other instead of engaging with other travelers or local people. I’m not a particularly gregarious person, but I enjoy a one-on-one conversation with a willing seatmate on a bus or train. As a solo traveler, I could also be more flexible about taking opportunities that came my way and others may have been more likely to invite me on those, including to come into their homes.

Then I found something more interesting came from my encounters. They often challenged my thinking—on my politics, my professional goals, my world view. This wasn’t a bad thing. As a result, I learned to clarify my beliefs and values. I learned to respect others’ world views and recognize my own. My personal identity became clearer.

Which community or host family most changed your understanding of everyday life in another part of the world?

The South Pacific cultural world view of collectivism, where the value of family supersedes the individual, became an immediate contrast with the American individualism I had taken for granted. This discovery came with my first contacts in American Samoa and again in (Western) Samoa and Figi. The same values are common in most of Asia. In fact, I found American individualism to be more the exception. These cultures also emphasized living in the present and this value carried into New Zealand and Australia, with their “she’ll be right” philosophy. The culture conflicts I witnessed made the contrasting world views even clearer to see. These discoveries turned my driven achievement mindset on its head. And eventually, I developed more flexibility about being the master of my fate versus living in the moment and trusting myself in chance.

Your memoir ultimately replaces a rigid ideal of self-reliance with a more flexible understanding of human capability. Why was that realization important enough to become the heart of the book?

That’s right. First, I came to appreciate that when I confronted problems, and if I asked for help, that help came to me. Not only did I not have to figure things out alone, my new friends led me to better opportunities than I could have imagined. For example, my quest to get into Australia’s interior on my tight budget was taken up by a string of friends and friends of friends. Everyone putting their collective heads together produced a creative solution, with my ride on the truck and learning about the Outback world view. I also found a helpful community among the network of fellow travelers. Not everyone was helpful, but persistence often pays off, help comes. That process became reinforced with my professional queries, as it got me into places I never would have seen as a tourist, like the health center in the Aboriginal community and in Papua New Guinea. I found collaboration and multi-disciplinary teamwork in some community health settings and that gave me inspiration for my future roles.

It may seem contradictory that I advocate for the advantages of solo travel while I also challenge the ideal of self-reliance. Sometimes we have to draw on self-reliance skills and it’s good to feel comfortable in our own company when we’re alone. But here’s where the connections come in, as I mentioned earlier. On several occasions I sought a companion to feel safe—in Papua New Guinea, in most cities after dark, and trekking in Nepal–until I got left behind. I got off the mountain pass by myself, with one careful step after another, but I would have been safer with a companion in case I might trip and fall. Asking for help isn’t a weakness. We need to think more critically about our one-size-fits-all dictums. Neither approach fits every situation.  

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Lady Vagabond is a memoir of becoming-of learning where you belong in a rapidly changing world.

In 1978, newly minted psychologist Judy DePue leaves a prestigious research job and sets out alone on a round-the-world journey, determined to prove she can do “big things” on her own. Raised on a rural dairy farm yet shaped by the promises of the women’s movement, she feels caught between tradition and possibility, independence and connection. From grass huts in the South Pacific to Himalayan Mountain passes, from Aboriginal communities in Australia to crowded cities in Southeast Asia, Judy navigates risks, kindnesses, cultural change, and her own self-doubts. Along the way, she pursues an independent study with the World Health Organization, exploring how behavioral health is woven-or ignored-within global healthcare systems.

What emerges is not a solitary hero’s tale, but a heroine’s journey-one that reveals strength in collaboration, courage in asking for help, and belonging in unexpected places. For women and seekers navigating a changing world, Lady Vagabond is a resonant story of identity, resilience, and finding your place in the world.