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Grandma’s Secret Blessings, is a deeply personal and dramatic-memoir that tells the story of Yianni’s life, family, troubles, and successes. What was the inspiration that made you want to write this memoir?
After my trip to the Old Country in 1995 I found a shift in my thinking and my lifestyle. It was the childhood promise to my grandparents that drove me to the Old Country. In doing so, I had multiple synchronistic events that made me start seeing that there was something higher at work related to my life. The family name for instance, Meta, means “to Transcend and go beyond.” Discovering this caused me to begin transcending and go beyond in my everyday life events and thinking. The most eventful inspiration came when I was in Sedona two years ago and I asked my Divine Author Within to help me present my story. I was at a TomBird.com weekend retreat, Titled, “Write your Book in a Weekend.” It was there that the inspiration came to me to write the stories of my life to a pseudo family, which was dysfunctional like my family, to depict the horrible aspects of my life living with a father who hated me and destroyed or sabotaged me in multiple ways throughout my life.
I felt like this was a very personal account of life. What was the hardest thing for you to write about?
I think the hardest thing for me to write about was related to my granddaughter who I have yet to be introduced to and I wanted her to know the story of life someday, in case I never get the opportunity to meet her. Telling the stories through the pseudo family helped me feel some comfort in knowing someday, she might know the real me.
There are many of grandma’s ‘secret blessings’ in the story which I think many of us could relate to. Why did you choose this title and theme for your book?
Reading my story as you know, I was the lucky one because I got to know our grandparents and a very deep level, more so than any other grandchild. Most of my cousins never met our grandparent. I adored them and they adored me. They were my heroes and my mentors, more so than my own father who has hated me since the day I was born. Even after their death, things have transpired that have shown me they are with me even now.
What do you hope readers take away from your story?
We all have wounded children within our psyche. I hope readers will recognize they aren’t alone and that when they face their internal demons, they can move forward in their lives.
I will tell you the most rewarding thing about writing this book happened one week before Christmas, when a childhood (teenage) friend who I escorted to one of our high school Dance and have not seen or talked to in many years wrote me the following message one week before Christmas. This is what writing a book is all about:
Hi—Just finished reading your book. It was soul stirring! Your narratives provided me with answers to my own heartbreak. The perfect choice to read during this emotional season.Hopefully in the new year and with time, I too, can learn to replace anger with forgiveness, Thank you. Merry Christmas.
For me, it’s not about making money with my book as much as it is for helping others recognize they too can heal their wounded child or in my cases their wounded children.
What is the next book that you are writing and when will it be available?
My next book, “Ghosts or Spirit! The Healing Stories of the Wounded Child” will not be a memoir. It will be real life situations, turned into stories eventually healed or not, with the aid of the Chiron, the Wounded Healer. Which will be written by, Chiron JohnEgreek. Look for it next fall. I’m really excited about this one, because in writing my Memoir, I found my life purpose is to be a Wounded Healer.
Take a ride with JohnEgreek as he journeys to the Old Country to fulfill a childhood promise made to his grandparents when he was six years old. His grandmother, insightful and deeply spiritual guides him throughout his lifetime and after she is gone, as he himself opens to the reality of something higher than himself.
Second-generation Greek-American born, Author JohnEgreek, is brought into this world in 950 to a broken family. His father hates him from the very first day he is born and lives up to the unseen contract to hate him his entire life, without ever giving him a clue as to why. His mother showers him with her love, until her eventual death at the early age of fifty-one, which then forces him to grow on his own.
The powerful childhood promise becomes the avenue that opens his heart and awakens his soul. Grandma, who leaves the physical world when he is in his teens, enlightens him while she is alive and never stops enlightening him when she goes beyond, as she continues to shower him with her many “Secret Blessings.”
What happens along the way is a surreal journey and a deeply rooted experience? Travel with him and his pseudo family, as they discover the avenue to his soul and the recipe to Grandma’s Secret Blessings. You too can find the key that unlocks the door to the hidden ability to “transcend and go beyond.”
This book is for anyone teetering on the edge of disbelief that there is something higher than their greatest expectations as to why things happen. Everyone at some time or another will lose a loved one, but death is not the end, it is the beginning and they do find a way to speak to you from beyond. Make no mistake, this book will open your eyes as you discover the magical recipe to Grandma’s Secret Blessings and you too can use them to heal your heart and find the avenue to your soul.
The author recognizes that he is no one special, just a retired senior citizen, with a strained relationship with his adult children and a grandchild that he has never met. He has a unique and creative way to tell the emotional story about his life that will take you on a roller-coaster ride that will emit feelings of anger, guilt, fear, sorrow and pain. At times, it will be an agonizing, yet truthful story. During the unforgettable journey to the Old Country he has multiple synchronistic events where he finds the hidden secrets that provide him with the necessary elements to set himself free, heal his wounded children and unlock the door to his heart. You too can “Transcend and Go Beyond.”
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A life story told alongside life lessons…
Grandma’s Secret Blessings: A Memoir with a Twist, is a deeply personal and dramatic-memoir. It tells the story of Yianni’s life, family, troubles, and successes. Told from a mix of first and third-person viewpoints, it gives an interesting perspective on how a person develops character. Central to the book’s theme are the secret blessings, which are a collection of inspirational messages, trans-cultural personal instructions, and existential aspirations. The book also has a number of lessons passed down by Yianni’s grandmother from the Greek oral tradition.
Yianni and his family are Greek in origin, and as such, they share a long history involving the oral transmission of stories. Over history, folk tales and legends were often performed by storytellers in front of audiences, including young children and even grown children, such as Yianni. This culture is present in the story as Yianni learns of his family history, reaching clear back to great-great-grandparents. This family history has personal ties back to Greece and Albania, much of it during a time of serious political and economic turmoil. Of course, those history lessons passed down to Yianni are also infused with Grandma’s life lessons for Yianni. This is all interspersed with Yianni’s own personal history, along with description for the way that these stories and lessons helped him.
There are more than ten of grandma’s secret blessings, many of which existing in some form in many different cultures and languages. However, what makes the lessons particularly powerful is that in Yianni’s experience with his abusive father, Yianni explains that, “…it’s the only way to close the gaping hole in my heart.” Many of these secret blessings are a blessing in that they are a form of grace, protection, or favor for Yianni. “You are the captain of your own ship,” as an example, explains for Yianni that no matter what tosses you around and what terrible things may befall you, you still have control in your own life and life choices. This is how the book is a memoir “with a twist.”
Grandma’s Secret Blessings is not perfect in its presentation. For example, there are a number of typographical and grammatical errors, as well as punctuation mistakes that are distracting. However, these generally do not detract from the message and central themes of the story. In a way, it conveys the very essence of that oral tradition, which is sometimes imperfect and lost in translation.
Grandma’s Secret Blessings is intended for adult audiences. There are depictions of child and intimate partner abuse, discussions of sexuality and sexual behavior, and alcohol and drug abuse. These depictions are realistic in nature, contributing to the overall feel of the book and its weighty emotionality. Overall, even with the copy-editing errors, Grandma’s Secret Blessings is a good read for those looking for emotional and inspirational literature.
Pages: 364 | ASIN: B077PLR98B
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